My wedding

[leigh.bess.toad]

He's announced multiple times that he's getting into an arranged marriage with a woman. Then again, the whole thing could be fiction. It wouldn't be the first time on this board!

 

Rick -- I'm well aware of G's multiple arranged engagements to a woman/women. However, this time it did strike me as different. He first told me of the engagement in an email on 12/26 and said he was going to leave the forum. And then there were no posts for 2 weeks from that date. He provided me enough specific details of the engagement to make me think it plausible. Then he returned on 1/10 but it was different -- it was only ~~HUGS, not the previous ~~HUGS AND KISSES. I tend to believe his story this time. I do not know the availability of same-sex marriage in South Korean culture (which is where the engagement is supposed to have taken place -- at the engagement wall near Seoul). But his withdrawal this time from the board is certainly is in keeping with what he told me back in December. Just MHO.

[ajirons09]

Greatness,

 

IMHO that's all you really need in life... "to feel content and satisfied in life"-Feeling thankful that there is someone who loves you for who you are. All the best in your up and coming endeavor. (=

 

A.J.

[Guest greatness]

Thank you all for nice thoughts. You guys are awesome!

[Phil_musc]

Well, Greatness, I'm glad to see that you're still here at least for the present. If you are retiring from the board, then I shall miss your gracious and courtly writings. I've enjoyed getting to know a little bit from your writings here - always a kind word and sweet response. Whoever you're marrying has snagged a great guy and I wish you all the best in this next leg of your life trip. Best wishes.

[Guest greatness]

Thanks philmusc. I'm not so sure about him snagging a great guy but he will certainly get a lot of nagging. lol.. I am back here to resolve some misunderstandings, nothing more or less. Thank you for a kind comment. Hugs~~~

 

Well, Greatness, I'm glad to see that you're still here at least for the present. If you are retiring from the board, then I shall miss your gracious and courtly writings. I've enjoyed getting to know a little bit from your writings here - always a kind word and sweet response. Whoever you're marrying has snagged a great guy and I wish you all the best in this next leg of your life trip. Best wishes.

[NYTomcat]

Thanks philmusc. I'm not so sure about him snagging a great guy but he will certainly get a lot of nagging. lol.. I am back here to resolve some misunderstandings, nothing more or less. Thank you for a kind comment. Hugs~~~

 

LUCY ... YOU GOT SOME SPLAINING TO DO!

 

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[nate_sf]

LUCY ... YOU GOT SOME SPLAINING TO DO!

 

lol

 

In all seriousness, Greatness I think you should feel welcome to share as much or as little of your wedding plans as you'd like, and participate in the forum to the extent you're comfortable. I've dropped in and out of the forum more times than I can count, so understand needing to walk away sometimes. I've only just recently come back this time, so would be sorry to see you disappear but would understand. As an escort, I don't ask clients about their relationships unless they volunteer the info. So 'splain if you'd like (since we're all kind of curious, if you can't tell) but it's also ok not to.

[Guest greatness]

Thanks Nate you are so sweet. I didn't come back to explain about my wedding though. There is a misunderstanding I want to resolve before I leave. That's all.

[NYTomcat]

Thanks Nate you are so sweet. I didn't come back to explain about my wedding though. There is a misunderstanding I want to resolve before I leave. That's all.

 

Didn't mean to imply you needed to explain your marriage. You suggested you had misunderstanding to clear up. There is no need for you to explain your pending nuptials at all.

[Rick Munroe]

"Buy Canadian Allied Petroleum!"

 

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[+ sf westcoaster]

Greatness, you do confuse me, but then I am easily confused. Can't find anything in your posts that addresses a misunderstanding. Has the misunderstanding been cleared up?

[Diverdan]

Greatness,

As far as I am concerned, you don't have to explain anything or justify anything. I just want the very best for you, and hope that you will find time to visit the Forum with your words of wisdom and your hugs and kisses for us all, even though you will be married. If you drop out, just know we understand, but will miss you.

[Phil_musc]

Maybe I'm wrong, but I think the misunderstanding had to do with whether greatness was going to be tying the know with a man or a woman. He cleared that up pretty definitively inhis answer to my earlier post. Again, congrats, Greatness. Perhaps after a few months of wedded bliss you'll grace our presence with helpful hints about domestic matrimonial bliss and how to do it/maintain it/keep the spark alive, etc. You get my drift, I'm sure.

[Guest greatness]

Thank you!

 

Oh my Philmusc you are so nice. Thank you for your comment.

 

Maybe I'm wrong, but I think the misunderstanding had to do with whether greatness was going to be tying the know with a man or a woman. He cleared that up pretty definitively inhis answer to my earlier post. Again, congrats, Greatness. Perhaps after a few months of wedded bliss you'll grace our presence with helpful hints about domestic matrimonial bliss and how to do it/maintain it/keep the spark alive, etc. You get my drift, I'm sure.

[Guest greatness]

Sf westcoster, I'm sorry for confusing you. I have some misunderstandings with some posters here not related to my marriage and in the process of getting them resolved. I'm afraid I might not be able to and it will makes things more complicated.

 

 

 

 

 

Greatness, you do confuse me, but then I am easily confused. Can't find anything in your posts that addresses a misunderstanding. Has the misunderstanding been cleared up?

[MsGuy]

Pop in whenever the spirit moves you, greatness. You'll always be welcome here.

[Bart]

People come and go as they please here.

Some stop for a short while and move on.

Others come and cant find their way out sort of Twilight Zone.

Then others come and stay and we wish they would go.

We wonder where some have gone

But then we are critical of those that announce departure and then return.

I say when the time comes depart quietly, no drama, no wonders of why.

Just leave and dont come back no more, no more, no more.

[Guest greatness]

Well said

 

I agree. I thought about what to post day and night for several days.. Wrote and rewrote but came to a conclusion that nice good can come out of it. Then why bother. You are right Bart I should have left quietly as the others did. I will let time take care of things and find my peace in that. Take care.

[MsGuy]

Then why bother. You are right Bart I should have left quietly as the others did.

 

greatness, I don't recall whether you were here when NCM came by to say his good-byes. Not all of us were his friends but I think almost everyone appreciated that he found time in hs final illness to talk about it with us.

 

It's not the same situation, of course, but I am appreciative that you didn't just disappear on us. If leaving the board is the right thing for you, then it's all good; if coming back from time to time works for you, that's fine too. I am just glad you gave us the chance to say goodbye and wish you well. And, if per chance, things should change, I'll be the first to say welcome back. In the meantime, I wish you well, sweetheart.