Kissing and anal sex

[down_to_business]

Just curious if anyone else has an 'issue' like myself. I can't seem to enjoy anal sex if kissing is not involved. Is this something that is 'normal' or is it something I should easily be able to get over?

[GoodFella69]

DTB, I agree with you big time! Kissing a man while simultaneously penetrating his butt is one of the greatest sensations I've ever felt. I have topped a couple of guys (escorts) who didn't like to kiss and the love-making experiences were greatly diminished. For me, kissing a man deeply while fucking him increases the intimacy, intensity and bonding between us like nothing else can. I primarily hire bottoms or vers/bottoms and the first question I always ask before hiring is whether they truly enjoy kissing their sex partners.

 

Goodfella

[BaronArtz]

down_to_business: no, it is not abnormal. If you want to get over it though, I suggest praying a lot before and after sex. You could also meditate.

[Phil_musc]

I was going to suggest therapy or some sort of herbal supplemental stuff to help you get over it, but I think the Baron might have really hit the nail on the head with suggesting prayer or meditation. Good advice all around here, I'd say, DTB. We all got your back on this one. Of course if therapy, prayer, etc, doesn't work, call me.

[rvwnsd]

Just curious if anyone else has an 'issue' like myself. I can't seem to enjoy anal sex if kissing is not involved. Is this something that is 'normal' or is it something I should easily be able to get over?

 

Why would you want to "get over" something you enjoy? Simply don't meet up with someone who won't kiss you while you are getting fucked and find someone who does.

[SteveEscort]

Why would you want to "get over" something you enjoy? Simply don't meet up with someone who won't kiss you while you are getting fucked and find someone who does.

 

Hear hear, I think it would be odd not to kiss someone who was banging away, however, I don't kiss heavy smokers because the heightened experience is diminished from the smell

[jgoo]

Recently contacted an escort who advertised that he was open to anything but when it got down to answering my question about kissing he said that he didn't kiss. What a disappointment but no where as much as a disappointment it would have been if we had met and no kissing was involved. I have learned that kissing is so important to my encounter (more so than quite a few other aspects) that if they don't or do not seem enthusiastic about it, the deal is off. As far as kissing and anal sex, that is the holy grail for what I look for and I think that is a totally normal expectation for those that enjoy it.

[adriano46]

Personally, if the escort does not KISS (and I ask about this before we meet), then the date is OFF. To me, having sex without the intimacy of kissing is just too impersonal and robotic. I can do that with my left hand and some porn and save a heck of a lot of money in the process. Similarly, if we go so far as anal sex (and I only top), Kissing while being inside the other guy is what makes it all worthwhile.

[Michael Wayne]

While we gay men may not understand it the facts are that alot of the actual CLIENTS are married guys who still see themselves as straight and curious. I deal with many men who want to get fucked but WILL NOT KISS me under any circumstances. I was reading the EXCELLENT new reviews of JACK and read that he was willing and ready to bottom in the clients' sling for him- BUT WOULD NOT KISS. so , obviously, alot of guys can enjoy fucking or bottoming without kissing. Now, in my job as a top escort, I have had to learn to fuck without kissing even though my preference is to kiss (as my clients know!) Final thought: the HOTTER the bottom the more difficult it is for me not to kiss..lol! http://www.rentboy.com/mikey9nola1

[jjkrkwood]

I dont enjoy ANY sex unless kissing is involved. A great mouth on mine is the spark that ignites and sustains my passion (and boner)

[+ Lucky]

The best kiss is right after a guy has rimmed you, then comes up for air and a deep French love kiss. How could anyone resist?

[jjkrkwood]

The best kiss is right after a guy has rimmed you, then comes up for air and a deep French love kiss. How could anyone resist?

 

Well Lucky, I can think of a FEW reasons that would be cause for resistance, but for the most part, you are Right... ;-)

[dapurplebear]

Kissing is HUGE... period

[+ Axiom2001]

The best kiss is right after a guy has rimmed you, then comes up for air and a deep French love kiss. How could anyone resist?

 

Damn, this is so friggin' hot!

 

Also, after the top "daddy" has stuck his finger or fingers into a very hot and moist hole--kiss the bottom and have him taste those fingers along

with you; that's "scorching" sexy and hot as well! FUK! FUK! FUK!

[+ Axiom2001]

Deep and wet kissing is 'supreme' with me.

 

If a man refuses to do this or doesn't do it--I will NOT seek his impending and presumably hot and sexy service.

DON'T worry too much about your requests; either go with the man or don't go with him. It is as simple as that!

[gp0560]

The best kiss is right after a guy has rimmed you, then comes up for air and a deep French love kiss. How could anyone resist?

 

How? By pushing the guy away from you and making him wash his face and gargle before resuming play.

 

Rim + kiss may be turn some people on, but not all, and I have to say it does not work for me AT ALL. I mean no offense to you, Lucky, but to each his own.