Celine Dion - Nothing Broken but my heart

[Guest greatness]

How do you guys heal a broken heart? So hurts that I cried all day. I wish there were someone who I can hold onto and cry but no one is here and even my cat is in Connecticut right now. What do you guys do?

 

[Guest Zack]

How do you guys heal a broken heart? So hurts that I cried all day. I wish there were someone who I can hold onto and cry but no one is here and even my cat is in Connecticut right now. What do you guys do?

 

I haven't had a broken heart in quite some time now. But if I were to ever experience one again in the future, one thing I can tell you for sure is that I would stay as far way from Celine Dion as I possibly could. Pluto, perhaps?

 

I think broken hearts come from things that you need or want and which you allow or expect other people to give you - when you can't or won't give them to yourself.

 

As much as a romantic pig I have always been, I have learned that if you don't take care of yourself first in life, or while being in a relationship, then the pain, betrayal, loss of interest, or growth in different directions between two individuals can be devastating.

 

The only true thing that can mend a broken heart - is a healthy and happy you to begin with!

[Steven_Draker]

Sorry to hear, Greatness. Actually, it's not the heart ... it's your brain that is responsible for falling in love, as a recent study shows http://www.sciencecodex.com/falling_in_love_more_scientific_than_you_think_according_to_syracuse_university_professor

 

"By identifying the parts of the brain stimulated by love ... doctors and therapists can better understand the pains of love-sick patients". No miracle pill yet ... It has been proven that time heals everything.

[Guest Zack]

Jane Oliver took care of me many nights

 

So as to remember and recall what the feeling you might be experiencing right now is all about - Allow me to offer this Jane Oliver Video for you. Jane and I spent many, many nights together, many, many years ago. Many times. This song was one which my best friend offered to me during one of the worst times.

 

Although it's someone else's youtube creation, the song is what might hopefully make you feel better after it's probably made you feel worse. I love Jane Oliver. I hope her words and voice will make you feel better. I know they have for me.

 

[video=youtube;e_cxVvOtmcU]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e_cxVvOtmcU&playnext=1&list=PL314735EA622A2F2D&index=4

[Guest greatness]

Thanks. Time will heal everything I guess. I will start to take care of myself. I don't want to fall in love or love someone who can't love me. I can breathe now a little bit.

[Rick Munroe]

Is this about the woman you were going to marry? If so, I think you're better off!

[josephga]

Is this about the woman you were going to marry? If so, I think you're better off!

 

100% agree I thought it was a bad idea from the start

[Guest greatness]

No.. It's an arranged marriage so I will go through with it next year. This is a separate thing. I don't want to love a guy any more. Just have a nice family and do my duty and live my life quietly. I think that will be nice. I will be fine but thank you for your concern.

 

Is this about the woman you were going to marry? If so, I think you're better off!

[Guest greatness]

Thanks you are so right. I haven't been taking care of myself well. I will thanks!

 

 

As much as a romantic pig I have always been, I have learned that if you don't take care of yourself first in life, or while being in a relationship, then the pain, betrayal, loss of interest, or growth in different directions between two individuals can be devastating.

 

The only true thing that can mend a broken heart - is a healthy and happy you to begin with!

[Rick Munroe]

I don't want to love a guy any more. Just have a nice family and do my duty and live my life quietly.

 

I could be wrong, but I think it's possible to have a nice family & do your duty and live your life quietly if you are married to a man. But good luck with your omiai.

[Guest greatness]

I tried...

 

I'm not saying it doesn't work. I have seen many gay couples. I've tried but I don't think it'll work for me.. I am not that physically attractive to draw other men. Some women like me a lot and we get along pretty well, however. My sister has an arranged marriage and she is pretty happy with it. My sister has this big temper but my brother-in-law tames it well. After seeing that I think an arranged marriage is not so bad after all.

I could be wrong, but I think it's possible to have a nice family & do your duty and live your life quietly if you are married to a man. But good luck with your omiai.

[Rick Munroe]

I think an arranged marriage is not so bad after all.

 

I know it's common in Japanese culture, but I also have a Japanese friend who is in an arranged marriage & she is miserable, but stays "for the children." It's a very sad situation. But btw, I don't know where you got the impression that all gay men are shallow and only interested in physical appearance, while straight women don't care at all. It's not true.

[Diverdan]

Greatness,

I have never had the pleasure of meeting you, but I have certainly enjoyed your posts in the short time I have been participating, although I was an observor and lurker for a long time before signing in. I also hesitate to comment on your plans, as only you can know the situation you are in and what you hope to accomplish with this "arranged marriage". However, for what it is worth, I hope you are very careful in moving forward with this. I have many gay friends who have gotten married to a woman, and some who have had children as well, but I don't know any of them who would do it over again. Several are remaining married "for the sake of the children", but their life is even more complicated and difficult than it was before. In a couple of cases, the guys came out to their wives with mixed results. One in particular comes to mind, where he and his wife worked out what was a pretty good situation. The only reason I know this, is that he and I were an item for about seven years, but then as his kids got older, he decided to separate, although he did not get a divorce. I wish you nothing but happiness and peace of mind, Greatness, what ever your final decision may be. I hope you stay in touch with the Forum, but will understand if you drop out too.

DD

[Guest greatness]

I will have no problem with that. I want to try something different with my life and I have a good feeling about it. I love the forum because I have been through good and bad times with it. Anyways, thank you for your input. It has been noted.

 

Greatness,

I hope you stay in touch with the Forum,

DD

[Guest greatness]

I didn't say that. Let's say that I'm below the average in appearance so any guy can't find me attractive but some woman (not all woman) find me attractive. I didn't specify gay men. Anyways, I feel better now and can breathe. Thank you for your concern. I know it's hard to generalize by two individual cases (your friend and my sister) but I think I will try it.

 

But btw, I don't know where you got the impression that all gay men are shallow and only interested in physical appearance, while straight women don't care at all. It's not true.

[Guest greatness]

Ok I finally leaving for my vacation. I need it. It will be a month and half vacation. Well a little bit of work between. I needed to clear my head and move on with my life. I will decided what to do during my vacation. Thank you all for your concern and love.

[Rick Munroe]

I didn't specify gay men.

 

If you're pursuing straight men, I think you'll have an even harder time.

[+ azdr0710]

Celine Dion returns to the Colosseum at Caesars Palace in Las Vegas in March, 2011.....if anybody's interested....

[Cooper]

Vacation update?

 

Ok I finally leaving for my vacation. I need it. It will be a month and half vacation. Well a little bit of work between. I needed to clear my head and move on with my life. I will decided what to do during my vacation. Thank you all for your concern and love.

 

Please fill us in on your vacation, it would be nice to hear where you decided to go for some r-n-r. Coop

[Guest greatness]

I am planning to visit Japan, Korea and China for a month. I've injured my right leg while working on a kitchen cabinet door so waiting it to be healed. I can barely walk right now. Thank you for inquiring about my vacation. You are so sweet. I might stop by in NYC on my way to Japan. I'm very spontaneous person and decide where to go at the last minute. Sometimes it costs me extra money for not planning ahead but that's me. I will keep you posted. Kisses and hugs~~~