Asking about ejaculation [cumming]?

[gallahadesquire]

I find it odd when, having sex that's going really well with a really hot

[in my mind] escort, they ask whether I want them to cum?

 

The reality:

(1) I really don't care, one way or the other

(2) I want them to be happy

 

How does one express this?

 

Now, if they were to ask me if I wanted to cum ... well, that's an entirely

different story, probably best over at The Lounge.

[+ Travis69]

I tell them before the session starts that their cumming is not vital to me and they can do what they want. Some clients do want them to which is why they are asking you.

[+ purplekow]

I think if they area asking, they are coming on request, but not out of desire to do so. This is kind of off putting for me. What I find even most off putting is an escort asking if

I want him to come and then after a bit of effort, he says he cannot. Usually by the time I have come, the escort has either come or, if he is going to come, he is close enough that it is obvious that he is going to do it. When he is not close, i can live without it, but I do enjoy the sights and the sounds of a hot escort coming so if he asks I say yes, but I do not request him to do so. Still, I would rather they not ask and either come or not.

[+ Shoreboy]

Since I had my prostate exam, which led to 14 small snips on my prostate (thank God it came back cancer free but my PSA was a tad high....7) it now takes me ages to ejaculate, which I hate but always stop and am grateful I am cancer-free.....so it has become important for me to have any escort I hire cum.

[zeyfur]

I always discuss cumin before the session. I like to cum at the end of the session. I usually wanK myself to cum with the escort sucking my nipples.