Nipple play?

[seeker630]

I started to post this in response to some comments on the dick-sucking thread but realized it might hijack that thread.

 

I am fascinated by the different responses to nipple play. My own nipples aren't really an erogenous zone for me - a little nuzzling/sucking is is mildly interesting but not really arousing, and I defnitely am not into any roughness with them. On the other hand - I really get off working on a guy's nipples WHEN it turns him on - licking, sucking, rubbing, and an occasional nip or twist (tho NOT if he clearly doesn't like it) One of my few dissatisfactions with my current 'go to guy' is that, like me, he isn't turned on by having his nipples played with.

 

So, how about you?

 

Do you like your nipples played with? And if so, gently or roughly?

 

And you like to play with your playmate's nipples? Gently or roughly?

 

I once believed that bottoms are more likely to like having their nipples played with (especially pinched). Does your experience support that?

[doitb4ugo]

Yes,,,,nipple play is very hot for me....I like it as rough as I can take, generally with Japanese Clover clamps which tighten as you pull....funny for me my right nipple is more erogenous than the left one...a friend really knows how to work them up...most of my other partners do not seem to want too rough play...I especially like to nibble and bite them when I'm playing. To be honest, I often forget which partner likes/does not like rough play and always get reminded after the first bite...For most people, including myself, the real senation is when the clamps are pulled off/removed and the nipples are rubbed real hard to get the blood flowing again....

[bigvalboy]

Nipple play for me is the most erotic part of having sex. I enjoy it more than having anal or oral. As Doit mentioned, the nips are a tremendous erogenous zone. Finding a partner who is on the same wave length with you in nipple play can be one of the most satisfying sexual experiences that anyone can imagine. I have gone hours just engaged in nipple play and on the verge of cumming the whole time. It is one of the few times that I can remain hard for several hours. OK I need a cigarette and a cold shower.

[jjkrkwood]

Well, I'm not a bottom and I'm not a top (so I guess I'm a middle ?) but my nipples have absolutely NO sensation, and the odd part is that they are the first things guys are attracted to

when I get undressed. They fixate on my pecs and nips, so not to disappoint them and lose the moment, "I fake it" and make them think I am enjoying their manipulations. As far as my attraction to nips, YES,YES,YES. I like the "bullet" style ones that protrude, and allow you a really good grasp with your lips. I am into gentle nip play, dont like the rough stuff, and can procede to "light" biting if the guys requests it. I am not into the whole pain thing in general, and usually enjoy more sensual play with my mouth. Of course i am guided by the moans and murmurs of my partner and if I feel precum, I know I've been sucksessful..... But once a cocksucker, always a cocksucker, I can only take so much nip play, and then have to move on to the BIGGER prize for ME !

[josephga]

Mine are very sensitive and became even more so after getting them pierced 8 weeks ago. My first bf had the most sensitive nipples I've ever come across. He could have multiple orgasms from having his sucked and bitten

[bigvalboy]

Mine are very sensitive and became even more so after getting them pierced 8 weeks ago. My first bf had the most sensitive nipples I've ever come across. He could have multiple orgasms from having his sucked and bitten

 

I do applaud you Joseph for having yours pierced...ooouuucchh! Many of my friends have wanted me to go and have mine pierced when they did, but I never had the guts or enough liquor. I know that having them pierced only heightens the sensation.

[Bosguy]

I started to post this in response to some comments on the dick-sucking thread but realized it might hijack that thread.

 

I am fascinated by the different responses to nipple play. My own nipples aren't really an erogenous zone for me - a little nuzzling/sucking is is mildly interesting but not really arousing, and I defnitely am not into any roughness with them. On the other hand - I really get off working on a guy's nipples WHEN it turns him on - licking, sucking, rubbing, and an occasional nip or twist (tho NOT if he clearly doesn't like it) One of my few dissatisfactions with my current 'go to guy' is that, like me, he isn't turned on by having his nipples played with

 

So, how about you?

 

Do you like your nipples played with? And if so, gently or roughly?

 

And you like to play with your playmate's nipples? Gently or roughly?

