fee for time.

[topasian99]

I am about to hire an escort for the first time. I have a couple of questions with regards to fees.

1) Assuming that the agreed-upon fee is $400. for two hours. You time the sessions, and fun ended after 1 hr 55 minutes. You stay in bed, cuddles, he is in no hurry to leave. Am I going to remind him of your time agreed upon so that the fee remains $400. despite of the fact that by the time we get up, shower(?) chit chat. it may take another hour; and the escort may expect to get compensated for 3 hours instead of two? In short. Should I expect the two hour agreed is what is going to be what the fee based on, and not actually the time spent together, unless otherwise agreed?

 

2) I see that it seems like a general rule that from the moment of your meeting, there will be no mentioning and exchange of money until the very end. What if the "fun" takes place at a public place where you can not have the money "visible" to the escort. Should you still expect only to pay at the end?

 

THank you,

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Greetings and Good Question... Here are my thoughts:

 

Personally, when i meet with a client (especially when it's an initial meeting) i try to sit and chat with him as much as possible~ to let him know about me, to get to know them and to basically make things as comfortable as possible. Seeing as such, i do not charge for this 'talk time' as i feel it's extremely important to lay some groundwork between the escort and client.

 

Some may call it 'bad business' but most of my initial (hourly) contacts with new clients last about 3-4 hours and i'm usually collecting for much less... That is, unless the client makes it a point to add to the already agreed fee. Basically, it's not something i sweat about because i enjoy getting to talk with new people and finding common-gound with the guys i meet

 

 

In regards to your other question~ DO NOT pay up front, ever. Now, in some situations, you may have to (ie, working through an agency) but in my experiences the independent escorts who ask for upfront money have had nothing but trouble. Your best bet if public play is involved is to leave all money matters to later in the meeting~ whether the exchange be in a vehicle, at Dennys over coffee or a simple loaded handshake.

 

 

 

I hope things work out for you & wish you the best of luck with your initial encounter

 

 

 

Warmest Regards,

 

 

 

Benjamin Nicholas

Escort@ChiKindaKid.com

http://www.ChiKindaKid.com

[topasian99]

Hey ben,

 

You are such a charmer!.

With regards to question#2 . The escort is supposed to place 100% trust in a new client? They not afraid of being stiffed?

Mind you, there is the phone number, etc.

 

with regards to question#1

What are the general guidelines? Soon as the agreed upon 2 hours is up, should I be reminding the escort of the time? Would there not be guys who may want to make that extra 200 dollars simply by just laying there, cuddling, etc.?

There is so much to learn!

[Rick Munroe]

>The escort is supposed to place

>100% trust in a new client? They not afraid of being

>stiffed?

 

Well, some of us like being "stiffed." }( But seriously, I do trust new clients and yes, I've been burned but I just see it as a risk I have to take in a risky business. I suppose I could bring a tire-iron-wielding thug with me to make sure I don't get ripped off, but my mother already has a full plate, what with her work at the temple and caring for my father (he's not ill, just very needy).

 

>Soon as the agreed upon 2

>hours is up, should I be reminding the escort of the time?

>Would there not be guys who may want to make that extra 200

>dollars simply by just laying there, cuddling, etc.?

 

If you hire someone who's well-reviewed & has a good reputation, then he should & probably will be the one to take charge & be aware of the time, etc. Someone who is a pro will not try to milk you for extra money. (Frankly, I don't see why any escort would try to do that; how do they know you have another few hundred dollars on you, anyway?) However, if you want to be sure, then by all means mention the time & reconfirm that you're only hiring for 2 hours. I see nothing wrong with both escort & client being aware & taking responsibilty for the whole encounter. You're both adults (hopefully!).

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Communication

 

Mr. Munroe and Mr. Nichols both made very good points, essentially the same points I would make. Not every escort would take the position that Mr. Nichols takes but some do. I always do so with new clients, unless the client makes it clear he is pressed for time or has no desire to "be known" much less "get to know me." He just wants service and with a smile!

 

However, the easiest thing to do in your instance (and for all such questions) is to discuss ALL of these issues with your escort, particularly because each of us may have different issues. Someone else may have something to do and may want a quick shower and to leave. If you wanted them to stay past an agreed upon point, that would be your responsibility. As has been discussed elsewhere and as Rick pointed out, most escorts would casually mention that the time was running late, but it should also be as much your responsibility to note that and ask if they wanted to shower or clean up.

 

Finally, discuss in advance how payment will be handled. It can be done very gracefully in public places and a competent escort would have any number of suggestions, one of which should be agreeable to you.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Keep this in mind~

 

 

Many times you'll find that an escort has just as many trust issues as a client does, but as Rick said, it's a business filled with everyday risks that are far greater & far more menial than a simple initial encounter. For stress-sake, you've got to look at every new meeting as an adventure or you'll just worry yourself to death

 

A seasoned escort is going to be able to ebb & flow with you immediately and subdue any trust issues either of you may have. I wouldn't worry too much about that as long as you hire within a well-reviewed circle...

 

As for an escort sticking around intentionally just to pick up an extra hundered or so~ I call those guys hustlers, not escorts. BIG DIFFERENCE. For your own safety, you may want to keep an eye on the clock yourself if you feel like you're being taken advantage of. Honestly, any excuse will do when it comes to a client ending a meeting, so don't really worry about putting yourself in an akward situation.

 

 

I'm glad to see you're asking more questions~ How can one expect to be prepared if they go into something blind? Very smart move.

