Is vanilla slowly dying???

[adriano46]

Missed this the first time around but to put my own 2-cents worth - I am 99.99% VANILLA.

 

I have hired some guys who are into kink and into some pretty heavy things but never drugs, nor BB, nor watersports (the idea makes me ill as I spent too many years in the past cleaning up after male patients in a hospital - eeewwwwwww). Yes I admit sometimes I am curious, but my curiosity goes only so far. Back 20 years or so ago, I was interested in prostate play and had a professional help out but in the end, returned to my favorite flavor, VANILLA.

[Guest Starbuck]

This is a very interesting thread. Reading the responses (especially from those guys that self-label vanilla) makes me realize just how much kink is misunderstood. My experience with kink has grown over the past few years and I'll try things, some I like, some I do not. Each man has to find what he enjoys and for me that is an issue of intensity, sensuality and pleasure.

 

Thanks to Devon for reviving this thread. I missed it the first time around because I only started coming to the forum in July, which was also the first month I hired. If nothing else had happened in that first session than kissing the best-looking man I had ever kissed, I would NOT have complained. I was in vanilla heaven. That "boyfriend experience" is something I definitely want some of the time; maybe, eventually, it will be all I want. But lately I have sought out a couple of escorts to take me to places I hadn't been before. Don't misunderstand: I will never bareback; I have no interest in drugs; I'm intrigued by those mirror twins, pleasure and pain, but I don't want to be hurt too much.

 

Isn't it safe to say that for all of us--escorts and clients--how we practice our sexuality is an evolution? Some of us did most of our sexual experimentation in our 20s. Some are enjoying new experiences in our 50s. As long as we keep an eye on our limits, it doesn't seem so bad to stretch them now and then. But having said that, I have only respect for escorts who maintain a clear sense of what they will and won't do. You guys are having a lot more sex than the rest of us; on balance, a safe and sane approach to it seems more likely to prolong your careers than to curtail them.

[+ Funguy]

When I first started hiring a few years ago, all I wanted was a vanilla, BFE. I wanted to revel in lying in bed, making out, sucking, kissing, and yes, fucking. As i progressed a bit, getting that "OH GOD" with the prostate stimulation was really good. Now I'm really branching out to a bit kinkier with BDSM, but only with someone with whom I have complete trust. I have been finding it difficult to find that right escort with the expertise and trust I require and that probably makes it even more exciting and enjoyable when it happens. BUT, in the end, there are also times when I need simple recharging, luving, luxuriating with someone else in an unhurried, relaxed, stress-free, no pressure encounter. So, I guess I'm sort of French vanilla with chocolate sauce and a sprinkle of nuts on top!

[JoeyBryant]

So if I piss on a client while tying him up and punching him as we do lines of coke and tina as we get ready to bareback all night then I am a modern and hip escort? Is that what we are coming to?????

 

The entire scenario sounds hot, except the bareback and drugs part. But, you probably won't even have to worry about making it to the bareback part because if you're not both dead, you'll be spaghetti dicking all night. No fun

 

As for vanilla dying out...well, I'm kind of neapolitan when it comes down to it. Oreo. Black and White so to speak. I like vanilla, but at the same time there is that dark side that can be coaxed out of me. Properly presented and communicated, it can be fun to do something out of the ordinary or routine. A bit of tying up, a little bit of blindfolding, and maybe whatever else.

 

When it comes to wrestling, ball busting, or the s word that makes me wanna hurl everytime I hear it, I'll pass on that shit. But...this looks kinda hot. (Key word "looks", meaning hot to watch others do it)

 

http://stream1.gifsoup.com/view3/4099818/whaaaa-o.gif

[TurqoisePoloshirt]

I'm really into affection, kissing and sucking nipples and things like that. I'm very vanilla. I admit I get turned on by stories that get kinky, but I couldn't imagine in a million years doing some of the things in those stories. I just really love hugging, and affectionate embraces. Fucking and sucking too, of course. S/M never really turned me on because I just don't have any desire to hurt anyone, and I can't withstand much pain myself.

