I want to marry Ben Nicholas!

[Guest greatness]

Are you suggesting that "veracity" is important in hiring escorts? Escorts are businessmen. There are escorts who use pics from many years ago and their age is not what they say it is.. (I'm not hinting anyone on this forum...) I've met this guy from out of the states. He was not truthful about his education, age, and his preference. He lied about many things but he started to tell me the truth after he got to know me and my true identity. I don't reveal anything about myself either to escorts until I get to know them and they can be trusted. Should my veracity be questioned for that? Still some escorts and clients try to find things about me. One client who wanted to meet me tried to search me using a background service. Not to make him uncomfortable, I didn't mention it in front of him. Some escorts use another escort's profile statements. I think they have committed a plagiarism. But they are good escorts, no doubt in my opinion. Please let's leave him alone. We clients nothing to lose. If you didn't like the service then just write a review (I'm not directing this to you NYTomcat I am writing to everybody.) and hire someone else. Even on TV, McDonald shows bigger BigMacs than what we actually get. I think people still go there to eat. Let BN what he is. Kisses and hugs.

 

but the cloud of contraversy that surrounds him makes me question his veracity. He does seem to just get better looking with age. Lol

[Scorpio]

Since jimboi hasn't been around here as long as some who donot have short Memories and do remember the time BN told JT Bklyn to "Shut the Fuck Up"

simply because he didn't like the Truth in Print around here...YES Bklyn Guy is a "Know-it-All" concerning certain tired Subjects.....

 

Actually JT, if you're going to keep bringing up this tired anceint history then you should at least report it factually for the Newbies. In response to one of your many JT "opinions" stated as "fact", Mr. Nicholas responded as follows:

 

"I've had quite enough of your sniping JT, not only at me, but at other escorts and members of this board over time.

 

It's your perogative to contine to use mindless 'air quotes' and take cheap shots at people, but regarding 15mm and my readership: Don't open your fucking mouth until you know the shot. I've had enough of your 'opinions' and what you 'think' you know. I'm certain there are others here who are sick and tired of you 'speaking for everyone.'

 

I do hope my liberal use of 'air quotes' made this message easier for you to understand...

 

I would have sent this to your private email, but you've disabled your profile from accepting any such thing.

 

 

Benjamin Nicholas"

http://www.companyofmen.org/showthread.php?53609-Jason-Rylee-in-Boston/page2&highlight=jason+rylee

 

 

 

[Guest alanm]

Are you suggesting that "veracity" is important in hiring escorts?

 

Greatness, I was only writing about what a friendship with BN might be like, years even decades, after his escorting days are over.

 

Miami Looker and previous posters have made the point that many of BN's clients have developed friendships with him. My guess is that at least some of those friendships may be lasting, or that may be the clients' expectations.

 

Al

[Guest greatness]

Thank you for your clarification. I hope I didn't offend you or anything. I wasn't talking about your post. Kisses and hugs..

 

Greatness, I was only writing about what a friendship with BN might be like, years even decades, after his escorting days are over.

 

Miami Looker and previous posters have made the point that many of BN's clients have developed friendships with him. My guess is that at least some of those friendships may be lasting, or that may be the clients' expectations.

 

Al

[JT Brooklyn]

I really don't care about any CHEAP Advertising or the way it is done... as long as it is not done using well meaning Clients & Controversy to make the Buck!

 

Which unfortunately is a LONG STANDING M/O of certain "Working Guys" that hasn't changed in Years and it won't...

[jimboivyo]

Lol. Love that Ben didn't take crap then either. I'd have said the same thing.

 

What I'm dumbfounded by is the group think here that an escort can't make a real friend with a client and if he tries to, it must be deceptive. Are other escorts like David or romann are any less guilty of befriending their clients in a public way? are they torn down because of it? No, they're fawned over. Why is Benjamin not treated with the same standard? No matter how much bs is presented in this discussion, there's still no doubting his reviews. If he wasn't a great escort, they would read otherwise.

[Guest greatness]

Well jimboivyo, I can see that you deeply care for BN. You just have to accept the fact that some people here simply don't like BN, however. Is it really worth it to get into arguments with other clients here? I don't think they are deceptive or mean. They are stating that they don't like BN from their experiences. Is that a crime or something that has to be criticized? I can understand that you care so much about him but please understand that no one can be liked by everybody.

