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OK, some one has got to explain this to me cause I just don't get it.

 

You think such and such drug is enhancing your sexual experience? It makes your orgasm SO much more intense. It relaxes you?

 

Your body tells me otherwise. That is, if you can have an orgasm now. Yeah, so much so that you lifeless and groggy or just plain no it doesn't. It makes you switch it up every two seconds.

 

So can some one please tell me, why?

 

There are some recreational drugs don't have sexual counter-indications, but these are not the ones that most people tend to enjoy consuming when having sex.

 

Maybe I missed out on something, never did anything worse than smoking pot. And I don't even do that any more.

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"Your body tells me otherwise. That is, if you can have an orgasm now. Yeah, so much so that you lifeless and groggy or just plain no it doesn't it makes you switch it up every two seconds."

 

Could I politely invite you to rewrite this last sentence? I think you are saying that what the client thinks a drug may be doing for him is not what you observe it doing. But I am not sure...

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"Your body tells me otherwise. That is, if you can have an orgasm now. Yeah, so much so that you lifeless and groggy or just plain no it doesn't it makes you switch it up every two seconds."

 

Could I politely invite you to rewrite this last sentence? I think you are saying that what the client thinks a drug may be doing for him is not what you observe it doing. But I am not sure...

 

I changed it a little. But yes, you are correct. Observing the same people both with and without their drug of choice, it is like night and day.

 

On the last sentence in particular:

 

Pot - Yes it does relax you, just don't overdo it.

Coke - This is just a load of crap. It does not relax you. It makes you run around like you are out of your mind and I barely get your dick in my mouth when you decide it is time for me to fuck you.

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Certainly drugs like Viagra have helped me, but mind altering drugs have been of absolutely no use that I can detect (and I've only tried a very few and I don't even drink which also never helped).

 

Viagra is one thing. Although I do appreciate when a client tells me they have taken it, the big V can make it take a long time to get off. Knowing just lets me know I am doing a good job but I gotta work a little harder to get the juices flowing, if you know what I mean ;)

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Are you referring to drugs like crack, cocaine, meth? All of which definitely have the sexual connection.

 

Technically, they will enhanse your sexual experience. Normal sex releases a trickle of dopamine compared to opening the flood gates with these drugs. Especially, meth. Difficult to understand when all you see as an outsider is the back and forth twitching and sweating. It might look ugly to you but to them it's a beautiful thing.

 

When you do these drugs though your senses are enhansed 20 fold. With drugs like meth they say it's akin to the feeling of 20 orgasms per minute pretty much all night long. Very intense stuff.

 

I don't know how it would help relax someone though. Maybe if they were jonsing for it beforehand.

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OK, some one has got to explain this to me cause I just don't get it.

 

You think such and such drug is enhancing your sexual experience? It makes your orgasm SO much more intense. It relaxes you?

 

Your body tells me otherwise. That is, if you can have an orgasm now. Yeah, so much so that you lifeless and groggy or just plain no it doesn't. It makes you switch it up every two seconds.

 

So can some one please tell me, why?

 

There are some recreational drugs don't have sexual counter-indications, but these are not the ones that most people tend to enjoy consuming when having sex.

 

Maybe I missed out on something, never did anything worse than smoking pot. And I don't even do that any more.

 

I've never used drugs while having sex, except alcohol—which I don't like.

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I've never used drugs while having sex, except alcohol—which I don't like.

 

I'm sure I had sex when I was stoned as a teenager. I will never drink before seeing a client, don't want to be a mess. A glass of wine or two on my personal time followed by sex, but that is a little different.

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No one is saying you can't or shouldn't, it's more about the why?

 

If you tell me it is more enjoyable for you that way, that is fine. What I don't understand is when your say that and your body is definitely sends signals to the contrary.

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OK, some one has got to explain this to me cause I just don't get it.

 

You think such and such drug is enhancing your sexual experience? It makes your orgasm SO much more intense. It relaxes you?

 

Your body tells me otherwise. That is, if you can have an orgasm now. Yeah, so much so that you lifeless and groggy or just plain no it doesn't. It makes you switch it up every two seconds.

 

So can some one please tell me, why?

 

There are some recreational drugs don't have sexual counter-indications, but these are not the ones that most people tend to enjoy consuming when having sex.

 

Maybe I missed out on something, never did anything worse than smoking pot. And I don't even do that any more.

 

There may be a distinction between the subjective experience and the performance. Their mind may be (probably is) interpreting & filtering the physical responses differently than you are, as the outsider.

 

That's not an endorsement, just an observation. I am a non-user and not really comfortable with those who do partake. I was always afraid to try anything stronger than weed (which I didn't respond favorably to) because Iwas afraid I'd like it TOO much.

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Maybe a hangup, but at least it's the truth Jaker....it was starting to sound like 'Sunday School' around here, until you posted...LOL

Ah thank you. I may not be as virtuous as some here but I've got some experience to share damnit. Lol.

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No one is saying you can't or shouldn't, it's more about the why?

 

If you tell me it is more enjoyable for you that way, that is fine. What I don't understand is when your say that and your body is definitely sends signals to the contrary.

Maybe it's just me but if i was drunk or high i wouldn't be getting together with someone sober in the first place. Not exactly sure what you mean by "signals" though.

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Maybe it's just me but if i was drunk or high i wouldn't be getting together with someone sober in the first place. Not exactly sure what you mean by "signals" though.

 

 

That's fine. I mean in excess to the point you're unable to perform.

 

I doubt any one would call me virtuous... I choose not to partake since I see so many people I don't know. I only drink around people I know cause if I get drunk the first thing to go is my clothing. BAM Phil's walking around the house in his briefs.

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So many people get nervous around sex that alcohol has long played a part in reducing anxiety- if it in fact does. People sure think it does.

Crystal meth has develop a reputation as a sex enhancer, allowing longer sessions, a reduction in inhibitions- and usually judgment. It does a lot of damage

over the long run, but in the short run wins many fans. Unfortunately, it seems to be a cumulative thing, more is needed each time to achieve the same effect.

I don't know how you combat that, except to show people the long run damage and convince them that yes, it does mean you.

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Anyone had any experience with "G" GHB? Its effects? Performance?

Used to do it all the time. Still do occasionally. It can be very euphoric and pleasurable. Hard to explain but you just lose all your inhibitions while on it. Plus, you don't get a hangover like other substances. I used to buy it at GNC back in 2000 as a sleep aid mostly. It was used by body builders.

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