Do You Tell Any Friends That you See Escorts?

[whipped guy]

I... find it more fun not to tell them. Keeping it my little secret makes it more fun.

Exactly! Actually, I have found that I have become prone to making quips and witty wisecracks regarding escorts and escort services. All being more or less "inside jokes" the meaning of which only I would "get"... and that does indeed make things a bit "more fun"!

[+ WilliamM]

Telling Friends That You Hire

 

I have told 10-15 close and semi-close friends, gay & straight. I have gotten various reactions, some people think it's great, others aren't so sure.

 

But, I am still glad that I tell people. It is a small, but important, part of my life.

[Damascene]

Only one friend knows and he is someone who was an escort, so he understands. We don't judge each other because of it.

[Guest glacierbob]

Or do you tell no one, not anyone else?

 

BC

There on person you knows my sponsor on my 12 step program

[down_to_business]

Whether or not you tell friends that your hire or not, I hope that you have someone in your life that you can let know whenever you meet another person (paid companionship or for free). I think this is very important, mostly when you meet for the first time, in case you never return home (i.e. craigslist killers).

[jgoo]

Whether or not you tell friends that your hire or not, I hope that you have someone in your life that you can let know whenever you meet another person (paid companionship or for free). I think this is very important, mostly when you meet for the first time, in case you never return home (i.e. craigslist killers).

 

That is an interesting point and certainly something maybe I should do but frankly I don't. I try to be careful and recognize there are always risks, even though they can be minimized by trying to only hire well reviewed guys. Even for those exceptions where I don't hire well reviewed guys I guess I've always just counted on the fact that there is likely a decent trail of info about the meeting (phone calls, emails, texts, etc) that would provide enough info to law enforcement to track down a nefarious individual if somehow I were to meet a tragic end.

 

Perhaps a topic for another thread, but I wonder how many guys here take the precaution of letting someone else know the details of a meeting with an escort and in the absence of someone they can confide in do they do anything else just in case something should happen? I guess the same question can be asked of escorts.

[jjkrkwood]

Perhaps a topic for another thread, but I wonder how many guys here take the precaution of letting someone else know the details of a meeting with an escort and in the absence of someone they can confide in do they do anything else just in case something should happen? I guess the same question can be asked of escorts.

 

Yes, this was a topic of a thread and received some good and interesting insight. Caution can NEVER me minimized in meeting with strangers, and I ALWAYS give the information I have to someone in my inner circle "Just in case". This applies whether its an escort, or a guy I meet in REAL life..

[Greathands]

A few of my friends are extremely disappointed that I have rarely hired since meeting my partner. Prior to that, when hiring was pretty much a routine, my friends and I would get together for dinner and then start combing through ads, websites, reviews, etc. to choose the next escort. Then we'd have dinner again for story time. As I said, they're disappointed those gatherings have changed!

[GoodFella69]

I'm a gay, divorced dad of two teen sons who live with me. I've never spoken to anyone (other than escorts) about my hiring practices. And I probably never will. That's why this board, and the confidential/anonymous information shared here, has become such a valuable asset to me. Thanks to Daddy and everyone else here who make this a welcoming place to exchange information on all things related to escorts.

 

Goodfella

[Guest]

My personal theory is that if you admit you hire to a gay man outside of this "world" (e.g., readers/contributors to Daddy's Reviews) you are admitting that you can't get sex without paying for it. In other words, a lesser human being or what was once termed in an even less kind period of human

history, a [gay] untermenschen.

 

I can certainly get sex without paying for it, just not with the type of guy I'm most attracted to, such as muscle studs in their mid-20s (at least, not often). The fact that I pay for sex just means sometimes I want it with a certain person at a certain time, and without any courting or wasted time. I don't tell a lot of people, but I certainly don't feel ashamed about paying for it.

[Guest]

Or, as the old joke goes:

The rooster says "Cock-a-doodle-do!"

The patriot from New England says "Yankee-doodle-do!"

The gay guy who won't hire escorts "Any-cock'll-do!" (or "Any-doodle-do!")

[Lohengrin1979]

I have one friend who knows. Part of the reason has already been stated. I needed someone to know where I was, just in case. I've never been in danger that I know of, but better safe than sorry. For my massage adventures, even my acquaintances know that I get massages often. I just don't divulege what "type" of massage I'm getting when I say I'm off to a massage appointment. After all, some of them are therapeutic.

 

Lohengrin

[KMEM]

Very likely, ALL of them are therapeutic.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[NYTomcat]

Lbt got it right. My therapist. The bf. My brother. In fact my brother has met three of them... i have at least a dozen friends who know. More who have met some of them. Hell i even took one out to dinner with my colleagues from work.... when i came out... late ... i learned i wont hide anymore. I dont volunteer but if asked im not ashamed either. Thats a trap i wont fall into.

 

Im happy with me. And happy to have these men in my life. My mother always said if you wouldnt want people to know what your doing... you shouldnt do it. I like living that way. Anyone who judges me for it... their loss

[+ carlos45]

I've told my best friend, my therapist and a very few chosen friends.