 

Lol. Love that Ben didn't take crap then either. I'd have said the same thing.

 

What I'm dumbfounded by is the group think here that an escort can't make a real friend with a client and if he tries to, it must be deceptive. Are other escorts like David or romann are any less guilty of befriending their clients in a public way? are they torn down because of it? No, they're fawned over. Why is Benjamin not treated with the same standard? No matter how much bs is presented in this discussion, there's still no doubting his reviews. If he wasn't a great escort, they would read otherwise.

[leigh.bess.toad]

Lol. Love that Ben didn't take crap then either. I'd have said the same thing.

 

What I'm dumbfounded by is the group think here that an escort can't make a real friend with a client and if he tries to, it must be deceptive. Are other escorts like David or romann are any less guilty of befriending their clients in a public way? are they torn down because of it? No, they're fawned over. Why is Benjamin not treated with the same standard? No matter how much bs is presented in this discussion, there's still no doubting his reviews. If he wasn't a great escort, they would read otherwise.

 

Well I will say one thing about Romann because we talked specifically about this: he gave me his retirement date. At that point we will no longer have any contact. He and I are "friends", but within the stricture of the relationship. But for me a true "friend" is also a more powerful word than for many here, I believe. A friend to me would be willing to risk everything for his friend. If one of my friends needed a kidney to surive, I'd provide the knife for myself. Would Ben donate one of his kidneys for you if it meant saving your life? Friends risk everything for friends. Otherwise it's more like close acquaintances. Or pals. I'm sure Ben has had many older clients (as do most escorts) since it is the nature of the beast. If any of them have died, has he gone to the funeral? Shed a tear when one of his client friends is in trouble and hurting? Visited them in the hospital if he was in the city they were in? Has he ever invited one of his friends out just for a burger and a movie? As a friend?

 

I'm not demeaning Ben. This test applies to everyone. It's just the cavalier way the word friend is bandied about. I'm just telling you what a friend means to me. If Ben is a friend to this many clients, in the context of what I mean as a friend, and he maintains contact with many of them after he retires, he will be a very busy man going to funerals and gong to hospitals to visit sick friends as his friends grow old.

 

Because that is what a friend does. Otherwise, he's a buddy, a pal.

[Guest greatness]

Oh my Lee, you are such a good friend. Kisses and hugs~~~

[RockCreekRunr]

I don't try or want to become best friends with the escorts I hire. I hire for hot, convenient sex. I've never met BN, but his pics are a turn-on. I'd fuck him.

[Guest elmer]

Fuck him? I am going to marry him! From the private messages and emails I have received, I know that Ben comes from good stock. His father was a professional & major sports player for a basketball team. Please let it be for my own NY Knickerbockers during the Bill Bradley period, my heart will go pitter-patter.

[Guest greatness]

well

 

Elmer, welcome to the forum. I'm glad that you found someone you love. I hope it works out. Good luck. Kisses and hugs~~~

 

Fuck him? I am going to marry him! From the private messages and emails I have received, I know that Ben comes from good stock. His father was a professional & major sports player for a basketball team. Please let it be for my own NY Knickerbockers during the Bill Bradley period, my heart will go pitter-patter.

[Guest Zack]

I am going to marry him! His father was a professional & major sports player for a basketball team.

 

Dennis Rodman also has kids out there so be careful what you wish for.

[KMEM]

This whole thread is silly or beyond silly. I married BN on 8/4/02 and we have been happily married ever since.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[BewareofNick]

I'm just surprised that BN hasn't had a conniption that someone posted his age as a number beginning with a 3, which is at least closer to the truth than the 25 he usually has on his website.

[instudiocity]

I agree, after 1,200 views in two days its definitely a BORING subject. In my personal case, I prefer the boring position over the being bored position when it comes to our sweet BN.

 

Now at 2,356 views in 4 days, Daddy show start selling ads on any BN Threads.

[instudiocity]

I'm just surprised that BN hasn't had a conniption that someone posted his age as a number beginning with a 3, which is at least closer to the truth than the 25 he usually has on his website.

 

27 and I don't think he's changed it in 3 years. Why should he? He's making bank...

[Guest elmer]

Ben was married in '02? That would have made his nuptials when he was but 18 or 19 years old.

What am I missing here?

