Coffee Talk 7/2/10 I would never do that.... except

[NYTomcat]

I've been speaking with a number of posters and one of the things that seems to crop up a lot is how amazed we are at what we think are our limits or interests and how those seem to ... lets say expand... with the escorts we are with. So it occurred to me that we hirers are often very different people.. maybe more ourselves maybe less when we are on a hire.

 

So Im wondering what things we have experienced that we never thought we would or that we would be interested in experiencing.

 

What sexual or even non-sexual activities did we do as part of the hire.

 

We always talk about the best escorts reading what we want, often before we know ourselves. If thats true, lets hear the stories. Did you go skydiving, cliff jumping, parasailing. Did you try watersports, pig play, extasy. Lets hear it

 

For those escorts out there your not excluded either. what limits did you think you would never cross did that special client break down.

[Boston Guy]

I don't have any particular reply to your post, at least at this time. But I wanted to comment on your signature: anyone who walks around quoting Mame Dennis is probably enjoying life.

 

You likely already know that the line you have correctly quoted from the 1958 movie is actually a sanitized version of the quote originally printed in the book that preceded the movie. (The book is even better than the movie, by the way.)

 

In the book, Mame shouts: "Live! Life is a banquet and most poor sons-of-bitches are starving to death!"

 

BG

[Guest greatness]

I would usually do

 

anything one would do with a bf... I'm not into bondage or anything extreme.. I just want a plain and simple bf experience..

 

I've been speaking with a number of posters and one of the things that seems to crop up a lot is how amazed we are at what we think are our limits or interests and how those seem to ... lets say expand... with the escorts we are with. So it occurred to me that we hirers are often very different people.. maybe more ourselves maybe less when we are on a hire.

 

So Im wondering what things we have experienced that we never thought we would or that we would be interested in experiencing.

 

What sexual or even non-sexual activities did we do as part of the hire.

 

We always talk about the best escorts reading what we want, often before we know ourselves. If thats true, lets hear the stories. Did you go skydiving, cliff jumping, parasailing. Did you try watersports, pig play, extasy. Lets hear it

 

For those escorts out there your not excluded either. what limits did you think you would never cross did that special client break down.

[+ deej]

In the book, Mame shouts: "Live! Life is a banquet and most poor sons-of-bitches are starving to death!"

 

That line made it into the musical untouched as well, although I can't remember whether it got sanitized for the movie. It was Lucy, and as ribald as the old broad was it may have been watered down.

[NYTomcat]

I don't have any particular reply to your post, at least at this time. But I wanted to comment on your signature: anyone who walks around quoting Mame Dennis is probably enjoying life.

 

You likely already know that the line you have correctly quoted from the 1958 movie is actually a sanitized version of the quote originally printed in the book that preceded the movie. (The book is even better than the movie, by the way.)

 

In the book, Mame shouts: "Live! Life is a banquet and most poor sons-of-bitches are starving to death!"

 

Oh I most certainly do. The book by far outstrips the movie... and the movie is a classic (No Not Lucille Ball) Rosalind Russell is the queen. actually cant remember right now but I think in Auntie Mame Russell uses your quote Live... But still I decided for the quote most people recognize and of course as used by Angela Lansbury. I still do love the musical too .

 

So am I there Yet.... No But Im working on it and yes I have Auntie Mame for my Mantra

 

http://www.broadwaymusicalhome.com/images/MAMEim.gif

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_yWFe-TH42qg/SX0Oo5aFewI/AAAAAAAABeI/d6T_M13PQJU/s400/rosalind_russell_20080731.jpg

[Boston Guy]

Nice.

 

BG

[+ deej]

Angela Lansbury does give RR a run for the money. And she had an asset that Russell never had: Bea Arthur as Vera.

 

[NYTomcat]

Angela Lansbury does give RR a run for the money. And she had an asset that Russell never had: Bea Arthur as Vera.

 

 

May she rest in piece. The quintessential Vera Charles. Truly one of the best duos to ever grace the stage asyour link will attest even at their age.

 

 

and by the way Here is the quote from the film:

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z-LIYR4Fhq0

[orbital sander]

I've been speaking with a number of posters and one of the things that seems to crop up a lot is how amazed we are at what we think are our limits or interests and how those seem to ... lets say expand... with the escorts we are with. So it occurred to me that we hirers are often very different people.. maybe more ourselves maybe less when we are on a hire.

 

So Im wondering what things we have experienced that we never thought we would or that we would be interested in experiencing.

 

What sexual or even non-sexual activities did we do as part of the hire.

 

We always talk about the best escorts reading what we want, often before we know ourselves. If thats true, lets hear the stories. Did you go skydiving, cliff jumping, parasailing. Did you try watersports, pig play, extasy. Lets hear it

 

For those escorts out there your not excluded either. what limits did you think you would never cross did that special client break down.

 

Honestly nothing changed or expanded in my activities. I know what I like to do and that is what I pursue. I will say however, I have always been an open minded person, so if something happens between two people that is working, I say go with it!

