Bad Ecort Experience

[foxy]

I've beeen hiring escorts off and on for over 10 years. I've aways had good experiences and I'd like to think the escort did also. Most expressed an interest in seeing me again.

Recently I had my first real bad experience. The session started out ok but after less than 15 minutes the escort decided he had given me enough time. I protested that I'd paid for an hour. I said I would pay him but I was very dissatisfied with the experience. He said "who said anything about money, I don't want your money" and started to dress. I was shocked and didn't know if he was serious or not. I dressed and left without paying him anything. I'd never done that before. I was very upset and almost wondered if he was going to come after me. He didn't. I'm still bothered about the whole thing. It happened about two weeks ago. Did I do the right thing? Should I hae left some money on the bed and then walked out? I really wasn't trying to cheat him, I just took what he said at face value. I fully understand that maybe he just didn't like me and I'm ok with that but I've always thought of myself as a good client in attiude and cleanliness. I am pretty vanilla in my tastes and have never asked for anything unusual. Any thoughts?

[KY_TOP]

He said he didn't want your money and you felt you did not get what you had arranged with him so I think you did the right thing. I know many are reluctant to post bad reviews but, have you considered a review? If you had made contact thru e-mail I might consider contacting him for an explanation if it is important to you.

[Guest fukamarine]

>He said he didn't want your money and you felt you did not

>get what you had arranged with him so I think you did the

>right thing. I know many are reluctant to post bad reviews

>but, have you considered a review? If you had made contact

>thru e-mail I might consider contacting him for an explanation

>if it is important to you.

 

Some random thoughts:

 

He terminated it and told you he didn't want any of your money. So you did nothing wrong in taking him at face value.

 

Who knows why he terminated the session but I wouldn't spend a lot of time ruminating over it.

 

He was perhaps rude for not giving you an explanation but he was decent in not trying to milk money from you.

 

Maybe he was just having a bad day with personal problems on his mind that prevented him from putting his "all" into it.

 

If this has never happened to you before and you are convinced that you were clean and undemanding, then move on, forget about it! Everything we touch does not necessarily turn into gold. On to the next!

 

fukamarine

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Greetings~

 

Strange situation. My thoughts:

 

 

a) He had some idea that you were a cop, thus he denied any payment as to protect himself.

 

b) He was just a wierdo who backed out way too late...

 

 

 

Obviously, not an exact explaination of Freudian standards, but IMO probably your two best shots. Don't let it phase you and just remember to keep with well-reviewed guys or personal recommendations. Best of luck on your next foray into the wild

 

 

Warmest Regards,

 

 

 

 

Benjamin Nicholas

[VaHawk]

Why do I get the feeling that you are leaving out part of the story? Why did you feel that he might come after you? If you felt that way it must have been an uglier scene than you are relating in your post. If not, then I don't see why you consider it a bad experience, as he didn't charge you for what you didn't get. Unless, of course, the illusion of having the escort tell you how fabulous you are and how much they want to see you again, is the main reason you hire an escort. If this is the case, I can see why you consider it a bad experience. BTW - 10 years and this is what you consider your worst? LOL, I wish most of us could say that! :o

[Guest DevonSFescort]

>I don't see why you consider it a bad experience, as he didn't >charge you for what you didn't get.

 

I doubt it's so much about the money as the rejection delivered in what sounds like a rude, abrupt manner. Going through the anticipation, making plans and travel time to make an date happen, only to have the guy bail fifteen minutes into it -- that would be a drag even if the guy wasn't an escort. But to have it happen with someone you're hiring, or thought you were hiring, adds insult to injury.

 

>BTW - 10 years and this is what you consider your worst? LOL,

>I wish most of us could say that! :o

 

This brings up a good point, which is that good clients tend to have a lot of good experiences. This particular experience sounds pretty flukey and like it didn't have much, if anything, to do with foxy, so I'd take heart in that (and no, you weren't wrong to leave without paying!).

[VaHawk]

I guess it must be nice to live in Disney World. :o

[Guest Love Bubble Butt]

Is this escort an established escort? Is it possible you were his first client and he just freaked out about what he was doing?

 

Several years ago, I had a friend who tried to escort. He tried it once, and to my knowledge, only once. Anyway, he told me that as soon as the client leaned on him on the couch and started kissing him, he freaked out, pushed the client away, got up, ran out, went home and cried. He said he felt dirty and ashamed. I'm sure his client wondered himself what the hell happened or what he had done wrong. But the client had done nothing wrong! My friend just wasn't cut out to be an escort.

 

I imagine there are a lot of guys who try to be an escort but are just unable to go through with it.

[Guest RetrdEscrt]

RE: Bad Escort Experience

 

What a weird situation ?

 

If the whole story is just that,he bails after 15 minutes and didn't want any cash then i dont see the problem,as others have said maybe he got spooked or he was new to the business,it would seem more strange if the guy was a seasoned escort who maybe had a repuatation and reviews.

 

Just put it down to one of those things and dont let it bother you too much ,as VaHawk said if after 10 years thats the worst thats happened then count yourself lucky

 

It could have been a combination of a whole lot of things that made the guy freak out-File under LEARNING EXPERIENCES and get on with planning yourt next appt.