Fisting....What Am I Getting Into

[doitb4ugo]

I recently spoke with one of my regular guys about BDSM activities and was told that he no longer did much along those lines but was fairly adept at fisting and he offered to spend a couple of sessions exploring this if I were interested. It is not something that I had on my list but enjoying anal activity as much as I do, I was intrigued to explore it...

 

Can someone with some experience in this area give some advice or experiences which may help me decide if I wil move forward or defer to a future point in time when I have experienced more of the less extreme activities...

 

Thanks fo any input.

[Guest Wetnwildbear]

Big toys

 

First explore your ability/desire/pleasure from taking BIG Toys - Because Fisting is significantly more intense -

 

Toys "give" but no matter how much Crisco you use -

 

The Bones in the Hand - Do Not GIVE - Be sure your top is skilled, patient, gloved, and proficient.

 

You may LOVE IT - but the experience can be INTENSE especialy for a relative though apparently

 

enthusiastic and adventerous Newbie!

 

Be DEEP DOWN CLEAN

 

Enjoy!

 

WILD

 

I recently spoke with one of my regular guys about BDSM activities and was told that he no longer did much along those lines but was fairly adept at fisting and he offered to spend a couple of sessions exploring this if I were interested. It is not something that I had on my list but enjoying anal activity as much as I do, I was intrigued to explore it...

 

Can someone with some experience in this area give some advice or experiences which may help me decide if I wil move forward or defer to a future point in time when I have experienced more of the less extreme activities...

 

Thanks fo any input.

[+ Tygerscent]

Write to me privately... all kinds of guidence I might be able to offer~ Drop an email my way "D"~ Lots of experience in this type of exploration.

 

Tyger!

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I recently spoke with one of my regular guys about BDSM activities and was told that he no longer did much along those lines but was fairly adept at fisting and he offered to spend a couple of sessions exploring this if I were interested. It is not something that I had on my list but enjoying anal activity as much as I do, I was intrigued to explore it...

 

Can someone with some experience in this area give some advice or experiences which may help me decide if I wil move forward or defer to a future point in time when I have experienced more of the less extreme activities...

 

Thanks fo any input.

[Damascene]

Fisting is very intense. For a while I only saw escorts who fisted as part of their repertiore. You must really want this to happen to make it an experience you like to enjoy. There is also enormous amount of trust the bottom must have in top, who is patient and can read your signs, because it is not the top who control fisting - it is the bottom - you control how much you can relax your hole. Do not rush it and do not overwork your hole trying to make it work.

 

I recommend you see a guy who is enjoys fisting as part of his sexual life and has recommendations in the art of fisting. It may also happen on the first try. I saw one escort for six months before we reached that majick reach beyond the sphincter (he was the second escort I hired to fist me), others were able to get it in the first or second time.

[Steven_Draker]

Doit, I hope you find the right guy with whom you feel comfortable enough to make this big step forward. One who's hand is not too big (for a beginner). It's very important that the guy knows what he's doing, especially since you're unexperienced. Don't forget that you (the bottom) is the one who is in control and it's only you who can let him inside. It's important to use gloves and proper lubricant. Rather than Crisco I'd recommend a mix of J-lube (a powder that you mix with hot water) and Boy Butter Extreme (containing Benzocaine, a local anesthetic). Practicing with big toys prior to this new step would help your hole to relax and open up. Don't hold your breath, as (deep) breathing is very important. Enjoy and have FFun!

[whipped guy]

Too bad Adam Faust is not in your area Doit... very experienced... something that he practices in his personal life... and he has the requisite small hands... Incidentally Faust means fist in German... so a stage name with meaning! Plus, he is a really sweet guy... however, if you ever find yourself in LA do look him up.

 

Incidentally,fisting is not my thing... but he is into all sorts of BDSM and in that regard we really clicked...

[doitb4ugo]

Thank you everyone for the advice both here and in PMs to me. I have a bad habit of rushing to my destination before I savour the journey. This is one such case....For someone who can barely walk I'm trying to run again....I may end up at fisting but I see no reason to mot enjoy the progress toward it by experiencing all the things that will lead me there in a natural way....wanting it and understanding what it is I want.

[NYTomcat]

I was gonna say Rich. Lets not skip over the wonderful world of double penetration in a rush to fisting. Lol

[leigh.bess.toad]

I was gonna say Rich. Lets not skip over the wonderful world of double penetration in a rush to fisting. Lol

 

There you go again, making me drool too.

[whipped guy]

For someone who can barely walk I'm trying to run again....

LOL! From someone who has seen you in a position from which you could barely walk...!!!

[+ Tygerscent]

Weeeellll... DP is great fun too~ Fisting is amazing though... incredibly Intimate. I once was in a guy up to my bicep... took me four hours... and another hour to back out... Sooooo incredible though.

 

Tyger!

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I was gonna say Rich. Lets not skip over the wonderful world of double penetration in a rush to fisting. Lol

[+ Tygerscent]

Hell~ The Journey is some great part of the adventure~!!!! No need to revel in the "end" without basking in the beginning and middle of getting there`! Take yer time... find a "specialist", whom ever that might be... find someone willing to take hte time to go there with you and not give a damn about the clock~ Fisting is a special place... not just some fist up yer ass~ Soooo much more to it then that~ Tyger!

tygerkink@yahoo.com

503.719.9274

http://www.tygerscent.biz

http://www.daddysreviews.com/area.ph...tyger_portland

http://www.maleescortreview.com (Tygerscent in Portland, Oregon)

http://www.rentmen.com (AAAtygerscentXXX in Portland Oregon)

http://www.men4rentnow.com (tygerscent in Portland, Oregon) time and not care about the time it takes... find someone who you can communicate before and DURING... find someone who understands not simply bodies in general but is willing to understand and watch YOUR body and mind and psyche with focus.

 

 

 

Thank you everyone for the advice both here and in PMs to me. I have a bad habit of rushing to my destination before I savour the journey. This is one such case....For someone who can barely walk I'm trying to run again....I may end up at fisting but I see no reason to mot enjoy the progress toward it by experiencing all the things that will lead me there in a natural way....wanting it and understanding what it is I wHellant.