[+ purplekow]

I try not to think about what I will do and wont do. I do what I do and go where life takes me. The first time I do something, I usually find myself thinking, now how the hell did I get here, because I want to be able to find my way back again.

[NYTomcat]

Isnt it funny though how this thread proves my point. I think Im going into an encounter about expanding ones sexual identity through escorting.... but No actually its about the great MAME DENNIS. LOL

[NYTomcat]

I try not to think about what I will do and wont do. I do what I do and go where life takes me. The first time I do something, I usually find myself thinking, now how the hell did I get here, because I want to be able to find my way back again.

 

Are you sure. Cause Ive been finding places Im going that Im not sure I want to get back from.

[+ purplekow]

Are you sure. Cause Ive been finding places Im going that Im not sure I want to get back from.

 

Well, for me, so far, every exotic adventure has been round trip. I return changed but still back at my embarcation location. I would love to be transported so far into the erotic stratsosphere that I wound up orbiting some pleasure planet. There is nothing that I have done once, that I would not do again, so no regrets there.

[+ deej]

and by the way Here is the quote from the film:

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z-LIYR4Fhq0

 

OK, so the film does edit it. Cool. (And it's cool to have that scene available on YouTube!)

[+ deej]

I try not to think about what I will do and wont do. I do what I do and go where life takes me. The first time I do something, I usually find myself thinking, now how the hell did I get here, because I want to be able to find my way back again.

 

This has been stolen and repeated so many times on the net it's now leaving skidmarks but it still applies.

 

Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, champagne in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming “WOO HOO what a ride!"

 

Mame Dennis just had the simple version nailed.

[NYTomcat]

This has been stolen and repeated so many times on the net it's now leaving skidmarks but it still applies.

 

Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, champagne in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming “WOO HOO what a ride!"

 

Mame Dennis just had the simple version nailed.

 

It may be often repeated but I've never seen it before. But that is absolutely the truth of it. If not your just biding time treading water.

[Boston Guy]

Since I hiacked the thread (in the very second post! ), I'll take a tack back toward your original question.

 

I've hired many, many interesting guys over the course of about a dozen years. I've had the good fortune to meet guys on four continents, in many countries, in big cities and small towns. I've had guys travel with me but I've usually looked for local guys, since I so enjoy meeting new people of all stripes. I've been really very fortunate because out of many hundreds of meetings, only a small handful were disappointing at all. The others have all been fun and amusing in one way or another.

 

I try to be careful in terms of safety, especially when meeting someone new. But I'm also open to possibilities and I think I'm a fairly good judge of people, usually quite quickly. As an optimist who likes people, I am fairly trusting of those who I think are trustworthy. This led on one bright sunny afternoon to a situation that I hadn't expected or anticipated at all.

 

I was in a rather good and formal hotel, the kind of place with stiff upper lip service. It was a place that I would find myself from time to time and I wasn't looking to make a scene. I found a local escort who came over for a couple of hours and, after a short while, mentioned that he was quite into bondage. At first I thought that he was interested in getting tied up but of course that wasn't at all what he had in mind.

 

This was a very attractive young man, only about 20 years old, who I had never met before. He seemed bright and interesting and I made a decision that I'd take a chance, all on the spur of the moment. He had actually brought ropes with him in his bag (which I didn't know until that moment) and I ended up rather spread-eagled on the bed in this very fancy hotel, being tickled mercilessly by a very hot young guy.

 

I remember thinking that if he left me in that position, it was going to be very difficult trying to explain it to the hotel. But then I always assume that hotel workers have seen everything at least twice already anyway.

 

So that was how I spent a bright, sunny afternoon in a sunlight-flooded hotel room one Sunday quite a few years ago. And my trust in him was rewarded and it turned out that he knew what he was doing, even taking care to loosen the ropes periodically to check the circulation (although only one at a time. ). My decision to give it a go on the spur of the moment led to an very fun encounter.

 

I suppose that I should end this with a caution: as well as that worked out for me, I think that all clients and all escorts should always keep their eyes and ears open at all times. If you find yourself in a situation that seems odd or unsafe at all, trust your gut and get out of there. And, in hotel rooms with a safe, it's always wise to lock valuables away before entertaining guests who you don't know well.

 

BG

[Boston Guy]

Isnt it funny though how this thread proves my point. I think Im going into an encounter about expanding ones sexual identity through escorting.... but No actually its about the great MAME DENNIS. LOL

 

Sorry!

 

BG

[Guest greatness]

Interesting experience..

 

Oh boy I could read your story fast even though my eyes hurt. It is a very interesting story.. Thanks for sharing..

[NYTomcat]

Since I hiacked the thread (in the very second post! ), I'll take a tack back toward your original question.

 

I've hired many, many interesting guys over the course of about a dozen years. I've had the good fortune to meet guys on four continents, in many countries, in big cities and small towns. I've had guys travel with me but I've usually looked for local guys, since I so enjoy meeting new people of all stripes. I've been really very fortunate because out of many hundreds of meetings, only a small handful were disappointing at all. The others have all been fun and amusing in one way or another.