 

I once believed that bottoms are more likely to like having their nipples played with (especially pinched). Does your experience support that?

 

I love nipple play from gentle to really rough and everything in between using hands, mouth, teeth, or clamps for the beginning of a sexual encounter to the culmination.

 

I am very fortunate that all the working guys I have been with feel exactly the same way and really get into it.

 

I don't think it has anything to do with whether you're bottoming, topping, or flipping. It's just so f______g HOT!!

 

Boston Bill

[bigvalboy]

i love nipple play from gentle to really rough and everything in between using hands, mouth, teeth, or clamps for the beginning of a sexual encounter to the culmination.

 

I am very fortunate that all the working guys i have been with feel exactly the same way and really get into it.

 

I don't think it has anything to do with whether you're bottoming, topping, or flipping. It's just so f______g hot!!

 

Boston bill

 

two thumbs up bb!! ;)

[+ sf westcoaster]

Oh yes, nipple play for me. Love to have them licked, pulled, bitten, lighty twisted and flicked. I want them played with, but not tortured. Not sure there is a relationship between nipple play and being a bottom or top, but if there is I am more of a bottom than a top.

[unsub2O17]

Well, so far I've counted five responses that are almost exactly like mine, so I'll try to "add" something. First, my nipples are, indeed, my most erogenous zone. Only my dick even comes close. I have been playing with my nipples since I was 5 (and, even then, it was with a screwdriver--not too hard at first). I LOVE it all--licking, blowing on them, flicking, pinching, and, yes, clamping and pulling (on or off). I'd love to give as good as I get (and can take), but I haven't found anyone yet. And, yes, when I see a shirtless man, I immediately look at his nips. I like the little nubbin ones, especially if they're erotic, because so much pleasure can come from such small packages. My own are more the "bullet" type (that JJ mentioned). That's why when we're talking clamping, I mean right on the nipple, not in the surrounding area which I see so much on the porn sites. I do like both played with at once. It seems so "dominating". And, while I can cum just from oral or hand, it's just not as fulfilling as if my nips are being played with/abused at the same time. I've only tried bottoming, so I can't say if there's any relation to that preference. I have noticed that at least some of my tops seem to like it when I add stimulating their nipples while they're topping me. Now it's time for my cold shower (sorry BVB, I don't smoke).

[bigvalboy]

Well, so far I've counted five responses that are almost exactly like mine, so I'll try to "add" something. First, my nipples are, indeed, my most erogenous zone. Only my dick even comes close. I have been playing with my nipples since I was 5 (and, even then, it was with a screwdriver--not too hard at first). I LOVE it all--licking, blowing on them, flicking, pinching, and, yes, clamping and pulling (on or off). I'd love to give as good as I get (and can take), but I haven't found anyone yet. And, yes, when I see a shirtless man, I immediately look at his nips. I like the little nubbin ones, especially if they're erotic, because so much pleasure can come from such small packages. My own are more the "bullet" type (that JJ mentioned). That's why when we're talking clamping, I mean right on the nipple, not in the surrounding area which I see so much on the porn sites. I do like both played with at once. It seems so "dominating". And, while I can cum just from oral or hand, it's just not as fulfilling as if my nips are being played with/abused at the same time. I've only tried bottoming, so I can't say if there's any relation to that preference. I have noticed that at least some of my tops seem to like it when I add stimulating their nipples while they're topping me. Now it's time for my cold shower (sorry BVB, I don't smoke).

 

 

You guys keep posting stuff like this, and I am going to become a chain smoker....Yes I agree unsub, I see a man with his shirt off and my eyes go right to the "nips" and then the fantasy begins.

[MFLV]

Nope, not an erogenous zone for me. I have noticed that masseurs go right for them when I flip over. But they really don't increase the pleasure for me.

[Rick Munroe]

Our nipples are our "ON" switch!

 

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/8/80/On-Off_Switch.jpg

 

And if so, gently or roughly?

 

Both. Start gently and work up to roughly.

[maxwellissmart]

I started to post this in response to some comments on the dick-sucking thread but realized it might hijack that thread.

