Vacation with an escort

[good ol boy]

Last summer I invited Adam Campbell to join me on vacation. He never showed up. He never reimbursed me for the money I gave him upfront ( deposit ). Shame on me. This summer I am would like to consider the same "vacation with an escort" although a different escort. I do not have time to be auditioning people. Thoughts?

[rossthebosssf]

I'd be happy to make recommendations, but what kind of guys do you go for?

[down_to_business]

Don't do it. If you don't have the time to "audition" ( as you put it ) a good travel companion, then you really shouldn't attempt it. I have been there and the only thing worse than going alone is being stuck with someone you don't get along with.

 

While other people's experiences (reviews, recommendations etc) can be helpful to the process, there is not any way to guarantee that their experience will be the same as yours. It doesn't matter how often or how well they are reviewed. You really shouldn't consider taking a vacation with anyone that you don't have personal experience being with.

 

If you do it anyway, good luck on your trip. My sincere hope you don't have the same awful experiece that I did!

 

 

FYI Adam Campbell for those interested ( I was) http://www.queerpornnation.com/tag/adam-campbell/

[+ sf westcoaster]

Seconding, down-to-business's advice. I have have made multiple trips with an escort as my companion, but none of them took place before I had spent a minimum of two short sessions with the indidvidual. That being said, I would be glad to give you some recommendations, but need to know something about the type of escort you would be looking to have as your companion.

[Juan Vancouver]

Hey Good Ol Boy,

 

I have traveled for extensive periods with clients that I had not met before and things went incredibly well. I know of a few other escorts that have had the same experience. An escort who specializes in traveling with his clients will have a lot of experience making your trip a success. He will be fun, interesting, comfortable traveling, flexible with foods, schedules, different cultures, he will know how to dress up or down to match your comfort zone and he will know how to balance your time together and your time missing each other. A good travel escort will very likely speak other languages.

 

I googled Adam Campbell, and I didn't come up with reviews, so I am assuming that you were struck by his beauty and fame. I personally would recommend against ever again hiring a famous porn actor for a long period based only on what you know of him from his films. I would even recommend you to never hire an escort for a long trip without an audition, unless his reviews specifically mention long successful trips with his clients.

 

Some men see a guy with great reviews for one hour sessions and expect their escorts to be able to carry a two week trip. This, more often than not, will be a total disaster. One hour sessions and long trips are entirely different professions and if you want to make sure your trip is as wonderful as it can then you have to make sure you hire someone with the necessary skills to make it happen. Some others lure young and inexperienced escorts into having a "vacation" with them for free, and then complaint that the kid was having his own holiday, not caring about their client's needs.

 

There are many amazing travel escorts that you can choose from, and most will be ready, with a valid passport and a packed bag, if their schedule permits. Physically I could not be more different than Adam Campbell, so this is clearly not a plug for myself, I just needed to chime in and insist that you consider the incredibly talented companions that we know of.

 

I hope you will find a perfect match and I hope your trip will be an incredible success!

[Bosguy]

Last summer I invited Adam Campbell to join me on vacation. He never showed up. He never reimbursed me for the money I gave him upfront ( deposit ). Shame on me. This summer I am would like to consider the same "vacation with an escort" although a different escort. I do not have time to be auditioning people. Thoughts?

 

I would HIGHLY RECOMNEND Romann ( Chicago). I spent 5 wonderful days in Palm Springs with him in March. He has a great deal of experience in vacationing with a client and is the epitome of a perfect social and sexual partner

 

Boston Bill

[good ol boy]

For those who are asking my type, I am going to say to someone like Marc Dylan http://marcdylanblog.com/

Masc, bottom, not too young, thoughts?

[SteveEscort]

Hey Good Ol Boy,

 

I have traveled for extensive periods with clients that I had not met before and things went incredibly well. I know of a few other escorts that have had the same experience. An escort who specializes in traveling with his clients will have a lot of experience making your trip a success. He will be fun, interesting, comfortable traveling, flexible with foods, schedules, different cultures, he will know how to dress up or down to match your comfort zone and he will know how to balance your time together and your time missing each other. A good travel escort will very likely speak other languages.

 

Perfectly put. 4-5 years ago I went on a 5 day cruise around the Mediterranean islands with a client but I had met him a dozen times before. He paid for the cruise and a nominal fee for my time which was no way extortionate but compensated me for my "average" week escorting. In other words, I got a holiday with a nice chap and didn't lose out financially. He even gave me £100 to cover my cat sitting costs because he knew I had 4 little kitties and my dog. It was all on a mutual understanding.

 

I made sure I was up when he was, kept an eye on what I had to drink because I love a glass of wine or three when I am on holiday and took interest in things that really wouldn't normally bother me, he gave me an hour or two to myself every night to pop down the bar, phone home about the pets and have five minutes to myself before we went for dinner. It worked well and it's something I would most certainly repeat if the client has respectful limits for their escort.

[shadowcatzxxx]

If Marc Dylan appeals to you in the abstract, I would strongly recommend auditioning him in the flesh. I saw Marc recently for an evening ... which turned out to be one of the most pleasant and erotic evenings of my life. He is smart, personable, a good conversationalist, and a fun companion ... at least in the short term. He is the first person I have met in a LONG time that I would consider as a travel companion.

