Have you Ever Jacked Yourself Off While Getting a Legit Massage?

[LookingAround]

I'm thinking at places, such as Wellness or Bodywork Station in NYC, which offer legit but sensual massage. If the masseur provides a sensual massage but with no happy ending, have you ever "taken matters into your own hands?" If so, what was the reaction of the masseur?

[josephga]

I think one would run the risk of pissing the masseur off them ending the session tossing you out

[+ Travis69]

Is it worth the risk of being charged with indecent exposure? Also, if you grab a masseur in a sexual manner couldn't that be considered sexual assault? Things to think about in a setting such as a legit spa.

[LookingAround]

To clarify, I'm not talking about the spa at the Ritz Carlton or Penninsula. I'm talking about spas in gay neighborhoods frequented by gay men in which there is a considerable sensual element (e.g. massaging the ass, inner thigh, even balls) that wouldn't occur in a "regular" spa.

[adriano46]

Nah too risky unless it is clear that you are allowed to touch -- seriously, I would think the masseur would be negatively surprised if you took matters in your hand... and he was not totally on board about it. Sort of demeaning, IMHO.

[Lohengrin1979]

I've had masseurs at more "legitimate" places tell me that I could finish myself off, either with them there, in a few cases, or after they leave the room. I wouldn't really imagine just jacking off near the end of the session without invitation though. I agree that it would be an assault on the masseur to witness such an unwarranted act, even if they do work at a gay friendly spa. I've had intensely sensual massages that might as well have been a huge foreplay session that ended with the therapist patting me on the head and telling me to have a relaxing rest of my day. Everyone has personal boundaries and communication is the key around/through them.

 

Lohengrin

[jjkrkwood]

Show some Maturity and Restraint and WAIT till you get home....

[+ glutes]

That is right. One person here claims they only visit The Spa and have massages because are seeking COCCK...

[+ Axiom2001]

I'm thinking at places, such as Wellness or Bodywork Station in NYC, which offer legit but sensual massage. If the masseur provides a sensual massage but with no happy ending, have you ever "taken matters into your own hands?" If so, what was the reaction of the masseur?

 

No, I definitely would NOT do as mentioned. I view this type of action to be blatantly rude and disrespectful of the masseur as well as one's self!!!!!

 

If one had to "get off this badly," hire an escort or view a porn vid or photographs of hot men.

Another avenue to use is to go to the net and jack off via the pics of hot men on the screen.

 

These are merely suggestions, not things that I do in order to "get myself off!"

[dfw2sfo]

Yes

 

I have after the masseur has left the room

[EZEtoGRU]

I agree with most the others that doing this without prior agreement with the professional masseur is a big no-no. Kind of creepy for one thing and potentially opens up legal issues if the masseur chooses to pursue it.

 

On the other hand, if discussed and agreed in advance....go for it.

[+ glutes]

Communication is the key is any good relationship...

[jjkrkwood]

Communication is the key is any good relationship...

 

EXCEPT in cases where the individuals are NOT good and skilled communicators, it can Fuck things up even more.

 

Sometimes, "Less is More" applies.

[josephga]

One thing id add is there's a difference between working at a spa and a masseur working out on his own. I think in unexceptionable in any spa where the masseur is employed by someone else. unless the owner is okay with it.

[rollingrock]

well if they get you hard by rubbing your ass and inner thigh and then take the towel off when they turn you over to expose your raging hard on, I think they might be indicating it's ok, but maybe not.

[jjkrkwood]

well if they get you hard by rubbing your ass and inner thigh and then take the towel off when they turn you over to expose your raging hard on, I think they might be indicating it's ok, but maybe not.

 

I think the key is IF they do it with a SMILE ;-)

[jeffla]

Hmmm... have you ever jacked off while getting a physical from a doctor?

 

Have you ever jacked off while ordering being fitted for a suit?

 

Have you ever jacked off while getting a speeding ticket from a cop?

[rollingrock]

oh brother. I don't think that's the situation at all. I think whats being discussed is when the masseur clearly takes the massage into a sexual direction but just doesn't want to jerk you off and wants you to. No one is suggesting just whipping it out during a clearly legit massage that hasn't gone into a sensual/sexual direction.

[jjkrkwood]

oh brother. I don't think that's the situation at all. I think whats being discussed is when the masseur clearly takes the massage into a sexual direction but just doesn't want to jerk you off and wants you to. No one is suggesting just whipping it out during a clearly legit massage that hasn't gone into a sensual/sexual direction.

 

"INTERPRETATION" is the root of all Evil ! ;-)

[LookingAround]

Rollingrock is right. I'm talking about when the masseur uses no sheet, presses his body (and crotch) against my hand resting on the table, takes time to spend a considerable time massaging your butt, your legs with a focus on the inner thigh, then when you turn over says (as happened this week) "I'm going to spend extra time on your stomach and legs" then proceeds to rub right above my cock, then my legs and again inner thighs, brushing his hand across my hard cock but not really doing anything but an occasional brushing.

 

THAT'S what I'm talking about.

[jjkrkwood]

Rollingrock is right. I'm talking about when the masseur uses no sheet, presses his body (and crotch) against my hand resting on the table, takes time to spend a considerable time massaging your butt, your legs with a focus on the inner thigh, then when you turn over says (as happened this week) "I'm going to spend extra time on your stomach and legs" then proceeds to rub right above my cock, then my legs and again inner thighs, brushing his hand across my hard cock but not really doing anything but an occasional brushing.

 

THAT'S what I'm talking about.

 

I believe HE feels he is doing HIS job. If your expectation was to receive a "happy ending" from the session, it should have been discussed with the technician BEFORE the session began, so there was no misunderstanding, disappointment and "Blue balls".... Obviously, there are alot of guys that think getting a massage is the cheaper alternative to Hiring an escort. Come on boys, you all know better than that....

[LookingAround]

Oh, and when he massaged my inner thigh while on my back, he had me bend my knee while he rested my leg against him as he sat on the edge of the massage table, rubbing all the way down to my balls (but not touching them).

 

The issue isn't that I sought an escort session or a happy ending (not sure how one WOULD discuss this at a 'legit' place of business beforehand) but it was the masseur, not me, who took it in this direction.

 

Oh well....it was just a question.

[josephga]

Even if I do those things there's no release unless the client has verbally asked for it. I won't assume. To big of a risk for problems later. Rubbing the inner thighs and butt, tummy and near the balls doesn't mean anything. what''s in the clients mind isn't always in ours.

[jjkrkwood]

Even if I do those things there's no release unless the client has verbally asked for it. I won't assume. To big of a risk for problems later. Rubbing the inner thighs and butt, tummy and near the balls doesn't mean anything. what''s in the clients mind isn't always in ours.

 

And I suppose THAT was the point I was trying to make, but not as clearly as you stated it Joseph. And you should certainly know if the place you are frequenting is a "legit" place or not, and if the outcome you are seeking can be found there (to address Lookings comment above). Do your Homework guys.

[josephga]

I had a guy the other day email me. Said he wanted a deep tissue massage, stretching

and a facial. I emailed him back and I told him I no longer offered facials. That there wasn't a large demand and that I no longer carried the products too do them. He emailed me back thought I was being a smart ass. I advertise in gyms, with doctors, a tanning salon as well as the on line massage sites. I'm not a mind reader how was I suppose to know that his idea of a facial was to jerk off in his face