 

 

 

 

Warmest Regards,

 

 

 

 

Benjamin Nicholas

[Flower]

Should I expect the two hour agreed is what is going to

>be what the fee based on, and not actually the time spent

>together, unless otherwise agreed?

 

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Quite frankly, to interupt whatever is happening at 1:55 has to spoil whatever mood is going on and you may as well end the session yourself at that point if your statement doesn't have that effect.

 

I would recomend that in the initial arrangments, you make it clear that you want a 2 hour session ( or whatever) and only have $400 to spent "this time" and then let your escort take responsibility for the time. Just like the ad for the Greyhound Bus--"leave the driving to Us"

 

I personally prefer overnights or longer with a favorate escort, but if I'm trying someone new I will never arrange for more than one hour the first time. Either there will be no next time (most of the cases) or the next time will usually be an overnight, with few exceptions. I find that the 2 hour encounter on the first time has an awkward lull, although there have been exceptions }(

 

If the escort is well reviewed, I have found they are usually trustworthy and I basically assume so until proven wrong--which happens once in a while too They obviously have trust issues on the first time with a new client--it's a 2 way street.

 

As has been said, never-ever pay up front, especially the first time. While I can understand a legit escort wanting $$ up front (probably having been burned once or twice b4), NEVER DO IT, 'Cause COPS also require payment up front and they NEVER perform for you except on the witness stand although will be happy to escort your ass downtown. Cops going after the johns is kinda rare however, but still a precaution I always take.

Just MHO

[topasian99]

YOu guys have been tremendous help, i hope all is going to go well with this "date"

I will no doubt post a review and let you guys know how it all went.

[Guest RetrdEscrt]

If you have never hired an escort before then let the guy you are intent on hiring KNOW THIS ,believe me it will be better for both parties in the long run.

 

As the other guys have said NEVER pay up front,leave the money where the escort can see it so he knows you aren't gonna stiff him his fee.

 

Any pro escort should be able to satisfy you within the time limit of your appt whether it be 1-2 hrs or maybe longer if you spend 30 minutes of a 1hr appt chatting because you are nervous it's NOT the escorts problem,i know this may sound a bit hard but this is a business 1st and foremost you pay for an hour you get an hour its easy really.

 

If the escort is a nice guy he might let some time slide and but really the client should at least give him a tip to cover the extra time.

 

Actually i would be interested to see if any other escorts use the same method that i did,because most of my clients are repeat business and they became more than just clients ,all of them i consider as friends when i hade an appt usually an overnight no money would change hands before the appt the money would be transferred into an account i used for my escorting business so i didnt have to worry about the client giving me a wad of cash.It did work very well and because the account was in my name if you looked through financial records it wouldn't seem strange.It would be interesting to find out how many guys would TRUST their regulars to do this.;-)

[Guest endoman31]

once upon a time I forgot to leave the money. The escort was pleasant when he called me and I sent out a travelers check. I subsequently laid out the money as well as the body at the start.

 

I arrange the fee. The escort watches the clock. They have ways, with the music they play, or with other clues and my regulars allow me to stay beyond the time. Usually a shower is included, but not always, and usually alone. Two boys takes the shower with me, making them extra special, and frequent fliers.

 

I do IN at their place, and that is essential for my needs. :+

[Flower]

>how many guys would TRUST their regulars to do this.;-)

 

A long time favorite escort of mine, who has since become a good friend -- infact we sometimes travel together "off the clock" -- has me do this very thing, and it is better for both of us. In fact I keep a few extra deposit slips for his checking account. in my desk I make the deposit at my local branch of his bank, and often do it several weeks ahead of time since it may be more convenient for me not to have the cash laying around and certainly nicer not to have to carry it when I travel or take it down someplace to get money orders. Obviously, trust is both ways and has never been violated by either.

[uriellasvegas]

Hopefully you and your escort will be relaxed and have a good time together. This is a business deal, afterall, and if you negotiate a price it is a "contract". If you negotiate 400 for 2 hours that's the deal... the tip for extra time (unless time is re-negotiated) is between the two of you.

 

 

 

The escort is a business person who is only asking for the basic respect you would give someone in the secular world. Yes, I have been stiffed... not always in a good way. BUT, the whole expereince is what counts for you, but there has to be a level of mutual respect.

 

 

 

Anyway, keep it light and have fun. Don't be nervous and if you are I hope your escort helps you relax.

 

Uriel/Las Vegas :o

[uriellasvegas]

Right on! I like it when someone tells me up front what is going on with them... whether this is their first time or if they have any special neds. It makes the whole occasion that much better for everyone involved!

[Guest Ant415]

I think it is good advice to leave the cash displayed on a desk for display. He will know you are good for the money, and will also figure you left the agreed dollar amount.

 

If a good escort knows you left out $400, he will be pretty good at timing the whole event. Since he is the pro, it is his responsibility to notice the time. If the time is close to going over, he should tactfully mention the time is almost up, suggesting a close in the fun, or buying some more time.

 

Any decent guy should not have an issue with 30 mins before/after the two hour time slot. It should be allowed as chance to sell himself and know each other. In the real business world sales people often spend uncompensated time to secure a deal. Since escorts are in the business world, they should appreciate this. I'd expect this to be talk time before things heat up. Once the fun is over, most likely he will need to run.

 

Is a fine line between a good escort not watching the clock down to the minute and a client that tries to go beyond the agreed time/rate.