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sam.fitzpatrick Grand Master

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Please consider rejecting reviews that do not submit all information requested in the review form. Maybe I'm the weirdo but it is disconcerting that some reviewers do not include all of the information called for.

 

Keep things as they are. I only want the information that the client experienced. If the client didn't ask for oral, I wouldn't expect the client to interview the escort to get all the data necessary to complete a review.

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glutes Grand Master

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Please consider rejecting reviews that do not submit all information requested in the review form. Maybe I'm the weirdo but it is disconcerting that some reviewers do not include all of the information called for.

 

Do you believe all the information that is presented??

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bigvalboy Grand Master

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Do you believe all the information that is presented??

 

Good point!! I don't believe everything in a review. I use them as a tool and I take into consideration any one of a number of things before I hire. I think very often alot of reviews are full of fluff especially if the client REALLY liked the escort. Sometimes they are trying to show there appreciation. It does work both ways, often you will read a negative review and you just get the impression that the client was not happy and he is doing everything he can to bury the escort.

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Keep things as they are. I only want the information that the client experienced. If the client didn't ask for oral, I wouldn't expect the client to interview the escort to get all the data necessary to complete a review.

 

Actually, the instructions for 'His activiities' state:

The information should be as he advertises it because each client's mileage may vary.

So, its not necessarily what the client experienced.

 

I confess that I don't agree with that, and I give more weight to the narrative of what actually happened. The fact that an activity is advertised doesn't gurantee it is dellivered, as some reviews attest.

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... I think very often alot of reviews are full of fluff especially if the client REALLY liked the escort. Sometimes they are trying to show there appreciation. It does work both ways, often you will read a negative review and you just get the impression that the client was not happy and he is doing everything he can to bury the escort.

... and I often think the reviewer is writing the review as an audition for NIFTY!

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Axiom2001 Grand Master

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Good point!! I don't believe everything in a review. I use them as a tool and I take into consideration any one of a number of things before I hire. I think very often alot of reviews are full of fluff especially if the client REALLY liked the escort. Sometimes they are trying to show there appreciation. It does work both ways, often you will read a negative review and you just get the impression that the client was not happy and he is doing everything he can to bury the escort.

 

Over the years I've written only candid and accurate reviews of the men with whom I have hired and highly enjoyed. If the experience (escort or massage) IS NOT GOOD; I usually don't write a review here or at the two major massage sites (http://www.massagem4m.com or http://www.masseurfinder.com).

 

I've only written one negative review here (Justin Martinez, SF) about two or three years back because he was truly bogus: his ad presented one thing; he did another which was virtually NOTHING!!!!

 

But to end this, if you take the reviews "with a grain of salt" that is your prerogative! I'll continue to write about the men and the experiences if they were stellar ones and if I would like others to have the men and what they provide!

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Over the years I've written only candid and accurate reviews of the men with whom I have hired and highly enjoyed. If the experience (escort or massage) IS NOT GOOD; I usually don't write a review here or at the two major massage sites (http://www.massagem4m.com or http://www.masseurfinder.com).

 

I've only written one negative review here (Justin Martinez, SF) about two or three years back because he was truly bogus: his ad presented one thing; he did another which was virtually NOTHING!!!!

 

But to end this, if you take the reviews "with a grain of salt" that is your prerogative! I'll continue to write about the men and the experiences if they were stellar ones and if I would like others to have the men and what they provide!

 

when i write my reviews, i purposely don't submit all the info in every one, so that they seem like they were written by different people.

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Well Axiom while I respect your decision not to write a negative review, I believe them to be a critical 'tool' for others in evaluating a masseur. Now as I said, some are just obviously bogus, but while I have written my share of stellar reviews, when I have a really bad experience and I feel that I got ripped off, then I really feel that it is important to let other people know. I have certainly been saved hundreds of dollars and alot of frustration by passing on someone with bad reviews.

 

On M4M as a premium member, you can see all the reviews both good and bad, not so with MF. Which is why I usually hire only from M4M. I will hire from MF only if the masseur was personally recommended by someone, because on MF the masseur can archive any neg review they want.

 

Just this morining a few minutes ago a member e-mailed me and ask me to use my premium membership to research a masseur. Sure enough, there were two neg reviews that he could not see, and both said about the same thing, that the pics were not him. So my point to all of this is that neg reviews do help and are a good tool. I would encourage you to think about the benefit to others in writing a neg review when necessary. As stated before, you can't believe everything in reviews, but they are in the end a excellent tool in the decision making process.

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Over the years I've written only candid and accurate reviews of the men with whom I have hired and highly enjoyed.

 

One would hope that all your reviews possessed candid and accurate information. But they are still one man's perspective and the "different strokes for different folks" principle seems to apply here. By having a policy of writing, for the most part, positive reviews, you are positioning yourself more as an advertising copy writer for the escorts you've enjoyed. You haven't worked out in the negative reviews what was negative.

 

I found an amazing young man whom I befriended after reading a negative review of him. I started my communication with him with a copy of his review and the question, "Are you really this BAD?"

 

We had several off the clock visits, fully clothed, where we discussed his situation. He left escorting. Recently he earned a great review and in private confirmed he's having a great time escorting now. Because he's doing it for the right reasons.

 

All this from some anonymous reviewer saying, not so great things about an encounter.

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