What you can get and what you pay for

[Guest Dan]

Today I read a review where the reviewer said that he likes to hire muscular porn star bottoms because those are the kind of guys that he can't get. It implies that he can do okay on his own, but that he hires, for lack of a better term, a "fantasy."

 

I was going to pose a question about how many guys hire a certain type of guy because it's a matter of getting what you want, rather than what you can get. This is probably a pretty obvious query and I should know from my own experiences. For example, my clients tend to hire me because of my hairy chest. They tell me that they find it difficult to meet in-shape hairy guys or men that don't shave down.

 

So, I'd like to hear from others if they hire for smilar reasons.

 

Dan Dare

http://gaydar.co.uk/dandarela

[jackhammer91406]

Interesting question Dan. It's a question that is probably better suited to those who have hired more frequently, because I have only been with three escorts. In my case the type of escort was more a matter of personal taste. Since I had been celebate for 18 years until this past September, I was looking for someone to be with ( and probably in my case, ANYONE was someone I couldn't get on my own). My personal tastes run towards men with hair who can bottom. I prefer a toned body and since we're talking fantasy here, a very toned body. But for me hiring was a way to "be" with someone as I tried to break free of my closed off environment. I've wasted nearly 2 decades because the first guy I got involved with threw me for a loop and I have been afraid of love intimacy ever since. I will never get that time back. Talk to me a year from now if I can arrange my trip to Brazil and have a year of not holding back my sexual desires anymore.

jack

[+ Charlie]

Why would I hire someone I could have for free? I started hiring when I decided that I had only so much sexual energy, and I wanted to spend it on a select group of the finest male specimens rather than on just anyone I could get my hands on. I have very expansive tastes in physical types, images, and sexual activities. Some of them I have always been able to satisfy without hiring, but others I could never get without paying, and I wasn't willing to do without. So now I hire whenever I have a specific itch that needs to be scratched, and an escort is the most efficient scratcher.