A Yankee in Shea Stadium?

[Zeek]

If i want just sex, i can go get a street hustler but when I pay for an escort I want more than just sex. Sometimes it nice to go to dinner, the opea or take a walk on the riverwalk with someone that you can share life with before you jump to the bedroom. If you are single and not in a relationship sometime you just want more than someone to get you off.

 

I have a few escort that I conside friends and look at them like family, not just sex that i would pick up on the street.

 

I hope you can understand this. I am looking for sex but not just sex.

 

And that's the truth

Zeek

[BobbyB]

I don't believe I have ever seen so much venom as that which is so often spewed on this message center.

 

Granted, the act & art of escorting may not make everyone's Top 10 list of noble endeavors, but the standard set by people like Benjamin Nicholas, etc. demonstrates how beauty can be found everywhere, and brought to any task. If people like HairyDomBraz27 & fuckamarine want to take the lemonade of life and reverse osmosis it back into lemons, then let them. It just speaks to their own ugliness & despair.

 

However, if an escort wishes to go beyond the call of duty and extend themselves to me, permitting me to see, if only for an hour, some of the beauty that lies within, then I am all the richer for it.

 

Money doesn't buy that. That's a gift.

 

 

- BobbyB

[Guest HairyDomBraz27]

>Benjamin is more than a prostitute. He is a true escort, he

>may be selling himself but he is selling his whole self not

>just his body, that is why his clients call him a friend and

>he calls them a friend. With Benjamin it's like a his family.

 

LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Herein lies the sick deceit of Benjamin. He has you convinced that he is not just a prostitute, but also your "friend" and even "family."

 

AND YET - He will not spend time with you or pay attention to you unless you PAY HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Do you really think someone can be your "friend" and be like "family" if they are willing to talk to you only if you pay them?

 

I know some people are desperate for friendship and something to soothe their lonliness - but are you really able to delude yourself into not seeing that he is only PRETENDING TO BE YOUR FRIEND AND "FAMILY" SO THAT HE CAN TAKE YOUR MONEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!????!!!

 

>Benjamin cares and that's why you can't call him a prostitute.

 

I have a good idea. Call him up in about 2 weeks and tell him that you saw his web site and that you would love to have dinner with him, take him to the movies and then back to your place. Tell him, however, that you are unemployed and thus can't pay him. See what he says.

 

Then come back and tell me how much he "cares."

[Guest HairyDomBraz27]

>However, if an escort wishes to go beyond the call of duty and

>extend themselves to me, permitting me to see, if only for an

>hour, some of the beauty that lies within, then I am all the

>richer for it.

>

>Money doesn't buy that. That's a gift.

 

Then call him up and tell him how much you like him and how impressed you are by his "inner beauty" and would love to take him to dinner and to the movies - but tell him also that you have no job and that you can't pay him - and see what he says.

 

Then come back and tell me whether or not "money" buys Benjamin.

 

Or, try this - call him and tell him you have lots of money and are willing to pay him lots to meet him - but all you want is for him to stay on his knees with his ass up in the air and his mouth shut - NO TALKING, just use.

 

Then cmoe back and tell me whether or not "money" buys Benjamin, and whether or not he is a prostitute who is desperately trying to pretend that he isn't.

[Guest HairyDomBraz27]

>I'm confused. Why are you suddenly discussing Franco

>Desantis?

 

Yeah - he's another one - constantly parading himself around as

Queen Victoria's etiquette secretary - complete with the flowery, effete sermons and the snotty, consdesending, passive-aggressive bitchiness -- all in order to hide the fact that he's a prostitute trying hard to sell that cock to any hungry buyers.

 

As I said, prostitutes who have as their shtick this whole act of trying to sell themselves off as polite, witty little ladies who will not just suck cock but also share tea and croissants over brunch and a giggle about Proust are fine with me. If that's how they need to make cash, no problem here.

 

But the ones who, like Benny and Franco, think that this deceit makes them superior to more honest escorts or what they call (with pursed lips and disgust) "street hustlers" are enough to make me puke right into their lipsticked assholes.

 

It's all about a sick, desperate need to feel better than "street hustlers" because they know, at bottom, that they are the same and, sadly, can't accept what they are.

[Guest HairyDomBraz27]

>I find it somewhat amusing and more than a little bit pathetic

>that a grown man could delude himself into thinking that a

>"date" for which he is paying money (and a LOT of money on an

>overnite "date"), is in fact a date.

 

It is truly shocking that this scam works. These "clients' must tell themselves "he likes me . . . he really likes me . . . ", but somehow, they manage to leave out the next part: "as long as I keep shovelling cash to them."

 

The con artists who make a living off this scam are just providing a service. But when they start believing their P.R., and start acting like they are superior to more honest escorts, it's truly time to heave up one's lunch.

[Guest fukamarine]

>I don't believe I have ever seen so much venom as that which

>is so often spewed on this message center.