[jimboivyo]

awww, now we're angering one of the old ladies in another thread. he brings up the past like he's totally aware of the truth, or even presenting it. more hearsay. more bs.

[leigh.bess.toad]

Fuck him? I am going to marry him! From the private messages and emails I have received, I know that Ben comes from good stock. His father was a professional & major sports player for a basketball team. Please let it be for my own NY Knickerbockers during the Bill Bradley period, my heart will go pitter-patter.

 

Nope. George Muresan.

 

roflamo

 

Sorry guys, just couldn't resist.

[+ glutes]

Are you fucking kidding me? I leave on a week-long Thanks for Giving hiatus from the M-F and come back to find a ill informed (albeit) newbie proposing marriage to Ben-Jamin, and a fanatical old goat saying he already did it 8+ years ago. Lord have mercy, I need the vapors!

 

Elmerlito, you need to do due diligence before you suffer a Marriage for Schmucks. God & Daddy gave a 'search' function here in the upper right hand corner. Start with a keyword like 'disgraced' before you pluck Rev. Nicholas from his San Antone parsonage.

[leigh.bess.toad]

Are you fucking kidding me? I leave on a week-long Thanks for Giving hiatus from the M-F and come back to find a ill informed (albeit) newbie proposing marriage to Ben-Jamin, and a fanatical old goat saying he already did it 8+ years ago. Lord have mercy, I need the vapors!

 

Elmerlito, you need to do due diligence before you suffer a Marriage for Schmucks. God & Daddy gave a 'search' function here in the upper right hand corner. Start with a keyword like 'disgraced' before you pluck Rev. Nicholas from his San Antone parsonage.

 

Welcome home glutes. I knew there was one voice missing and now everything seems complete and whole. Glad to have you back guy!

[+ Shoreboy]

I met BN about 5 years ago while I was on business in San Antonio.

 

He came to my hotel room, was charming, we had a great talk and then an excellent romp in the bed.

 

One thing that struck me about BN was his down to earth honesty. He said when he first came into my room that he was very nervous since it had been a long time since he saw someone new and outside of the realm of his regulars.

 

At the end of the two hour session, which he said to me he never does and only does long trips, he said to me that he didn't know why he was nervous since I was such a good guy and he had fun.

 

I liked those sentiments and was touched by what he had to say.

 

A week passed and there was a review about BN from someone else....and in this particular review the person mentioned the exact same quotes that BN had said to me....and I mean the exact same words.

 

Did it make me a detractor....no. But what it did do was make me smile and say to myself and say to myself this guy is good since me was able to schmooze me with all the correct words and I am sure it is part of his routine...but it worked and all I can say is bravo...

 

Would I hire him again...no once was enough....he was good but there are many others I want to experience

[Guest alanm]

IOne thing that struck me about BN was his down to earth honesty. He said when he first came into my room that he was very nervous since it had been a long time since he saw someone new and outside of the realm of his regulars.

 

At the end of the two hour session, which he said to me he never does and only does long trips, he said to me that he didn't know why he was nervous since I was such a good guy and he had fun.

 

I liked those sentiments and was touched by what he had to say.

 

A week passed and there was a review about BN from someone else....and in this particular review the person mentioned the exact same quotes that BN had said to me....and I mean the exact same words.

 

Did it make me a detractor....no. But what it did do was make me smile and say to myself and say to myself this guy is good since me was able to schmooze me with all the correct words and I am sure it is part of his routine...but it worked and all I can say is bravo...

 

Would I hire him again...no once was enough....he was good but there are many others I want to experience

 

I agree, with one minor comment. Of the top escorts I have hired over the years, their compliments have always been more indirect. Although I did have a long-term hire who sent me many long revealing e-mails about what was going on in his personal life. I like Ben's way better, many fewer e-mails to read!

[JT Brooklyn]

Are you fucking kidding me? I leave on a week-long Thanks for Giving hiatus from the M-F and come back to find a ill informed (albeit) newbie proposing marriage to Ben-Jamin, and a fanatical old goat saying he already did it 8+ years ago. Lord have mercy, I need the vapors!

 

Elmerlito, you need to do due diligence before you suffer a Marriage for Schmucks. God & Daddy gave a 'search' function here in the upper right hand corner. Start with a keyword like 'disgraced' before you pluck Rev. Nicholas from his San Antone parsonage.

 

Welcome Back Glutes! Hope Your Holidays are Merry !