 

That said, I strongly echo the suggestions of other who've answered you here: audition, audition, audition. What was great for me may not be for you. After all, if the audition works, you will have had one or more very pleasant evenings. If it doesn't, you've saved yourself another no-show or a longer period of time and more money committed to someone you do not enjoy.

[KMEM]

You definitely need to "audition" someone for a week-end before embarking upon a 5 or more day vacation. Even then, it might happen that each other might not get along as well as hoped. Encounters are often fantasies for the client and it is difficult to maintain such during an trip of several days. That does not mean that each party is not doing what they "contracted for" but it MIGHT mean that "boundaries" were not properly considered or met. Your companion does need some time for himself, whether for gym activities or just personal time. I have found that is true for friends while on a trip but this is much more personal and upfront. Just chill out and give them and you some space.

 

In addition to the "professional" aspects of a trip there is the very real aspect of personalities. I consider this the "defining" aspect of any trip or encounter. Most anyone, either client or escort, can "fake it" for an hour or two but days of "togetherness" is what makes both "characters"

shine or not.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[good ol boy]

ok, and so there is no confusion, I will be candid, I want to sit my ass on a chair on the beach and drink from one of those glasses with an umbrella in it. Or if the spirit moves me maybe I will have a beer. We all work hard and just want to rest and relax. I do not want to have to entertain someone. If i go swimming, I swim, and if I just float then I float, maybe I will snorkel, who knows. I said Marc Dylan as an example of masculine, bottom. That is what I like. Not too young, over 25. Someone who acts like a man. Not feminine, not my thing. Your input is valuable, that is why i posted. Obviously I made a mistake in the past and i need to consult with some experts. I do like what Steve from England said and this may be a different post.. but why if the overnight rate is 1200.00 to 1500.00 should I pay $9000.00 to $11,000.00 for one week with this person, in addition to food, drinks, excursions, air fair, incidental fees. Am I well with in my limits to negotiate. Go ahead. talk.....

[citylaw1]

Last summer I invited Adam Campbell to join me on vacation. He never showed up. He never reimbursed me for the money I gave him upfront ( deposit ). Shame on me. This summer I am would like to consider the same "vacation with an escort" although a different escort. I do not have time to be auditioning people. Thoughts?

 

Big gamble! Take a recommendation from here and invest in at least an evening appointment prior to embarking on a 5 day vacation. I always reserve a two bedroom suite for extended vacations so each of us can sleep alone after intimate time. I really feel like it's tough for two relative strangers to sleep in the same bed for multiple nights. All day and all night together is too much for me, and I enjoy some privacy.

[citylaw1]

ok, and so there is no confusion, I will be candid, I want to sit my ass on a chair on the beach and drink from one of those glasses with an umbrella in it. Or if the spirit moves me maybe I will have a beer. We all work hard and just want to rest and relax. I do not want to have to entertain someone. If i go swimming, I swim, and if I just float then I float, maybe I will snorkel, who knows. I said Marc Dylan as an example of masculine, bottom. That is what I like. Not too young, over 25. Someone who acts like a man. Not feminine, not my thing. Your input is valuable, that is why i posted. Obviously I made a mistake in the past and i need to consult with some experts. I do like what Steve from England said and this may be a different post.. but why if the overnight rate is 1200.00 to 1500.00 should I pay $9000.00 to $11,000.00 for one week with this person, in addition to food, drinks, excursions, air fair, incidental fees. Am I well with in my limits to negotiate. Go ahead. talk.....

 

You should pay no more than 5K for this vacation. I have NEVER had an issue booking an escort for 1k per night on extended trips, and, often enough, 500 per night. Not EVERYONE will negotiate, but MOST will. Take this to the bank.

[citylaw1]

Hey Good Ol Boy,

 

I have traveled for extensive periods with clients that I had not met before and things went incredibly well. I know of a few other escorts that have had the same experience. An escort who specializes in traveling with his clients will have a lot of experience making your trip a success. He will be fun, interesting, comfortable traveling, flexible with foods, schedules, different cultures, he will know how to dress up or down to match your comfort zone and he will know how to balance your time together and your time missing each other. A good travel escort will very likely speak other languages.

 

I googled Adam Campbell, and I didn't come up with reviews, so I am assuming that you were struck by his beauty and fame. I personally would recommend against ever again hiring a famous porn actor for a long period based only on what you know of him from his films. I would even recommend you to never hire an escort for a long trip without an audition, unless his reviews specifically mention long successful trips with his clients.

 

Some men see a guy with great reviews for one hour sessions and expect their escorts to be able to carry a two week trip. This, more often than not, will be a total disaster. One hour sessions and long trips are entirely different professions and if you want to make sure your trip is as wonderful as it can then you have to make sure you hire someone with the necessary skills to make it happen. Some others lure young and inexperienced escorts into having a "vacation" with them for free, and then complaint that the kid was having his own holiday, not caring about their client's needs.

