Flirting with disaster

[instudiocity]

Look at the bottom of the main page with the forums listed.

 

It would also be interesting to know how many unique readers (as well as regular or repeat readers) there are for each site. I read the reviews once daily but I visit here several times a day and geenrate a lot more page views here, i suspect.

 

The M/C may get more hits per user/reader than the reviews - which would mean the number of people who read the reviews is even more than 5 times greater. (Just speculation on my part.) Actually, I think Daddy used the term 'traffic', whihc may or may nopt be hte same as 'hits'.

[essjay]

The amount of email I get in my work life has sky rocketed over the past couple of years. When dealing with an escort or any professional contact I try and keep to the facts. A flirtatious comment thrown in is fine but I don't expect my guy to feel the need to respond. When you are in 'sales' it's a fine line -but if you don't draw the line somewhere you can get buried in correspondence.

[seeker630]

Look at the bottom of the main page with the forums listed.

Yes - but that's only the MC. No numbers for the reviews.

 

But I didn't mean to go this far afield. (I worked with usage metrics for our enterprise search engine at work, so it's an interest of mine.) I just think the M/C is of very limited value in weeding out 'lurkers'jerkers'.

[instudiocity]

Yes - but that's only the MC. No numbers for the reviews.

 

But I didn't mean to go this far afield. (I worked with usage metrics for our enterprise search engine at work, so it's an interest of mine.) I just think the M/C is of very limited value in weeding out 'lurkers'jerkers'.

 

So wouldn't you multiply that by 5 for a guess @ Daddy's?

[seeker630]

So wouldn't you multiply that by 5 for a guess @ Daddy's?

 

It might be a higher number than 5 (or lower, I suppose). Depends on how you count 'traffic'. On person can visit a site twice in one day & look at 15 pages - or 3 people might visit once & look at 5 pages each. Was Daddy talking about 5 times the number of people, 5 times the number of visits, or 5 times the number of pages viewed?

[Guest Spanker01]

Generally I try to keep e mails short, to the point, and usually confirming arrangements already made. I always ask if he has questions or concerns, and if so I will adress them in a subsequent e mail. if he sends me one or more flirtatious comments, I will send one or more back. I do not expect him to carry on an e mail relationship prior to our getting together. Then if everything went fine I will usually send a note of thanks.

 

Spanker

[GoodFella69]

Generally I try to keep e mails short, to the point, and usually confirming arrangements already made. I always ask if he has questions or concerns, and if so I will adress them in a subsequent e mail. if he sends me one or more flirtatious comments, I will send one or more back. I do not expect him to carry on an e mail relationship prior to our getting together. Then if everything went fine I will usually send a note of thanks.

 

Spanker, right on. You have precisely described my typical email communication pattern when scheduling an escort. I also agree it's fine to sprinkle in a sexy (i.e. sizzling) comment or two within these emails. But I don't expect an escort to engage in a flurry of back & forth exchanges of seductive banter.

 

Goodfella

[gtx1]

Jack, you're right but part of marketing is keeping the client sold up to the point of collecting the fee. So part of any successful escort's marketing plan is maintaining the relationship/illusion of relationship before the first date and building a database of repeat customers via that emailing activity. So while I doubt any escort wants an email every 5 minutes, I'm sure an email a week(s) probably wouldn't hurt.

 

Could not have said it better. This is a service business and anticipation can be an important factor. Pre meeting emails can open the communications channel and let the parties connect on a personal basis which will ultimately lead to a successful engagement which means higher customer satisfaction thus more and longer bookings.

 

Personally, I love some interaction prior to the appointment. It makes me feel more comfortable and I get some sense of personality. It makes me feel as if the escort is interested in my experience not just in my money. It's a balancing act as you (escorts) must manage your time in the way that generates the best results for you.

 

GTX

[JoeBlow]

Audience analysis is a major component of marketing. It's a mistake to lump all clients into one category and assume every client desires flirtatious pre-meeting emails or phone calls. Personally, I hire a provider for the time we're together and enjoy that hour or two together (or overnight) to the fullest. However, I don't need contact from a provider beyond the initial scheduling and then a quick chat to touch-base on the day of the appointment. The most successful escorts are those who can effectively discern which clients desire on-going flirtatious communications leading up to their appointments and which ones (like me) don't want those extra "pre" or "post" playful, romantic or sexual overtures.

[+ MakeMeCowboy]

Sometimes a little banter can convey your interests without scripting the encounter, like... 'so, which do you prefer... roles or rules?' Never under estimate the value of an open ended question