Group Sex - Public Sex

[doitb4ugo]

I am developing a strong interest in group sex and anonymous public sex....I am not sure how one makes these scenes happen but i imagine there are places or forums for trying to become part of a group grope....The escort world does not provide an affordable alternative (at least for most of us).

 

Any thoughts/recommendations are welcome.

[+ honcho]

I seem to recall reading that you attended a meeting of the NYC Bondage Club? That certainly would provide a venue

for multi-party sex with no possiblity of getting arrested for indecent exposure (etc.).

 

In San Francisco we still have stand-up sex clubs, and twice a month meetings of SF Jacks.

 

I believe there's s a similar group in NYC if you're willing that at least some of the anonymous sex

be anal-free .

 

I used to be able to provoke multi-party sex in bathhouses, etc. just by when playing with somebody

who I knew to be open to the idea by keeping my eye out for onlookers who vibed interest and nodding

my head at them ...

[Diverdan]

Bathhouses, saunas and clubs are the best places for this kind of activity, Rich. I don't remember where you live, but if you send me a pm, I can provide some additional information. Most of the big cities in the USA have at least one place where this can happen, and I know there are similar spots in Canada and certainly in Europe.

[12is12]

"In San Francisco we still have stand-up sex clubs, and twice a month meetings of SF Jacks. I believe there's s a similar group in NYC if you're willing that at least some of the anonymous sex be anal-free."

 

Honcho, for newbies like me, could you please explain: what's a "stand-up sex club"? What's "SF Jacks"? And if the sex is "anal-free", what kind of sex does go on?

 

How do you join these clubs?

 

Thanks.

[instudiocity]

"In San Francisco we still have stand-up sex clubs, and twice a month meetings of SF Jacks. I believe there's s a similar group in NYC if you're willing that at least some of the anonymous sex be anal-free."

 

Honcho, for newbies like me, could you please explain: what's a "stand-up sex club"? What's "SF Jacks"? And if the sex is "anal-free", what kind of sex does go on?

 

How do you join these clubs?

 

Thanks.

 

Google SF Jacks, their outdated website will explain that one.

I, too, am curious about stand-up sex clubs - I'm imagine anything you can do standing up...

[uwsman2]

NY Jacks has been around a long time. It was a response to the AIDS epidemic, a club where there is no anal or oral sex, just masturbation - you can stroke your partner, he can stroke you, and that's as far as it goes. It actually can be quite hot, especially if you find yourself in the center of half a dozen guys, all rubbing and stroking you all over and working you into a frenzy of sensation. They have a website, I believe, and weekly parties.

 

As to NY Bondage Club - the only sex normally allowed is masturbation type sex. In fact, that's all you'll find in NYC at venues open to the public, since the City Health Department sends undercover inspectors to close down any spot where they find people doing oral or anal sex in public. The big deal at NYBC is creative bondage and consensual physical abuse - nipple torture, hot wax, slapping and spanking, whips, riding crops, etc. Sometimes people get into erotic bondage scenes that can include jerking off a guy who is tied down and helpless. And there can be group scenes if that's what you want. Just forget about simulating a Bel Ami video....

[12is12]

I guess human creativity - including the puritan kind - never ceases to astonish. If City/State regulates against public oral/anal sex, why didn't they think of masturbation as well???

 

Imagine undercover inspectors witnessing "half a dozen guys all rubbing and stroking", all frustrated because during their long shift they couldn't find even one guy doing something with his mouth or ass...

[leigh.bess.toad]

I guess human creativity - including the puritan kind - never ceases to astonish. If City/State regulates against public oral/anal sex, why didn't they think of masturbation as well???

 

Imagine undercover inspectors witnessing "half a dozen guys all rubbing and stroking", all frustrated because during their long shift they couldn't find even one guy doing something with his mouth or ass...

 

Or having to watch it all night and not even being able to participate in that. Now that's Excedrin Headache #12

[uwsman2]

The City Health Department is only interested in sex posing a risk of transmitting diseases. They consider masturbation safe, hence OK.

[jeffla]

I used to really get into group sex in public. NY Jacks was hot the one time I went, but hottest time ever was at the old Campus Theater in San Francisco when they'd have a 20 man show. The guys would strip, make out, jack, and suck each other on stage and throughout the crowd and virtually every guy in the theater would be stroking their own dicks, the dicks of the strippers, and each other. Some of the guys would suck the strippers right there and then. They brought out 5 guys at a time until there were all 20 so it was really exciting to see who the next 5 would be - and a lot of them were really hot back then (if you like college boys). They did these shows 4x a year. Wish there were something like that to enjoy today.

[Decatur Guy]

I've successfully organized small groups (4 to 10 guys) online. But it takes HOURS of e-mails, etc. And you need to invite 150% more guys than you really want there, because two-thirds simply won't show up. For time put in, it's questionable if it's worth it. I've also attended a few things other guys put together ... I always offer to help out with planning or cleaning up and throw in a little cash for their trouble.

[+ honcho]

The ``clubs'' are commerical establishments, and you join by paying a membership fee, which is

valid for a specified period of time. (say 6 months or a year)

 

I'm a bit hazy on dates, but back in the early 80's when it was determined that a virus was causing the

then-called "Gay-Related Immuno Difficiency Syndrome", the director of the San Francisco department of

public health pushed to have all the bath houses in San Francisco shut down.

 

The concern was that fucking that occured in private (behind closed doors) was much more likely to be raw.

 

There was an argument made that if all sexual activity were banned in commercial establishments

then people would take it to the parks if not their homes and there would be just as much

unprotected anal intercourse, so that a compromise might be for some places to allow sex,

but actively monitor participants to make sure that condoms were being used.

 

I'm pretty sure that a precursor to what's currently called "Blow Buddies" was around then

as "the glory holes". If you stuck your dick through one of the holes, you might not be

sure whether it was going down somebody's throat or up their rears, but there would be

employees of the establishment going around and checking.

 

For many years afterwards though, at blow buddies, sex was oral only. Now, at certain events

at the blowbuddies venue, fucking-with-condoms is allowed. (Leatherbuddies).

It is possible for two guys to fuck standing up.

 

There have been a couple of these sex clubs since - ``Eros'' on Market Street, MACK south of market

(on 10th? before it moved around the corner and down folsom street) and semi-private areas in

the porno-movie houses like the Nob Hill.

[+ Axiom2001]

NY Jacks has been around a long time. It was a response to the AIDS epidemic, a club where there is no anal or oral sex, just masturbation - you can stroke your partner, he can stroke you, and that's as far as it goes. It actually can be quite hot, especially if you find yourself in the center of half a dozen guys, all rubbing and stroking you all over and working you into a frenzy of sensation. They have a website, I believe, and weekly parties.

 

As to NY Bondage Club - the only sex normally allowed is masturbation type sex. In fact, that's all you'll find in NYC at venues open to the public, since the City Health Department sends undercover inspectors to close down any spot where they find people doing oral or anal sex in public. The big deal at NYBC is creative bondage and consensual physical abuse - nipple torture, hot wax, slapping and spanking, whips, riding crops, etc. Sometimes people get into erotic bondage scenes that can include jerking off a guy who is tied down and helpless. And there can be group scenes if that's what you want. Just forget about simulating a Bel Ami video....

 

FUCK, all of this sounds "mighty hot!"