Out early Out late In the closet Any difference?

[+ purplekow]

It seems there are many posters here who have come out later in life and many that remain totally circumspect about their sexual orientation. There are also some men posting here as clients who have come out as young men. I am wondering if anyone has found there to be a difference in the sexual attitudes of these different groups of men.

The escorts probably have the most experience with sexual encounters with men from each group, though I am sure there are clients who have had their fair share as well.

So, in general, do you think there are differences?

[josephga]

For myself i came out and also lost my virginity at the same time and the age of 30. for me I tend too find myself much more attracted to guys allot younger than myself. everyone iv dated has been in their 20's early 20's. I think its because I didn't date for so long and didn't date in my teens or 20's i find myself wanting too go back later and do it now.. I actually call it trying to go back and relive the prom lol I don't find my feelings shocking. I do however find it shocking that I can actually get guys in That age group. And every single time they approached me Iv never have asked a guy that young out.

[+ honcho]

I admitted to myself that I wanted to do more than play strip poker with guys - I wanted to hug and kiss them when I was in my junior year of college but decided not to act on it until after I graduated - seeing the effect of what starting to date did to my straight friend's grades their freshman & sophomore years ...

 

I've always been attracted to athletic looking guys of any age, but my relationships have been with people usually within 5 years of my age

(I'm the older man now, but only by 3 months out of 58 years with my current ...)

 

So, there's a contrasting datapoint to Joseph's to show that coming out young doesn't necessarily fixate one one young guys as potential

mates.

[Rick Munroe]

It seems there are many posters here who have come out later in life and many that remain totally circumspect about their sexual orientation.

 

Did you hear that they're trying to outlaw circumspection in SF?