[Tighty]

As one would expect, a white puff like me is all about vanilla.

 

I love the idea of getting the glass slipper put on my foot along and a pretty diamond necklace fastened on me. Additional foreplay would be rubbing my soft white back. The whole scene would culminate with us in the missionary position.

 

I wanna pluck your hair and place you inside the oven.

[+ Gar1eth]

As one would expect, a white puff like me is all about vanilla.

 

I love the idea of getting the glass slipper put on my foot along and a pretty diamond necklace fastened on me. Additional foreplay would be rubbing my soft white back. The whole scene would culminate with us in the missionary position.

 

I wanna pluck your hair and place you inside the oven.

 

Tight's comment to Fresh Fluff made me think of the chorus to this song even though it's not exactly what he meant.

 

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Gman

[+ FreshFluff]

I wanna pluck your hair and place you inside the oven.

 

I'm a kitten, not a chicken! Fortunately, my claws are freshly sharpened.

 

Hope you're a sub, cause Fluffy's going to whip you till you're bloody. That's what you deserve for disrespecting a princess.

[+ Gar1eth]

I'm a kitten, not a chicken! Fortunately, my claws are freshly sharpened.

 

Hope you're a sub, cause Fluffy's going to whip you till you're bloody. That's what you deserve for disrespecting a princess.

 

But the song Tighty made me think if is really nice, don't you think?

 

Gman

[Zapped]

I seem to climb on to threads just as they've died out. Maybe this was raised already, but I didn't spot it. With great ever acceptance of same-sex attraction, it becomes easier and easier to be in a loving gay relationship. Which may not involve much kink. (or it may.) I'm in one. When I fantasize about sex outside the relationship, it is about being dominated by a powerful, demeaning top. If I were to hire an escort, it would be to get that out of my system for a while.

 

Loving, affectionate sex I get plenty of from my versatile partner.

 

And I would not be looking for an early20s inexperienced kid to do that scene with me, unless it was a speciality.

[gallahadesquire]

As for vanilla dying out...well, I'm kind of neapolitan when it comes down to it. Oreo. Black and White so to speak. I like vanilla, but at the same time there is that dark side that can be coaxed out of me. Properly presented and communicated, it can be fun to do something out of the ordinary or routine. A bit of tying up, a little bit of blindfolding, and maybe whatever else.

http://stream1.gifsoup.com/view3/4099818/whaaaa-o.gif

 

What do you do about the Strawberry part of the Neapolitan?

[Bargara Leatherboy]

vanilla is a great flavour, I get it at home, I get it with some play outside of home, but for my fantasies which my BF is not into I get my kink from very experienced professionals who take me to the place no one else can, and it is awesome.

 

As a sub, with the right professional dom I have nothing to be concerned about, If we talk about what i want from the session, my limits, or my limits on that day, I relax enjoy and trust knowing that those limits might be streched but the hard limits are never transgressed.

 

I cannot go home with marks on me, so these things are important.

 

Maybe thats why the consumate professionals are making a good living (or I presume they are)

[gallahadesquire]

As one would expect, a white puff like me is all about vanilla.

 

I love the idea of getting the glass slipper put on my foot along and a pretty diamond necklace fastened on me. Additional foreplay would be rubbing my soft white back. The whole scene would culminate with us in the missionary position.

 

The diamonds would, of course, be set in platinum? Gold just doesn't work.

[Michael Wayne]

I am the OP on this thread and I am SO GLAD it has been revived. I just noticed it because I have been on the road and away from Daddies for about a week. I love all the new imput. Let me clarify that when I was in my 20s I did almost all of the kink stuff(fisting, bondage, ws, etc) because I needed the money! Lol! The older I have gotten the more vanilla I have grown. I am also much more romantic and affectionate. I used to on a two hour call spend an hour and 45 minutes fucking but NOW there is alot of kissing and making out. Foreplay is so fun. So for all of yall clients out there with a real taste for some good old fashioned VANILLA fun here are my websites @ http://www.rentboy.com/magicmikey and http://www.rentmen.com/mikeyusatop