 

I am fascinated by the different responses to nipple play. My own nipples aren't really an erogenous zone for me - a little nuzzling/sucking is is mildly interesting but not really arousing, and I defnitely am not into any roughness with them. On the other hand - I really get off working on a guy's nipples WHEN it turns him on - licking, sucking, rubbing, and an occasional nip or twist (tho NOT if he clearly doesn't like it) One of my few dissatisfactions with my current 'go to guy' is that, like me, he isn't turned on by having his nipples played with.

 

So, how about you?

 

Do you like your nipples played with? And if so, gently or roughly?

 

And you like to play with your playmate's nipples? Gently or roughly?

 

I once believed that bottoms are more likely to like having their nipples played with (especially pinched). Does your experience support that?

 

One of my nipples is apparently marked "High speed" and the other is marked "Higher speed." I actually didn't discover this until I started escorting, for which I am eternally grateful.

[corndog]

My nipples don't do anything for me. My first attraction to a guy is his pecs, but the nipples themselves aren't a big deal. I don't mind doing a little sucking and licking if it turns them on, but that usually sends them the signal that I wan't my nipples played with too, which leads me to uncontrollable boredom more than anything else. I think that the biggest take-away from this thread is the understanding that nipple play is super hot for some guys, but a snoozefest for others.

[whipped guy]

Well I think most of the nipple lovers have just about said it all...

 

Key phrases... Jap Clovers are the best

Licking, sucking, twisting, pinching, etc.

Teeth gotta be used as well

Clamps and clothespins hurt the most when removed

Like everything else nips come in different varieties... uppers, downers, bullet shaped, etc.

Gotta have my nips played with when I am about to come... and the rougher the better.

 

One more thing... Electrical is totally hot... and especially when both the nips and your cock are wired at the same time. I wrote a review of literally hooking one of my nips to a nip of a well-know escort from a large Midwestern City.. We turned up the juice and both of us were in heaven... well at least each of us had one of our nips in heaven.

 

However... there is a caveat... It has been said that using electrical current in the chest area close to the heart can cause heart problems... So I have not done it since... so you have been warned... Best to play safely and sanely...

[Diverdan]

I agree with corndog... my nipples could just as well be somewhere beyond my body... they are not connected to anything and when played with get sore and it is not stimulating at all. I know a lot of guys that way. But, I have also been with guys where their nipples seem to be directly wired to their cock. I have one buddy who is both a masseur and an escort. He can have multiple orgasims just by having his nipples played with, although not roughly. When I first met him, I admired his chest and abs, and just ran my hand over his chest and nipples. Even though he was clothed, he immediately got an erection. So, like so many other things in life and sex, find out what turns your partner on or off and play to that, and make sure your partner knows what turns you on and off too.

Dd

[bostonman]

Mine are very sensitive, and my best erogenous zone. I don't like rough play at all, but a guy who can really lavish lots of gentle/intense attention on them is a dream come true. Even better is meeting up with someone else similar, the two of us just cuddling together playing with each other's nipples - it can be a severely addicting activity, lol.

 

A favorite story from some years back - I had just started dating a guy - we had already been having sex, so of course he knew about my nipple weakness, lol. At the time, I was living with a female friend, who had also just started dating someone - and in her case, she had been mostly with women, but was now jumping to the other side of the fence, as it were. So one evening the 4 of us wound up all hanging out at our place. My roommate was, of course, totally comfortable in the presence of a gay couple, but none of us knew how comfortable HER date would be, so when the 4 of us all wound up on the large sectional in the living room watching TV, Tony (my date) and I figured we'd keep the affection to a minimum.

 

I'll never forget - we were watching, of all things, Attack Of The Killer Tomatoes. And at one point, Tony decided to get sneaky, and I felt his finger just barely rubbing one of my nipples through my shirt. Eventually he got bolder and wasn't just *hinting* at playing with it, he was giving it a good rub. And he was getting a thrill out of knowing he was getting away with it, and that I was powerless, lol. (And I have to admit I was getting a similar thrill from his being so damn sneaky, in addition to the pleasure the nipple rubbing was giving me.) I remember my breathing starting to get heavier, and I knew I couldn't keep this a "secret" for much longer. So soon after, we ditched the movie, and our company, and went to my room...