>

>Granted, the act & art of escorting may not make everyone's

>Top 10 list of noble endeavors, but the standard set by people

>like Benjamin Nicholas, etc. demonstrates how beauty can be

>found everywhere, and brought to any task. If people like

>HairyDomBraz27 & fuckamarine want to take the lemonade of life

>and reverse osmosis it back into lemons, then let them. It

>just speaks to their own ugliness & despair.

 

Hi there BobbyB!

 

Speaking of venom - you're not doin' too bad yourself. Or did that never occur to your prune sized brain?

 

And if that's the most venom you've ever seen "spewed" then you must be either very young (which I sincerly doubt) or else you live an extremly sheltered existance.

 

And if you can't take the truth about being deluded if you think paying an escort to fuck you is a "date" then it's you, not I, who is showing their dispair. Next you'll be thinking the escort is going to take you home to meet his parents! As for the ugliness - got any mirrors at your place?

 

Next time you post - try not to sound so moronic - your next "date" might be reading this and you wouldn't want to let him know just how stupid you are - would you?

 

fukamarine

[woodlawn]

>>I'm confused. Why are you suddenly discussing Franco

>>Desantis?

>

>Yeah - he's another one - constantly parading himself around

>as

>Queen Victoria's etiquette secretary - complete with the

>flowery, effete sermons and the snotty, consdesending,

>passive-aggressive bitchiness -- all in order to hide the fact

>that he's a prostitute trying hard to sell that cock to any

>hungry buyers.

 

 

That may be a little harsh, but I do think it's funny the way he's always lecturing us on the "honorable" thing to do while he takes money to help married men cheat on their wives. In fact, one characteristic that a number of the escorts who post here seem to share is a propensity to lecture the rest of us on how negative and hurtful some of our remarks are while ignoring the harm they do in the real world through that same practice. It seems their ethics stop short of the point at which they might reduce their income.

[btmstudnyc]

Yankee go home

 

Yankee go home...

 

I could only wish that some of you could see that from different perspectives you all are correct.

 

In business Cash Flow is the bottom line. But, who said you had to lie and be deceitful to get it. Some people lie. Some provide service and leave. Others actually like or imagine....LOVE what they do for their career. I rather get fucked by a client than fucked by my boss...which...he used to do to me until I quit.(He would fuck with every part of me that wasn't physical.) I'd rather have fun in my career with the interesting guys I meet....then get brain fucked by an unappreciative loser.

 

Please...NO HOLIER THAN THOU...from either side.

 

JIM

My favorite line of all time? Let those with no sin cast the first FUCKING STONE.

 

 

If it dont fit, force it

btmstudnyc@aol.com

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

You can't please em' all *shrugs shoulders*

 

I'm just surprised that this 'conversation' has gone on this long. My guys know where i stand on this one, so i'm not going to waste space trying to prove anything. I'll let others dig their own grave on this one

 

 

 

Warmest Always,

 

 

 

 

Benjamin Nicholas

[+ nycman]

>If you are single and not in a relationship

>sometime you just want more than someone to get you off.

 

You do?

 

I've been single for two years...it still hasn't happened...yet!

[VaHawk]

Well, I'm right across the Potomac in Arlington! Want to hook up sometime? Yes?, then let's start the old courtship dance.

[VaHawk]

You have already "proved" to me, man, that you are what I'm looking for, and you don't need this bullshit from these self-hating, self-abusive people!!! With these types, it always has to be the "sex", and they can never understand, that although, we like the "sex" part, that it is the rest of the "total package" that attracts us the most.

 

Why is it wrong, to want to be with a total person for a total experience? Good sex, good company, good times? Why are these traits a phony come on and/or mutually exlusive? I just don't understand!

[Will]

Although this thread is now old and long (don't go there!), I have been following it and thinking about it. I still find this is a fascinating topic, and for reasons seem rarely mentioned on this board.

 

At this point in our exchange, it seems to me that there are two groups -- at least two groups -- of people here who identify sexiness in different ways. On the one hand are those, like VaHawk and me, for whom sexual attraction is not primarily a matter of responding to visual stimuli. For us, and I think I'm not speaking only for myself, other aspects of a person from the sound of his voice to the range of his interests may be just as important as erotic stimuli as his chest or his dick.

 

Other men may find that physical/tactile attributes are not only necessary but entirely sufficient. Lots of men, and probably women as well, fetishize particular body parts, items of clothing, etc. And if they find an escort who happens to trip those triggers, that's what's needed.

 

I don't see that it's "either/or." It's just a matter of some differences in the almost infinitely wide spectrum of human sexual response. (After all, we haven't talked in this thread about water sports, bondage, scat, and all the other things that may be the most important things for turning some people on.) There's no reason to fight about it -- fortunately or not, human erotic response seems to be inarguable -- because we're just talking about variety.

[Guest Dan]

RE: Yankee go home

 

Oh dear, and me going to a Met game while I'm in NYC!!!!!

 

Dan Dare

http://meetlocalmen.com/mlm/dandarela.html