 

I try to be careful in terms of safety, especially when meeting someone new. But I'm also open to possibilities and I think I'm a fairly good judge of people, usually quite quickly. As an optimist who likes people, I am fairly trusting of those who I think are trustworthy. This led on one bright sunny afternoon to a situation that I hadn't expected or anticipated at all.

 

I was in a rather good and formal hotel, the kind of place with stiff upper lip service. It was a place that I would find myself from time to time and I wasn't looking to make a scene. I found a local escort who came over for a couple of hours and, after a short while, mentioned that he was quite into bondage. At first I thought that he was interested in getting tied up but of course that wasn't at all what he had in mind.

 

This was a very attractive young man, only about 20 years old, who I had never met before. He seemed bright and interesting and I made a decision that I'd take a chance, all on the spur of the moment. He had actually brought ropes with him in his bag (which I didn't know until that moment) and I ended up rather spread-eagled on the bed in this very fancy hotel, being tickled mercilessly by a very hot young guy.

 

I remember thinking that if he left me in that position, it was going to be very difficult trying to explain it to the hotel. But then I always assume that hotel workers have seen everything at least twice already anyway.

 

So that was how I spent a bright, sunny afternoon in a sunlight-flooded hotel room one Sunday quite a few years ago. And my trust in him was rewarded and it turned out that he knew what he was doing, even taking care to loosen the ropes periodically to check the circulation (although only one at a time. ). My decision to give it a go on the spur of the moment led to an very fun encounter.

 

I suppose that I should end this with a caution: as well as that worked out for me, I think that all clients and all escorts should always keep their eyes and ears open at all times. If you find yourself in a situation that seems odd or unsafe at all, trust your gut and get out of there. And, in hotel rooms with a safe, it's always wise to lock valuables away before entertaining guests who you don't know well.

 

BG

 

Thats what I mean. Isn't it surprising just how far afield from our more mundane pleasures we suddenly go on the spur of the moment. What a Hot afternoon and great surprise.

 

Sorry!

 

BG

 

No way, dont be. I can imagine me going to meet Rick and Derek and ending up in a long conversation about Rosalind Russell or Julie Newmar as we are so often like to do here on the forum. It just proves my point how what we have planned is so rarely what we find.... often for the better if you open up to the banquet and just LIVE.!!!

[MsGuy]

Thanks for the link, Tomcat.

 

Truly one of the best duos to ever grace the stage

 

I had forgotten the Alice B. Toklas/Gertrude Stein reference in their duet.

[whipped guy]

and I ended up rather spread-eagled on the bed in this very fancy hotel,...

I remember thinking that if he left me in that position, it was going to be very difficult trying to explain it to the hotel. But then I always assume that hotel workers have seen everything at least twice already anyway

Well, from someone who was tied on a bed in similar fashion and the maid entered the room (not realizing that I had a late checkout) I can certainly relate to that one! However, as you say hotel workers have probably seen it all and then some!

 

However, betting back to the original question recently I experienced a situation whereby the other guy wanted to expand and test some limits. It took me a bit by surprise… but then again surprise, spontaneity, and impulsiveness are indeed the stuff that can result in life changing experiences. Two individuals means two personas means a two way street... and at times one can be drawn in different directions at the same time... and especially when there is a special bond driven by trust and mutual respect.

 

...Ive been finding places Im going that Im not sure I want to get back from.

I know... there are certain places that will never be the same... ever again... and even if you revisit them! As for myself I will never totally be able to go back... Up until now my life has bee a prologue... I am now ready for Act One... and many acts to follow...

[doitb4ugo]

I think I'm not a newbie any more...

 

I finally get to chime in here having left work early for the Holiday.

 

My first surprise was having anything with a man...That was a beginning that I never anticipated. Since that occured, I have been on a mission to explore the universe and boldly go where doit has not gone before....I has been a joyous ride (rollercoaster with ups and downs) for me. Each encounter seems to add new things to the list. I can't believe I'm the guy who was so frightened to meet Romann for the first time. I set up an agenda and wrote out index cards to make the session go well. Good Grief, Dilbert hires an escort.

 

Since that time, with the help of people on this forum and some escorts who were willing to provide advice when asked, I have moved forward at a great pace.

 

Here's my list of things I never thought i would do: bottom and bottom hard, get pissed on, bondage and hiding the rope burns, hot wax, get spit on and eat saliva, various toys, deep throat (not very well yet), eat cum, get slapped around by hand and belt. have my nipples bit so hard they hurt for three days, get my toes sucked, get rimmed. And I still have a large list of things to try but there is always another time coming up.

[Boston Guy]

Good Grief, Dilbert hires an escort.

 

I will be laughing over this line all weekend. Thanks for a good laugh.

 

BG

[whipped guy]

Good Grief, Dilbert hires an escort... I have moved forward at a great pace... And I still have a large list of things to

try...

 

Dilbert and his escort tryng to get kinky...

 

http://www.starstore.com/acatalog/Dilbert-07-dn-01.jpg