How much would you risk for a little affection [from an escort]?

[bcohen7719]

Hat tip to 'Lookin'.

 

BC

[Boner]

Affection causes me great fear and anxiety that once I have it, I will never be able to live without it - and it will then only complicate my ongoing fear of being alone and ultimately dying a painful death.

 

So, I'll risk zero, Alex.

[maxwellissmart]

Hat tip to 'Lookin'.

 

BC

 

I'm always willing to give out some affection to clients. Unless they're vague.

[jjkrkwood]

I think this thread was targeted for non-escorts so, ill weigh in here....

 

Unlike many, i go into a hire with a strictly "focused" perspective...... its sex...with a virtual stranger..... and though the escort can go thru the motions of "affection", there really Isn't any.

and I wont fool or trick myself into thinking that there is.... The only affection in that room is the escorts FOR the money he will be taling home. Of course others will disagree, and if the event holds diff meaning for them, Great.... Therefore, "what would I risk" ??? NOTHING.... Affection for me is something that grows over time between two people that care about each other

in various ways. Can that happen with an escort. Sure, but doubtful, unless you have invested years of service into the guy and have actually "grown" close to each other... It's not an instantaneous thing... I am not trying to be flip here or dismiss other members views on this issue as some will accuse me of. Its simply the nature of the interaction that leaves it void of affection for me. And would I want to spend "social" time with an escort for the possibility of increasing the "affection" ???? NO !

 

Seeker, PLEASE be kind in your rebuttal !

[seeker630]

I think this thread was targeted for non-escorts so, ill weigh in here....

 

Unlike many, i go into a hire with a strictly "focused" perspective...... its sex...with a virtual stranger..... and though the escort can go thru the motions of "affection", there really Isn't any.

and I wont fool or trick myself into thinking that there is.... The only affection in that room is the escorts FOR the money he will be taling home. Of course others will disagree, and if the event holds diff meaning for them, Great.... Therefore, "what would I risk" ??? NOTHING.... Affection for me is something that grows over time between two people that care about each other

in various ways. Can that happen with an escort. Sure, but doubtful, unless you have invested years of service into the guy and have actually "grown" close to each other... It's not an instantaneous thing... I am not trying to be flip here or dismiss other members views on this issue as some will accuse me of. Its simply the nature of the interaction that leaves it void of affection for me. And would I want to spend "social" time with an escort for the possibility of increasing the "affection" ???? NO !

 

Seeker, PLEASE be kind in your rebuttal !

 

lol. JJK, I think you made your own focus clear & acknowledged that others have different objectives & perspectives. And maybe there's a difference or definition as to what constitutes 'real' affection vs a 'show of affection'. I have certainly FELT affection for an escort (or a hook-up, in bygone days). And I have had pleasure fomr being held & cuddled as well. But I don't go into a session expecting anything lasting.

 

But to answer the original question - every encounter is a risk - and I don't take more risks for affection than I do for sex.

 

I confess, I'm sure I understand what distinctions the OP is making.

[Epigonos]

Boner your response is a wonderful play on several recent threads -- I loved it. I like jj am NOT looking for affection from an escort I'm looking for great sex -- period!!!!!

[jjkrkwood]

lol. JJK, I think you made your own focus clear & acknowledged that others have different objectives & perspectives. And maybe there's a difference or definition as to what constitutes 'real' affection vs a 'show of affection'. I have certainly FELT affection for an escort (or a hook-up, in bygone days). And I have had pleasure fomr being held & cuddled as well. But I don't go into a session expecting anything lasting.

 

But to answer the original question - every encounter is a risk - and I don't take more risks for affection than I do for sex.

 

I confess, I'm sure I understand what distinctions the OP is making.

 

No doubt you have, and I am sure its quite easy to fall for the charms or a hot, sexy guy. But that was NOT the question here. It was about affection FROM the escort, which is entirely different... Other than that, ill have to agree with your comments here. and I say that with GREAT affection.

[Lookin]

Hat tip to 'Lookin'.

 

BC

 

Glad you enjoyed the questions, BC. They were an attempt to mirror a type of question I've seen pop up on the Board with some regularity: the mixture of something pleasant, like escorting, with something unpleasant, like death, disease, or danger. In this case, the pleasant part was affection and the unpleasant part was risk. The fact that you, our arch-inquisitor and my new cyber friend, picked up on it gives me some small confidence that I may have cracked the code.

 

Some may find these types of questions a bit unsettling, as did I initially, but I then began to see the humor, for me at least, in blending two such opposite phenomena as risk and affection. They just don't mix at all for me. They're on totally different sides of my brain. And trying to squeeze them together gives me a yok.

 

I'm pretty much an affection junkie. I like to give it and I like to get it. Whether it's with a lover, a friend, an escort or a puppy, I just can't get enough.

 

 

http://www.aplacetolovedogs.com/wp-content/uploads/happiness-is-a-puppy-licking-your-face.jpg

 

 

But that kind of affection comes only with trust. And risk is the antithesis of trust. So, while assuming some risk may provide certain other benefits, affection is not one of them.

 

Not for me anyway.

 

 

PS: Similarly, I would not enjoy having dinner with a psychopath. Unless, of course, he was picking up the tab. http://www.maleescortreview.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/rolleyes.gif

[+ Lucky]

If the American Community Survey gets any more widespread, both Lookin and Bcohen could get jobs with the Census Bureau! They know how to formulate the questions.

[+ FreshFluff]

 

I'm pretty much an affection junkie. I like to give it and I like to get it. Whether it's with a lover, a friend, an escort or a puppy, I just can't get enough.

 

 

http://www.aplacetolovedogs.com/wp-content/uploads/happiness-is-a-puppy-licking-your-face.jpg

 

 

Daddy sez: No pictures of children! And if you must show pictures of dogs,

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[+ FreshFluff]

And Lookin', I'd be happy to offer you some affection--not that you asked. I'm not a big hugger, but for you, I'd make an exception.

[Lookin]

And Lookin', I'd be happy to offer you some affection--not that you asked. I'm not a big hugger, but for you, I'd make an exception.

 

Well aren't you nice!

 

And less than two hours ago, I just hugged my neighbor for the first time in twelve years. She was over here playing with her dog. I told her she nearly had me knocking on her door around dinner time because something coming out of her house smelled so good. She says she cooks every night and it's always something good and she's been thinking about having a few neighbors over.

 

One just never knows where a little affection will lead, does one?

 

 

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