Dated not hired?

[operalover21]

I am in my mid fifties, recently I met a guy who is a mature 22 years old and we have been out several times. When I say mature I mean he doesn’t drink, he would rather go to a movie or play than to a bar. The Sex is amazing and he is easy to talk to and I am having a time of my life. My concern is I have never dating someone so young, 32 years difference. Have any of you dated someone this young and did it work out?

 

Yes, a couple times. It worked out for a time but then it didn't. Just like life.

 

Btw, I'm not sure I'd define "mature" as someone who doesn't drink and doesn't go to bars. There plenty of immature guys that would fit that description.

[KMEM]

But there are plenty of mature guys that become "immature" after going to a bar and drinking.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[Lookin]

. . . and let me tell you, to cum running at my time in life is no small thing.

 

 

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[+ purplekow]

Aunt Fancy So nice to see you back again. I know that you share your moniker with an antebellum Tennessee senator who was the companion of the "bachelor" president James Buchanan. I thought we might never hear from you again as it has been quite some time between posts. Please stick your bonneted and bunned head into the forum and share a bit of down home wisdom with us. 'Your point of view is most original and your words alway bring a smile to my nearly perpetually troubled visage.

[Frequentflier]

Back in late August I was approached by a young man who was 30 years younger than me. He preferred older men, he wanted to date, his goal was a relationship with an older man.

 

Can I have the specific address of where you were approached, what you were standing, the look on your face and any other advice so as to encourage such an approach? I would welcome it and after reading this thread believe I can handle it well.

[Greathands]

I met my partner when I was 42 and he was 21. We've been together for 8 years.

[wnybear]

Can I have the specific address of where you were approached, what you were standing, the look on your face and any other advice so as to encourage such an approach? I would welcome it and after reading this thread believe I can handle it well.

 

LOL! The whole is experience is filed under a "pleasant could have been", plus this is a small city with a small community, our paths may cross again at a better time for him. Al I can say is the common sense advice you always hear. Put yourself out there, be approachable, don't let the possibility of rejection keep you from trying and don't take it personal if it doesn't work out. I've struggled with those myself, but you never know just what might happen.

[tyro]

That's some good advice for life there, wny.

T

[tyro]

Yay! Another sweetsie story. I'm such a girl sometimes......

T