WTF is "Mental Edging" ????

[jjkrkwood]

So during my weekly visit to the Sex Club last nite, I hooked up with this guy, and was dispensing my usual service, which seemed liked "forever". And although he had a sizable cock which I enjoyed, I prefer spreading the love around, and was ready to wrap it up with him.... But he just seem seem ready....

So I broke the cardinal sex club rule of "NO TALKING" and said:

 

ME: "are you gonna cum" ?

HIM: : well it feels so nice and you are doing such a good job that I am "mentally edging"

ME: "Mentally edging" WTF is that ????

HIM: "psyching myself into NOT CUMMING"

 

Well I guess on some level that was flattering, but on the other hand i thought it was kinda selfish. I mean afterall, my jaw was exhausted, and there were other guys I wanted to bring happiness to, so I said "can we wrap this thing up" ??? Since it was early, and I guess he wasnt ready to leave, or cum, we just parted ways...

 

As for "mental edging", i have heard of "edging" where to stop and then start up again to make yourself last, but "Mental Edging"... How do you psych yourself into NOT cumming when someone is fervently sucking away ???? And why wouldnt you want the ultimate feeling that cumming gives you ? At 61, this was a new one on me...

 

Have you ever engaged in "Mental Edging" ????

[Diverdan]

I never called it "mental edging" but I have certainly done all sorts of things mentally and physically to delay orgasm... the idea is to prolong the pleasure, especially as one gets older and can no longer cum 3 or 4 times in an hour !!!

[+ Travis69]

I think Max wrote of "mental edging" when he said he had to do Algebra in his head to not cum as his client was turning him on so much. Usually we have to fantasize about hot things to get ourselves to cum if the action isn't so hot. I see this as the opposite. I think this is what he was referring to. Obviously you are SO GOOD that guys want it to last and last and last......

[maxwellissmart]

I think Max wrote of "mental edging" when he said he had to do Algebra in his head to not cum as his client was turning him on so much. Usually we have to fantasize about hot things to get ourselves to cum if the action isn't so hot. I see this as the opposite. I think this is what he was referring to. Obviously you are SO GOOD that guys want it to last and last and last......

 

Oh my God it was amazing. The last time was with the other client where I would look down and see his ass gripping my cock and then look over in the mirror.

 

"can we wrap this thing up"

 

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHHA

[+ Travis69]

JJ - You should have a t shirt printed up for your trips to the sex club that reads "MY ORAL SKILLS ARE SO GOOD "MENTAL EDGING" IS NEEDED.

[jjkrkwood]

JJ - You should have a t shirt printed up for your trips to the sex club that reads "MY ORAL SKILLS ARE SO GOOD "MENTAL EDGING" IS NEEDED.

 

Oh pulleze Travis, we ALL know men are just alot of BIG Talk.... I'm just a simple girl from the boon-docks with an oral fixation. :o

[bigvalboy]

I never called it "mental edging" but I have certainly done all sorts of things mentally and physically to delay orgasm... the idea is to prolong the pleasure, especially as one gets older and can no longer cum 3 or 4 times in an hour !!!

 

Damn DD...reminds me of the last time I was with an escort, who by the way will not let me talk publicly about our escapades. ;) The last time we were together, he got me close several times, and although I really wanted to cum, he would not let me. He would just stop and move around the apt to a different location and start again....all I can say is damn..double damn...so intense!!

[gcursor]

What kind of algebra?

 

Yeah..I was going to say that Max talked about how he did algebra problems in his head. I wanted to ask him what type of algebra problems because it doesn't work for me..maybe I need calculus problems. Some people recite other things I guess.

 

Also mental edging is similar to what guys do when they want to have a "hands free" orgasm. Supposedly the concept is is that you can work yourself up in your mind and get so stimulated that you can cum with little to no direct contact.

 

 

Oh my God it was amazing. The last time was with the other client where I would look down and see his ass gripping my cock and then look over in the mirror.

 

"can we wrap this thing up"

 

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHHA

[Phil_musc]

Thanks, gcursor - I have to remember that.

 

 

JJ, I have to betake myself to the Big Apple for some mental edging practice with you!

[Diverdan]

BVB...I would love to meet that escort. You can send me a PM if he is ok with that... would love to meet him.. he's my kind of guy! !! I'd do the same with him too!!!!

[bigvalboy]

BVB...I would love to meet that escort. You can send me a PM if he is ok with that... would love to meet him.. he's my kind of guy! !! I'd do the same with him too!!!!

 

I sent you a pm....

[raulgmanzo]

... he got me close several times, and although I really wanted to cum, he would not let me. He would just stop and move around the apt to a different location and start again....all I can say is damn..double damn...so intense!!

 

Well that is a classic procedure in bondage and discipline. You get the guy restrained, get him close to cumming and he begs you to not have him cum too quickly, because he doesn't want the pleasure to end so you then tell him that he better not cum because you're gonna keep doing whatever (fucking, fingering, playing with his nipples) anyway, or you just back off. After a bit of thisback and forth I find they alternate between begging me to not make them cum to begging me to please let them cum.

 

Makes for a great session every time.

 

Then you can take it to the next level which is separating orgasm from ejaculation. Ha! Now that is when it gets really fun.

 

As far as mentally edging, it is classic for some guys to think about baseball, others might think of Irving Berlin.

[tyro]

I don't know; dreaming of a "White Christmas" does it to me every time...

T

[BostonPhil]

I don't know; dreaming of a "White Christmas" does it to me every time...

T

 

You are my new favorite.

[raulgmanzo]

As far as mentally edging, it is classic for some guys to think about baseball, others might think of Irving Berlin.

 

I don't know; dreaming of a "White Christmas" does it to me every time...

T

 

Well that wasn't exactly what I had in mind, but if one is going to think about Irving Berlins songs I'd maybe go for "How Dry I am", or maybe

"You can't get a Man with a Gun".

 

But a man never trifles with gals who carry rifles -

...

With a gun! With a gun!

No you can't get a man with a gun!

...

But he can't build ya houses with buckshot in his trousers,

And you can't shoot a man in the tail like a quail -

...

With a gun! With a gun!

...

A man's love is mighty, he'll even buy a nighty

For a gal who he thinks is fun;

But they don't buy pajamas for pistol-packin' mamas!

Oh, a man may be hot....

But he's not...

When he's shot!

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