 

Unfortunately, our relationship didn't last too long, though he was a totally wonderful guy. (I was still dealing with the emotional wounds from my long-term relationship before that, and I think I was a little too scared to get too involved with someone too soon.) But we did keep in touch, and I remember at least once he asked me if I remembered that night...how could I forget? ;-)

[bigvalboy]

Mine are very sensitive, and my best erogenous zone. I don't like rough play at all, but a guy who can really lavish lots of gentle/intense attention on them is a dream come true. Even better is meeting up with someone else similar, the two of us just cuddling together playing with each other's nipples - it can be a severely addicting activity, lol.

 

A favorite story from some years back - I had just started dating a guy - we had already been having sex, so of course he knew about my nipple weakness, lol. At the time, I was living with a female friend, who had also just started dating someone - and in her case, she had been mostly with women, but was now jumping to the other side of the fence, as it were. So one evening the 4 of us wound up all hanging out at our place. My roommate was, of course, totally comfortable in the presence of a gay couple, but none of us knew how comfortable HER date would be, so when the 4 of us all wound up on the large sectional in the living room watching TV, Tony(my date) and I figured we'd keep the affection to a minimum.

 

I'll never forget - we were watching, of all things, Attack Of The Killer Tomatoes. And at one point, Tony decided to get sneaky, and I felt his finger just barely rubbing one of my nipples through my shirt. Eventually he got bolder and wasn't just *hinting* at playing with it, he was giving it a good rub. And he was getting a thrill out of knowing he was getting away with it, and that I was powerless, lol. (And I have to admit I was getting a similar thrill from his being so damn sneaky, in addition to the pleasure the nipple rubbing was giving me.) I remember my breathing starting to get heavier, and I knew I couldn't keep this a "secret" for much longer. So soon after, we ditched the movie, and our company, and went to my room...

 

Unfortunately, our relationship didn't last too long, though he was a totally wonderful guy. (I was still dealing with the emotional wounds from my long-term relationship before that, and I think I was a little too scared to get too involved with someone too soon.) But we did keep in touch, and I remember at least once he asked me if I remembered that night...how could I forget? ;-)

 

Great story bostonman. The perfect erotic story about two people that are into nipple play. Some guys just don't understand how erotic nip play can be. I have done it for hours...but with your story, it is the perfect close to a day.....I am going to finish my glass of wine and head to bed. Thank you for giving me something to dream about. Sleep tight!!

[+ Italiano]

DEFINITELY the most erogenous part of my body. The left one even more than the right. I could go forever having them licked, sucked, lightly (or not SO lightly) bitten, touched, squeezed. And they MUST be part of the event when I am cumming.

God bless nipples.

[+ Axiom2001]

Oh, nips--nips--nips! Mine are always springing into action even without touch. I love it when a "hot mouth" falls in love with them and resorts to what he did to his mother's when an infant.

Suck! Suck! Suck!

 

I also like some teeth occasionally as well as having them "fired up" just by the tips of a hot, muscular and virile man's fingers.! That's the way I like to "light" another man's,too!

 

My next desire is to have two mouths at once: I want one escort on my right nip, and another on my left--giving them all that I can stand without their using any devices!

[whipped guy]

The great thing about rough nipple play is that it is the gift that keeps on giving, and often for days after the event. If played with forcefully they can "sing" for days on end as a reminder of the "delights" that they had to "endure"... Smile on my face!

[GoodFella69]

I was married to a woman for 20 years and had no idea my nipples were an erogenous zone for me. In fact, I can never recall any female sex partner kissing or playing with my nips at all. It wasn't until I started hiring male escorts that I realized my nips are an incredibly sensitive and sexually arousing part of my body. A couple of the guys I hire fairly regularly know (and always remember) that it turns me on to have my nips licked and sucked. Both of them immediately go for my nipples as quickly as they can once we start making-out...and I love it!

 

Goodfella