not into anal anything...

[jjkrkwood]

Hordes of straight men are missing the joys of anal sex lest it be thought that they might be gay. So it is a bit disconcerting to learn that even some gay men think the anus is an exit only orifice.

The pleasures of anal sex are many, from fingers to tongues to dildos to cocks and even the rare cucumber. Okay, I have never had a cucumber up there!

 

My suggestion is that if you are leery of introducing anything into the nice warm place full of millions of sensitive nerve endings that can have you ecstatic with pleasure, try going slowly and seeing what joys you can find that way.

Sometimes it is just meeting the right guy, the guy that will open your world to new pleasures, for which you will be eternally grateful.

Any other bright ideas?

http://cdn-www.cracked.com/articleimages/wong/medslang/faecal.jpg

 

I think that MOST of the gay men that say they are NOT into anal sex have at some point TRIED it, and have come to their own conclusions. Nowhere in the gay manual does it say that anal sex is Mandatory to the gay male species. No doubt, alot of men get extreme pleasure from anal sex, but alot do not, and those that do not should not be made to feel like there is something wrong with them.

[jjkrkwood]

never been much of a fan of anal. I could be happy as a clam with just kissing making out, cuddling, frottage, rimming, oral and mutual masturbation in a relationship. If actually give the choice of 7 hours of making out and cuddling or 1hr of sex id take the 7hrs of cuddling and kissing

 

Lets get Married !

[Samai139]

The pleasures of sex are not strictly physical; they are also mental and psychological. A penis can get erect and ejaculation can occur under many circumstances---self-masturbation, mutual masturbation, fellatio, anal intercourse, even, I've been told, with just mental concentration, no touching.

Bottom line? There's no "one size fits all" when it comes to sex. Be open to others' tastes and non-judgemental if they are not yours. You like anal intercourse and he likes oral only? Guess both of you would be better off with someone else.

[Guest verymarried]

Bravo OP - I am voting with you in the non-anal primary election, though I respect the many who choose otherwise. I don't do it at all, either way. Further, I have never liked wet kissing or eating cum. Despite all these limitations and probably more, I have been told by some longtime partners, to my shock, that I have "taught them how to make love." Go figure.

[Michael Wayne]

the percentage of, "oral only," clients is pretty high. I don't keep records but it is close to 50% of my clients. They love MASSAGE, cuddling, kissing and some are into giving head and others into recieving and some do both. As an oral top I love both aspects. On the flip side I also have clients who ONLY want anal and we bypass almost all foreplay and get to the main event. I have learned to give the customer what he wants and do it with a smile. Let's face face it: it is hard not to smile when someone is blowing you goooooood. lol http://www.rentboy.com/mikey9nola1

[Bob]

Since I'm older than dirt and started having sex way before the AIDs virus appeared I was strictly a top and loved it. My few attempts at bottoming hurt and gave me no pleasure. And then things came crashing down with the need for condoms. They killed all pleasure; I could barely maintain an erection let alone achieve orgasm. So I was strictly oral for several years. And then I met a beautiful, patient and gentle, hung-like-a-horse top who opened a whole new world for me and has sent me on the quest for more and more tops. Only problem they are often hard to find.

[Decatur Guy]

I like anal myself, top and bottom. In fact, I pretty much plan on anal if I'm hiring an escort. But for every time I fuck, I probably have three or four times where it's just oral. And that's fine by me.

[seeker630]

The pleasures of sex are not strictly physical; they are also mental and psychological. A penis can get erect and ejaculation can occur under many circumstances---self-masturbation, mutual masturbation, fellatio, anal intercourse, even, I've been told, with just mental concentration, no touching.

Bottom line? There's no "one size fits all" when it comes to sex. Be open to others' tastes and non-judgemental if they are not yours. You like anal intercourse and he likes oral only? Guess both of you would be better off with someone else.

 

Exactly!

 

In my early 'kid in the candy store phase' in grad school, there were many more opportunities for quick 'oral only' encounters. I did try bottoming (mostly to please partners) but quickly realized I did not enjoy it; but I did (& do) love to top. But when the arrival of HIV made condoms a necessity for reasonable men, I found that I seldom enjoyed anal sex under those circumstances and oral sex became my mainstay (tho perhaps more aggressively). Now I seldom have anal sex with escorts (except my "regular" guy). And I can have a VERY satisfying encounter with deep kissing, mutual oral (but I need someone who can deepthroat) and frottage.

 

And I seem to recall previous comments by some escorts that a significant number of clients do go as far as anal.

[SteveEscort]

I love anal as I am very sensitive in this region, I prefer to bottom than top.

 

I hate shagging me who have no anal hygiene, I hate it when my dick comes out with shit all over the condom, the smell itself is vulgar. Accidents do happen and they've happened with me if I have had a huge guy who has shagged the life out on me. But I always douche before every appointment. Very few clients do

[josephga]

I love anal as I am very sensitive in this region, I prefer to bottom than top.

 

I hate shagging me who have no anal hygiene, I hate it when my dick comes out with shit all over the condom, the smell itself is vulgar. Accidents do happen and they've happened with me if I have had a huge guy who has shagged the life out on me. But I always douche before every appointment. Very few clients do

 

that's why i hate anal I've dated 2 guys in my life that wouldn't douche and once they came the sex was over. i had no desire for a orgasm in return.

for awhile i was offering prostate massage but stopped due to bad hygiene. Id use latex free gloves, followed by a Aneros Progasm Stimulator. they would lie claiming they douched and it clear they didn't... you are right most wont douche..

[maxwellissmart]

I love anal as I am very sensitive in this region, I prefer to bottom than top.

 

I hate shagging me who have no anal hygiene, I hate it when my dick comes out with shit all over the condom, the smell itself is vulgar. Accidents do happen and they've happened with me if I have had a huge guy who has shagged the life out on me. But I always douche before every appointment. Very few clients do

 

I would say (rather gladly) that the majority of my clients do clean themselves well, and are quite conscientious. Obviously I've been with some clients who couldn't have given a shit (but unfortunately did, so to speak), and ranged from "omigod-i'm-going-to-die" to "whatever, deal with it." What truly sucks is when your body just doesn't want to cooperate for getting clean yourself.

[whipped guy]

Obviously I've been with some clients who couldn't have given a shit (but unfortunately did, so to speak)...

Somehow this belongs in "The Death of Common Courtesy" thread as well...

[Lohengrin1979]

that's why i hate anal I've dated 2 guys in my life that wouldn't douche and once they came the sex was over. i had no desire for a orgasm in return.

for awhile i was offering prostate massage but stopped due to bad hygiene. Id use latex free gloves, followed by a Aneros Progasm Stimulator. they would lie claiming they douched and it clear they didn't... you are right most wont douche..

 

Douching shouldn't be necessary if you clean thoroughly. I don't douche and I've only once had an issue and that was for a reason like the poster said. The top was HUGE and literally pounded me into the bed. All my other bottoming experiences have been incident free. It sounds like your clients weren't even washing properly. Ick!

 

Regards,

 

Lohengrin