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I met with him last night. He is a very pleasant guy, personable and outgoing, great conversationalist. I'm happy I took the chance and decided to meet him. He has the potential to stay very busy so give him a shot if you feel so inclined.

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I met with him last night. He is a very pleasant guy, personable and outgoing, great conversationalist. I'm happy I took the chance and decided to meet him. He has the potential to stay very busy so give him a shot if you feel so inclined.

 

Great Conversationalist? How much time did he spend doing just that? Doesn't sound like much interaction otherwise?

 

He is after all on Rentboy for other reasons giving off that Twilight Look about him.

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Doesn't sound like a good time at all....and his ranting on his rentboy ad about "law enforcement and paying only for my time, etc., etc.," is also a little off putting. That combined with his not wanting to have a cock in his mouth points to a bad time I'm afraid.

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Doesn't sound like a good time at all....and his ranting on his rentboy ad about "law enforcement and paying only for my time, etc., etc.," is also a little off putting. That combined with his not wanting to have a cock in his mouth points to a bad time I'm afraid.

 

Hey Bostonnycguy. So are you one of those uber rich guys who have homes in both and just go back and forth? Both great cities but confess NYC would be my preference. We know why this Griffin guy puts the disclaimer in his ad. What advice would you give him about taking it out or reducing it? Reduce it to what? Instead ad a sentence to the first email he sends a potential client? Reference the Rentboy disclaimer that appears when someone goes to the site? I'm not disagreeing with your comment that there's too much there and it sort of sounds like when someone keeps repeating something they believe it themselves (not saying that's why Griffin does that).

 

On the oral topic, I'm guessing he worries about hygiene, catching an STD and/or he doesn't like giving oral and the rubber is how he deals with doing something he doesn't like by clients want. I'm like some others. Ask me to put a rubber on before oral and the mood is gone. If its hygiene what advice about how he can express the importance "I will show up fresh and ready for our session and would appreciate the same"? And if a client needs to shower, what's the best way to say that? Where is the best study that oral has the lowest risk? And if its that Griffin doesn't like giving oral I suggest he just says he doesn't do that or it's "situational". Or he can say "oral with a rubber" and clients can decide.

 

I might learn something from your answers and remember its "be extra kind to escorts/companion month". :)

 

He is not bad on the eyes. If these speed bumps were smoothed out I'd be interested.

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Hello,

 

In my private time I use condoms on oral for the fact of possibly catching stds. Before I went into this job I did all the research I could on all risks. I hired a lawyer who wrote the disclaimer, I apologize for the long disclaimer and it annoying some of you.

 

Thank you for the positive criticism on all aspects, and thank you Tim for the good review. I enjoyed our overnight and your beautiful town. Take care and have a great week everyone!

 

Griffin

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Hi Griffin, welcome to the forum. Thanks for taking the to come here and give a quick explanation of your thought process. You did well to not get agitated but be informative. I will say it would probably best to say something in your ad that safety includes a condom for you giving oral. As long as you know that will limit your business don't let any of us change that. You have to be comfortable with what you do.

 

On another note while I saw the ad earlier on Sunday, I did notice the ad was no longer up Sunday night. Don't let the fangs of the forum get to you, if you keep responding as you have you will do fine.

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In my private time I use condoms on oral for the fact of possibly catching stds. Before I went into this job I did all the research I could on all risks. I hired a lawyer who wrote the disclaimer, I apologize for the long disclaimer and it annoying some of you.

 

He hired a lawyer to write this disclaimer....hmmm....It would have been interesting to hear that exchange..."Hi I'm a male escort and I need you to write a disclaimer that will appear on a website for male escorts that will keep me from getting busted for prostitution....what is your hourly rate?" Doesn't take a Harvard lawyer to realize that if there was such a disclaimer that worked in that way EVERY escort (male or female) would use such a disclaimer and never fear getting arrested again.

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In my private time I use condoms on oral for the fact of possibly catching stds. Before I went into this job I did all the research I could on all risks. I hired a lawyer who wrote the disclaimer, I apologize for the long disclaimer and it annoying some of you.

 

He hired a lawyer to write this disclaimer....hmmm....It would have been interesting to hear that exchange..."Hi I'm a male escort and I need you to write a disclaimer that will appear on a website for male escorts that will keep me from getting busted for prostitution....what is your hourly rate?" Doesn't take a Harvard lawyer to realize that if there was such a disclaimer that worked in that way EVERY escort (male or female) would use such a disclaimer and never fear getting arrested again.

 

So, first, that is how a conversation with a lawyer could go and there's nothing wrong with that. In the US people are able to be truthful with their lawyers and gain the benefit of advice to limit civil and criminal risk and get assistance if they get into trouble. Its far smarter to get the advice before having a problem and in fact you might avoid issues. You can't be in the room for the "interesting" exchange because it would impair attorney/client privilege but you can go have your own about your hiring or escorting activities (I'm not sure which you participate in but its one or the other or you wouldn't be here). "Doesn't take a Harvard lawyer". Really? And "EVERY"? We have all seen how different escorts address the disclaimer and they have the right to address it the way they want - it's their freedom they are concerned about because many don't care if they get themselves in trouble. I suggest less caffeine and more research and fact sharing or maybe its getting a surgeon to extract your panties from well....you know where they are stuck. And you're forgetting it's "be extra extra extra nice to the escorts month" here. And as for oral with a condom, while I wouldn't hire him because of that and I hope he decides (if he doesn't already) to disclose that to clients before they make a decision to meet, IT's HIS MOUTH and he gets to control what goes in it ! A "newbie" with aggression. Hmmm...getting suspicious of your motives. Regardless of all that, I hope you have a nice day :) You don't need to get emotionally tied to this particular thread. "REALLY" - it's ok to just not respond if you aren't in the mood to be helpful to your fellow newbie Griffin and participate in other threads. There is a "Politics" forum that is much more a "free for all" and people expect that to get more "animated". Take big deep breaths, take a nice long walk in the fresh air and sunshine and you're mood will improve and you're more likely to have a good day.

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I agree that wearing a condom to get head is strange. Not for me, but not a deal breaker either. Would just hope that he compensates in other areas, safely of course. I actually came close to hiring him when I was visiting Portland, Maine (he was listed there a few weeks ago) as well as Boston.

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