 

There are many amazing travel escorts that you can choose from, and most will be ready, with a valid passport and a packed bag, if their schedule permits. Physically I could not be more different than Adam Campbell, so this is clearly not a plug for myself, I just needed to chime in and insist that you consider the incredibly talented companions that we know of.

 

I hope you will find a perfect match and I hope your trip will be an incredible success!

 

This is really valuable advice if you can't "audition" first. Take a well reviewed TRAVEL escort from here (Juan would certainly qualify) that you are attracted to. Escorting, if done professionally, mirrors acting. A well reviewed travel escort will be more adept at working with your likes and gearing the vacation towards your preferences.

[citylaw1]

Last summer I invited Adam Campbell to join me on vacation. He never showed up. He never reimbursed me for the money I gave him upfront ( deposit ). Shame on me. This summer I am would like to consider the same "vacation with an escort" although a different escort. I do not have time to be auditioning people. Thoughts?

 

No deposits! Airfare, along with a hotel confirmation only.

[+ sf westcoaster]

I second the recommendation of both Romann and Juan and would add AJ Irons to the recommended list

[rossthebosssf]

ok, and so there is no confusion, I will be candid, I want to sit my ass on a chair on the beach and drink from one of those glasses with an umbrella in it. Or if the spirit moves me maybe I will have a beer. We all work hard and just want to rest and relax. I do not want to have to entertain someone. If i go swimming, I swim, and if I just float then I float, maybe I will snorkel, who knows. I said Marc Dylan as an example of masculine, bottom. That is what I like. Not too young, over 25. Someone who acts like a man. Not feminine, not my thing. Your input is valuable, that is why i posted. Obviously I made a mistake in the past and i need to consult with some experts. I do like what Steve from England said and this may be a different post.. but why if the overnight rate is 1200.00 to 1500.00 should I pay $9000.00 to $11,000.00 for one week with this person, in addition to food, drinks, excursions, air fair, incidental fees. Am I well with in my limits to negotiate. Go ahead. talk.....

 

$5k for five nights is reasonable.

[gallahadesquire]

$5k for five nights is reasonable.

 

Maybe I got a deal, but I paid $2000 for six nights to Disneyworld. This, of course, included all admissions (boy, have THOSE parks gotten expensive), all dining, and round-trip first class (I just can't do cattle any more). He was happy with it - he needed a vacation more than I did ... and our "intimate time" wasn't quite what I would have hoped it would be, but a good time was had by all.

 

These things are always open to negotiations.

[Bosguy]

I second the recommendation of both Romann and Juan and would add AJ Irons to the recommended list

 

Did an extended vacation with Romann and he is is the most perfect sex and social vacation companion you will ever find. He is well versed in this type of encounter and certainly would exceed all your expectations!!!!!

 

Boston Bill

[Rod Hagen]

I don't know that you NEED to audition someone. It might be ideal, but when I did overnights you couldn't go wrong with me. There's virtually no risk in hiring sight unseen well-reviewed escorts like Roman or Juan. If it's a choice between NOT traveling with an escort, and taking a minute risk with a perfectly reviewed scort, I think the choice is clear. GO FOR IT!

[Bart]

I see no reason to have to audition if you a gentleman with excellent travel reviews. I do overnights and weekends all the time with gentlemen I have never had an outing with. Juan and Romann are excellent options. Anything more than overnight is usually open to negotiation as long as you keep the conversation professional, up front with arrangements, allow some personal time each day for the gentleman. Deposits are not unheard of, but usually only occurs when you cancel or change things, than dont be surprised if deposits may be required. When a gentleman reserves a week for client it is a major blow to his business if you cancel so there are some risks if you that occurs but just be up front and reasonable and I tell the guys mentioned so far will come through for you. Also you may want to consider some of their input when planning the trip, these gentlemen have a lot of experience take advantage of it.

[citylaw1]

I don't know that you NEED to audition someone. It might be ideal, but when I did overnights you couldn't go wrong with me. There's virtually no risk in hiring sight unseen well-reviewed escorts like Roman or Juan. If it's a choice between NOT traveling with an escort, and taking a minute risk with a perfectly reviewed scort, I think the choice is clear. GO FOR IT!

 

Agreed.

[down_to_business]

And I think the guys assuring you a good time with the ones they recommend, specialize in travel, or are highly reviewed are willing to give you a money back guarantee.

 

I hope you make the best decision for yourself, but the second worst hire I ever made was highly recommended on this message board. Sure make an hourly hire or maybe even an overnight with one of these guys, but any longer and you are risking a whole lot. I guess it just depends on the amount of risk you are willing to take.

 

Again, my sincere hope that this game of russian roulette has a happy ending for you!

[bigvalboy]

but the second worst hire I ever made was highly recommended on this message board.

 

I agree here 100%. One of the most disappointing hires I have ever had came from a well reviewed and respected escort. The escort was a great guy, very nice and accommodating, but physically he was not at all what I was into. I would most definitely do a hour or two first. And remember, everybody is completely deferent. What someone else finds ultimately sexy is not what you might find sexy.

[LookingAround]

Two of my most disappointing escort experiences were with people who were raved about on this board.