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Why after a relationship ends, the dating life that proceeds it is hell?

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JoeyBryant Community Regular

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Is it any wonder that you seem to have relationship problems? Your posts are whiney and negative, the same as your blog.

 

BTW, re your blog, "bought" is not a synonym for "brought".

 

Damn, I got your attention so much you creepin on my blog?

 

Anyway, be quiet. What the fuck relationship problems you going on about? Dating is not the same as a relationship wise ass. You so busy trying to play expert and make up a reason just because you don't like what I have to say. That's weak, and I'm going to put you in your place.

 

Keep em coming, I can take everything you throw at me. Your words of discouragement will only make me stronger. At least I've answered my questions in their entirety rather than use the worn out, generic, "you're whiny and negative" approach. Please. Whiny is when a 45 year old man texts you for 9 hours straight on New Year's Eve 2 weeks after his birthday and talks about all the things he wished he'd gotten but never asked for.

 

Don't talk to me about being whiny. I'm easy going.

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Joey, being an older white man is currently dating a younger black man (He's 28 and I'm 45), I can tell you that our relationship is anything but the type you describe. (And yes, he's very good looking) You feel a sense of entitlement because of your age and good looks, that this somehow can only be balanced by an older man spending his money on you. I get that. And yes, if that's the relationship you want, you can have it (but it's not a "right"). You also cite the young blond bimbos who won't date men who don't drive a certain kind of car. Joey, Kanye and Jamie had a song about that.

 

After about 6 months, my guy and I hit a rocky patch. He told me he was starting to feel uncomfortable because I always paid for everything. I make more, own my own home, drive a new Mustang etc. He said he felt like a kept boy and he didn't like that. Even though there's a large disparity in our income, he wanted to start paying for things here and there. He makes enough money to pay his rent and his own bills. So now he does. He goes out to the clubs with his friends when I don't feel like it. I know most all of them as when I do go out to clubs, we all hang together. I also have my own friends that I hang out with occasionally.

 

Granted, I live in Atlanta and interracial dating is rather common, but on those occasions when someone makes innuendo now, we ham it up for them. Of course, my son is also black, so I've had a lifetime of dealing with that.

 

Joey, whatever makes you happy is cool, but when green and gold are your favorite colors, be willing to embrace it without shame.

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Joey, being an older white man is currently dating a younger black man (He's 28 and I'm 45), I can tell you that our relationship is anything but the type you describe. (And yes, he's very good looking) You feel a sense of entitlement because of your age and good looks, that this somehow can only be balanced by an older man spending his money on you. I get that. And yes, if that's the relationship you want, you can have it (but it's not a "right"). You also cite the young blond bimbos who won't date men who don't drive a certain kind of car. Joey, Kanye and Jamie had a song about that.

 

After about 6 months, my guy and I hit a rocky patch. He told me he was starting to feel uncomfortable because I always paid for everything. I make more, own my own home, drive a new Mustang etc. He said he felt like a kept boy and he didn't like that. Even though there's a large disparity in our income, he wanted to start paying for things here and there. He makes enough money to pay his rent and his own bills. So now he does. He goes out to the clubs with his friends when I don't feel like it. I know most all of them as when I do go out to clubs, we all hang together. I also have my own friends that I hang out with occasionally.

 

Granted, I live in Atlanta and interracial dating is rather common, but on those occasions when someone makes innuendo now, we ham it up for them. Of course, my son is also black, so I've had a lifetime of dealing with that.

 

Joey, whatever makes you happy is cool, but when green and gold are your favorite colors, be willing to embrace it without shame.

 

congrats on your relationship

robberbaron4u Grand Master

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Joey, baby, gravity wins the game in the end. Make it your friend, not enemy. The fact of the matter is that there is no market for old rentboys and Old Trolls, silly old things that they might be in life, ain't going to waste their money on them as they know, by experience, physical beauty is the cheapest commodity in the marketplace. Have a close look at your image in a "true" mirror: you might just have moved into the "has been" category. Get a plan, lad!

bigvalboy Grand Master

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Is anyone besides me finding fewer and fewer pizza places that have anchovies available. Pizza without anchovy just isn't pizza for me!!!!!

 

 

LOL LOL Nice try Epigonos!! don't think these boys are listening though...now that was funny!!!

Scorpio Community Regular

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I can't believe I am saying this, but jj is absolutely correct!! I wouldn't change a word. And Joey for the record, I am not always being mean to you, but the truth is painful to hear sometime....

 

But Epigonos..it was to bed, Then Joey turned on the light and woke everybody up. The previous post was 17 hours earlier, and before that it had been 2 days, I would say it had been put to bed.

 

LBT...sent you a pm.

 

Good night, now I'm goin to bed...lol

 

Daddy...seriously, would you please wake up...Joey IT'S OVER, LET IT GO! JEEEZ

 

LOL LOL Nice try Epigonos!! don't think these boys are listening though...now that was funny!!!

 

You do realize that you merely helped prolong this thread by at least 6 posts more than it needed to go. If you truly want it stop, then maybe you should stop posting to it.

 

Those asking for it to stop, betting when it will stop, agreeing that it should be stopped, ordering pizza, etc. are just prolonging it....counterproductive to your actual goal. No?

 

And yes, my post prolonged it by one post as well...but then again I wasn't trying to control it's end.

bigvalboy Grand Master

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OK...I am giving up on the pool!!:eek:

 

I like sausage...Italian

 

I gotta tell you guys, this has been really fun...thanks everyone for the laughs...See yall tomorrow, the dog is starring at me, I think she has to go poop...gotta run.

jjkrkwood Grand Master

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Because there's still more things I need to make clear about this subject. I can go on with this subject forever. But after today I'm just going to leave it be.

 

And obviously you need to get help. You sound like an ill man to be calling escorts 'hookers'. Any client that refers to escorts as hookers need to be psycho analyzed. You're a sick man. I don't even know why you're here if your main goal is to demoralize 'hookers'.

 

Daddy sez: "Click!"

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Ya know... I don't much care for bullying behavior... If you want to play "Snap", I'm suggesting that there are other venues where you can read people's beads... If Joey alerts on your post, you'll be taking a vacation.

 

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/f/fe/Pirates_of_the_Sky_9.jpg/320px-Pirates_of_the_Sky_9.jpg

 

OH PLEASE MARY.
JoeyBryant Community Regular

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OH PLEASE MARY.

 

 

As of last month I was taken to dinner at both the Ocean Prime and Mccormick & Schmick's. Not only were the meals paid for, but so was my time. Chicken and biscuit was not on the menu, if you even know of these places.

 

I'm glad you see the 'thug' in me, for some reason I can't get people to see the same LOL. Many people have said I sound like some country White boy over the phone.

 

Anyhow...obviously you're an ill man who needs to get help so no use in arguing with you. I forgive you only because I realize that, and hope you get the assistance you need. It would behoove you to see the Guru.

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Wow. I hadn't realized that there was so much going on in this thread. Exciting 24 hours......and I missed it all until now. Some of the usual suspects continue to push the envelope in tempting Daddy. I'm outta here now to allow the mutual bitch-slapping to continue.

Bosguy Community Regular

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I think it's time to stop this nonsense. My initial thought was that this thread pertained to a vast majority of us who have gone through the ending of a relationship with all its emotional, physical, and financial ramifications--which are all difficult. I have no idea where it has ended up, but it is not informative, pertinent, or helpful.

 

DROP IT!!!!!

 

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