What if he really means it?

[Damascene]

Generally I approach hiring an escort like watching a movie. I suspend belief during the appointment. If I enjoy myself, I don't poke holes in the dialog.

[+ Tygerscent]

Some Escorts consider Clients as Family, Friend, Lover of sorts, Confidant, Companion, Boy Friend, People/Person/Intimate, (all nouns), and more. Some Escorts develop "relationships" of incredible depth with their Clients and vise versa, (sometimes understanding each other more then the Client or Escort's friends, Family or others who have daily relation with them).

Some Clients/Escorts go thru cancer issues, divorce issues, ethical and moral issues, mental health issues, accidents, illnesses, psychological issues, emotional issues, spiritual issues together with their Escorts~ They Have Valid Relationships... even though there are professional boundaries~ Some times the professional boundaries are exactly what makes it all work and results in healing and understanding~

Both Clients and Escorts have the capacity to like, Love, feel respect and admiration for each other~

In some instances, the Client/Escort relationship is more Personal and Intimate then any other relationship outside of that shared personal time together... a time shared that is safe and private and most honest without judgement from the rest of their other relationships~

While we are Escort or Client... inevitably we are Human Beings... Human in Being... Imperfect perhaps but, equally due and deserving and capable of genuine Love, Compassion, Caring, Giving, Love thru all kinds of support including Hot Man on Man romantic, dirty, filthy, Loving, caring, complex Male Lust~

We are both people... not simply items~

Love, compassion, understanding are part of the Human make up... it extends itself beyond simple definition of Client or Escort in the simple definition~ We are Human beings in relation and relationship, not void of true feeling and emotion~

Tyger!

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A problem that I'm encountering early in my "client" career is that I've been so conditioned to not believe any compliment that an escort gives me or at least to question it. I've been assured by many that this is just part of the business. So, how do I tell if he really means it? A case in point: I've been to an escort who has told me often that I'm special. Well, at first, I just "knew" that he tells everyone this. Finally, I said something like "it's ok. you really don't have to say these things to me". He seemed to get offended and said that he wouldn't say it if he didn't mean it. So? I'm already so conditioned that I just can't seem to believe it when he says these things. How do I tell?

[Lohengrin1979]

Cynicism is as cynicism does....

 

Some Escorts consider Clients as Family, Friend, Lover of sorts, Confidant, Companion, Boy Friend, People/Person/Intimate, (all nouns), and more. Some Escorts develop "relationships" of incredible depth with their Clients and vise versa, (sometimes understanding each other more then the Client or Escort's friends, Family or others who have daily relation with them).

Some Clients/Escorts go thru cancer issues, divorce issues, ethical and moral issues, mental health issues, accidents, illnesses, psychological issues, emotional issues, spiritual issues together with their Escorts~ They Have Valid Relationships... even though there are professional boundaries~ Some times the professional boundaries are exactly what makes it all work and results in healing and understanding~

Both Clients and Escorts have the capacity to like, Love, feel respect and admiration for each other~

In some instances, the Client/Escort relationship is more Personal and Intimate then any other relationship outside of that shared personal time together... a time shared that is safe and private and most honest without judgement from the rest of their other relationships~

While we are Escort or Client... inevitably we are Human Beings... Human in Being... Imperfect perhaps but, equally due and deserving and capable of genuine Love, Compassion, Caring, Giving, Love thru all kinds of support including Hot Man on Man romantic, dirty, filthy, Loving, caring, complex Male Lust~

We are both people... not simply items~

Love, compassion, understanding are part of the Human make up... it extends itself beyond simple definition of Client or Escort in the simple definition~ We are Human beings in relation and relationship, not void of true feeling and emotion~

Tyger!

tygerkink@yahoo.com

971.400.2633

http://www.tygerscent.biz

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http://www.maleescortreview.com (Tygerscent in Portland, Oregon)

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Well said Tyger. So many of these posts try to cast escorts as these mercenary businessman out there to earn their money and shield their hearts. I'm sure that's true for some cases, but such a generalization is misleading. I've met some wonderful guys out there for erotic massage and some escort sessions and it has so far not been routine. All of us from the most gorgeous Adonis to the average joe are human and desire connection and comfort. I think it's very easy in the type of intimate situation that hiring escorts and masseurs provides to gain that connection....for BOTH parties. I've even maintained friendships with three of my erotic masseurs and we hang out as friends because the connection was there and we took the time to cultivate it. I will say it also makes the subsequent sessions with them better for it, because of the connection.

