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Welcome to the site. If you do a search of first time encounters, you will find a treasure trove of information. If it is discretion that is premium for you, hire a well reviewed escort in your area. Ask here about any individual escort. Most escorts have been seen by someone who frequents this site and most are willing to post helpful information.

Again welcome. This site can be fun and informative. Sometimes, though, you have to duck the flying feces so heads up on that.

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Since your profile didn't indicate your area, I can't offer you any specific help. But I agree with PurpleKow that not only should you stick to a well-reviewed escort if discretion is super important, but I'd also strongly recommend that you use a well-reviewed guy for your first time as well. A real pro like that will make it so that you don't have to worry at all about discretion or etiquette. But there are certain things you may do differently depending on whether you're looking for an in-call (at his place) or an out-call (your place or hotel), and the neighborhood (and city/region too) that those places are located in. If you're asking about discretion in terms of contacting the escort, you're just going to have to suck it up, since most refuse to answer blocked calls, so total anonymity on your end will be difficult. But with a real pro, discretion is nothing to worry about. For anything else, I think we'd all need more details from you. Good luck, and have fun!

 

Thinking of hiring for the first time. Any advice on etiquette and how to maintain discretion?
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Since your profile didn't indicate your area, I can't offer you any specific help. But I agree with PurpleKow that not only should you stick to a well-reviewed escort if discretion is super important, but I'd also strongly recommend that you use a well-reviewed guy for your first time as well. A real pro like that will make it so that you don't have to worry at all about discretion or etiquette. But there are certain things you may do differently depending on whether you're looking for an in-call (at his place) or an out-call (your place or hotel), and the neighborhood (and city/region too) that those places are located in. If you're asking about discretion in terms of contacting the escort, you're just going to have to suck it up, since most refuse to answer blocked calls, so total anonymity on your end will be difficult. But with a real pro, discretion is nothing to worry about. For anything else, I think we'd all need more details from you. Good luck, and have fun!

 

Strafe's point is well-taken. Many, many times on this Forum have people said: Make sure there's a good review or five. I wish you well; we were all in this situation at some point in our lives. Treat your companion well, and I am certain they will treat you well!

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In my opinion, there are 2 key elements in hiring or being hired--COMMUNICATION and RESPECT (on both sides). Check out the potential working guy's ad and start initial communication in a manner they prefer (there is a large variety of preferences for these guys--phone, text, or email). Have any questions you have prepared and be upfront and honest in initial contact and all subsequent contact. Make sure that you both RESPECT each other during initial contact, first meeting, and everthing subsequent. This goes a long way in creating an enjoyable mutual time together.

 

Enjoy

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If you're calling them, try not to sound nervous. Also know that some escorts (myself included) hang up on potential clients if they get explicit early on in phone conversation. I would say its best to make sure you both are compatible but to refrain from getting into the finer details.

 

Just remember its YOUR special time :)

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Thank you for all your responses. I really appreciate it. I'm a college student and I'm anxious to spend some time with an escort, but I'm still kind of nervous about how it could possibly affect my future if anyone found it. I thank you all again.

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Thank you for all your responses. I really appreciate it. I'm a college student and I'm anxious to spend some time with an escort, but I'm still kind of nervous about how it could possibly affect my future if anyone found it. I thank you all again.

 

Found out you hired an escort or had gay sex?

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That I hired an escort. If I have gay sex its not illegal and its no one's business but my own.
Actually hiring an escort in literal terms is not illegal. Paying someone for sex is illegal but I understand what you mean. If that's your main concern I would hire a masseur and enjoy the "benefits" that massage session included. Depending on what you are seeking each situation might give you exactly what you are looking for but the idea in your head and in others, if ever discovered, will be that it was just a massage that turned very friendly. Doing this is no fun if you have to worry about being found out in later years.
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