 

I'm sure as I gain more experience with hiring that I'll run into a mercenary, but I think they're the exception rather than the rule. Escorting is demanding and only those who possess strength and compassion do well in it. Without either, they won't last long. So, don't assume that the man you hire is just going through the paces. Doing so runs the risk that you will project that attitude on to him and deaden what could have been a far more passionate experience.

 

My two cents,

Lohengrin

[+ Tygerscent]

I find myself not financially rich... I am blessed with richness of life in relation with the people I meet/have met~

What is the beauty Adonis~?

Is it the physical sensation without the heat and mutual melting together of naked human presence together, innocent, natural, honest, mind into mind, soul into soul, skin on skin, spirit into spirit~? Somehow I value more, the Intoxication each other fully, Human being into Human being, person to person, Man on Man, (as the case may be or man to woman as well...).

The point of departure is simply that we move thru sexuality, soul, dirty filthy man/woman/human desires, all kinds of things... hot, naked, sexy even... Exchanging Emotions: private feelings and thoughts, vulnerabilities and trusts exchanged in all kinds of ways~

We show off in a giving way, the nasty or nice, soulful or overtly sexual/sensual, loving or down dirty beauty of ourselves not to fend off others but attract them in ... we can meet together and become more together from the experience together~ We don't go thru life with the goal NOT to connect~ What good is there in that?

To exemplify my point: WHAT would life be with this???

What is the point of calling you my Lover/partner/ambient other if you are not or only that for my on personal gain or your own?

I can't verbally express how very painful the idea of this video being a real situation in my life might be, (has in the past been as well~). I don't personally strive for that~

I now some people let things go at that level~ What does one come away with though??? Separation from each other but... without moving beyond that... how do we grow without seeing each other with acceptance and seeking understanding? How Is the concept of "somebody I used to know" fulfilling? That is difficult for me to comprehend~ My fault perhaps and point of learning~

I don't really want to just have "somebodies that I used to know" in my life~ I want the real, connection.. hot, soulful, emotional, psychological, spiritual, romantic, dirty, man on man, man on woman, man on man on woman, perfectly imperfect as we may be... whatever but respectfully~

We are here to distance from each other?

Does one really want that? Can we as individuals survive being distant from each other?

Tyger!

tygerkink@yahoo.com

971.400.2633

http://www.tygerscent.biz

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http://www.maleescortreview.com (Tygerscent in Portland, Oregon)

http://www.rentmen.com (AAAtygerscentXXX in Portland Oregon)

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Well said Tyger. So many of these posts try to cast escorts as these mercenary businessman out there to earn their money and shield their hearts. I'm sure that's true for some cases, but such a generalization is misleading. I've met some wonderful guys out there for erotic massage and some escort sessions and it has so far not been routine. All of us from the most gorgeous Adonis to the average joe are human and desire connection and comfort. I think it's very easy in the type of intimate situation that hiring escorts and masseurs provides to gain that connection....for BOTH parties. I've even maintained friendships with three of my erotic masseurs and we hang out as friends because the connection was there and we took the time to cultivate it. I will say it also makes the subsequent sessions with them better for it, because of the connection.

 

I'm sure as I gain more experience with hiring that I'll run into a mercenary, but I think they're the exception rather than the rule. Escorting is demanding and only those who possess strength and compassion do well in it. Without either, they won't last long. So, don't assume that the man you hire is just going through the paces. Doing so runs the risk that you will project that attitude on to him and deaden what could have been a far more passionate experience.

 

My two cents,

Lohengrin