For Those Accustomed to Hiring

[+ Hoover42]

Do you ever find yourself out and about, say visiting your local Starbucks, and notice some hot guy only to think to yourself, "hmmm, I wonder how much he'd charge for an hour or two? (or more)?"

 

Or is it just me.

 

I don't actually approach guys in this situation, but it does bother that I'm starting to think that almost any hot guy is available for a price.

 

I wonder how common this attitude is within the hiring community (if I can phrase it like that).

[Lankypeters]

I'll certainly admit to checking out guys and wondering if they need help with their tuition. A while back, someone on this site suggested a code phrase for approaching a guy you thought might be a working boy: "Are you a flight attendant?"

 

I wonder if that coded phrase still conveys that "hidden" meaning?

[doitb4ugo]

Not eascorts per say but available nonetheless

 

Great Question. I am very new to "gay". I check out almost anything with a cock. I used to sneak furtive glances and then look down after a second or two. In the last several months, I still check out pretty much any guy but rather tha look down I hqve started to look them in the eyes and try to figure out if they know I was checking them out....Sometimes I crotch watch then look in their eyes and smile...I think I am flirting but don't know for sure...Too new for me...I anticipate that at some point I will be called on it by the guy....I'm beginning to believe that everyone is at least partially gay.

 

I think this slanted view of guys comes from my foray into the gay world through escorts and guys who hire escorts...By speaking so freely here in this site,I tend to carry this freedom into the real world where it does not always fit.

[Greathands]

A while back I wrote a post about what I found to be the downside of hiring. One of my four major points was that one can begin to think that everyone has their price.

[NYTomcat]

Are you kidding. Me. I thought I was the only Sicko doing this. Saw a Guy yesterday and went right there. Hmmm. How much does he need. Lol

[imrthr]

 

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I used to sneak furtive glances and then look down after a second or two. In the last several months, I still check out pretty much any guy but rather than look down I have started to look them in the eyes and try to figure out if they know I was checking them out....

 

Sometimes I crotch watch then look in their eyes and smile...I think I am flirting but don't know for sure...snip

 

I think this slanted view of guys comes from my foray into the gay world through escorts and guys who hire escorts...By speaking so freely here in this site,I tend to carry this freedom into the real world where it does not always fit.

 

 

Very poignant points. Well said. Thanks

 

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[+ azdr0710]

there are lots of homeless dudes in my dusty desert town, even now in the 110 degree heat....they often stand in the medians at the various intersections with some "help me" sign and I often end up in the left-turn lane right next to them....I'll make small talk with them and some of the younger ones have a sexy, blue-collar, masculine look....have wondered what they'd say if I offered some money for them to just get completely naked and show off for me at a nearby, sleazy motel....

 

instead, I think I'll just keep hiring the "well-reviewed" guys...more expensive, sure, but less worry, too....has anybody really gone thru with anything like I described??....I'd be scared shitless, I think.....but would be hot as hell, too.....

[+ azdr0710]

I hqve started to look them in the eyes and try to figure out if they know I was checking them out....Sometimes I crotch watch then look in their eyes and smile...

 

be careful, buddy....don't get too - uh - cocky there and get yourself beat up!....we need you here!....

[josephga]

A while back I wrote a post about what I found to be the downside of hiring. One of my four major points was that one can begin to think that everyone has their price.

 

I agree with you, Not everyone has a price. I think its a good way for a person to get their ass whooped.

[doitb4ugo]

True

 

I agree with you, Not everyone has a price. I think its a good way for a person to get their ass whooped.

 

That's very true but funny as well. Currently I am paying someone to get my ass whooped. Maybe this will work for me...:D

[+ newatthis]

I think this slanted view of guys comes from my foray into the gay world through escorts and guys who hire escorts...By speaking so freely here in this site,I tend to carry this freedom into the real world where it does not always fit.

For me (who also reacts in this way) it comes from my experiences in strip clubs, where the guys are available and expect to be touched. More generally, when in the Village in Montreal, I really do go all flirty in many situations, especially with the hot waiters in places like La Piazzetta or Saloon. And they flirt back, both verbally and physically -- holding my hand briefly or putting a hand on my arm or shoulder.

[Guest greatness]

well

 

I never thought of hiring a stranger... I am a helpless romantic seeking my Romeo.. I think about what would be like to be with that handsome guy and raising kids together.. Today I was driving by a coffee shop and a cute guy was giving a shoulder massage to his girlfriend working on her computer. That seemed very sweet.. :o

[orbital sander]

I agree with you, Not everyone has a price. I think its a good way for a person to get their ass whooped.

 

Yes...or much worse. fantasizing is one thing, taking it to the next level is something I would be very very cautious about.

[adriano46]

In my travels around the world, one thing I learned is that in many cultures one never dares to let the eyes stray to a crotch -- it could have you end up slashed and thrown into a dark alley.

 

While I often find myself appreciating some very strikingly handsome guys out there, I learned long ago that most are "not available" and try to be careful not to let the eyes head south, especially in public. I do not tink I would have the courage ever to go up and ask a guy if he is interested. I am basically too shy.

 

On the other side of the coin, going to openly gay "boy bars" in some of the biggier cities in Europe is a real turn on, when you know that 90% or more are there either as escorts or as hustlers, and so eyeing them is part of the hunt and game. In one place, I eyed a really hunky Brazilian (although my hopes were on the lean and sexy Russian dancing at the time on the bar). The Brazilian honed in, rubbed me all over, and to my shock had his tongue down my throat while I continued to eye the Russian... and I ended up upstairs with BOTH of them 25 minutes later (another story).

 

One last comment - in my area right now are a LOT of day workers and while the Latino type is one I like, I have yet to ever see one I would be tempted to pull over and "invent" a home job for. Generally I know that most of these guys are strictly (passionately) straight, and their macho thing keeps me from ever taking it to another level.

[azhiker]

A few years ago I picked one of those day laborers up to help move and spread 10 ton of gravel out of my driveway. I was surprised how nice he looked and smelled when he got in my car. Gave him instructions on what to do and for how much and would take him water/soda for breaks. It did run through the back of my mind that I had stumbled on a new scenario here that could involve some "inside chores". I never acted on it as my momma raised me not to "mess" with the help and took him back af the completion of the job. Still to this day, when I see a group of day labors my mind revisits that fantasy.

[+ deej]

Not everyone shows your self-restraint when it comes to day labor. It seems like every summer there's a newspaper story about people taking advantage of them, making unwanted passes, etc.

 

Apparently, the older guys are protective of the younger ones and won't send them out solo.

[Guest MasculineCute]

Hi Hoover42

 

Your post is very interesting-

 

One of my clients/freinds tells me " every person has a price tag"

 

i think he approaches them and offer "Tuition" lol and it has worked for him twice ...

 

would be interesting to hear more about it ....

[Guest greatness]

Aww

 

You are so sweet. If I ever have a son, I want him to grow up to be like you.

 

I never acted on it as my momma raised me not to "mess" with the help and took him back af the completion of the job.

[bostonman]

Combining this thread with another topic that's been discussed here recently (roleplay) - I've sometimes fantasized about hiring an escort to play out a scene where his *character* is accepting the money (for instance, being a student with an intense crush on the school's star football jock - so intense that I even get up the nerve to offer him a few hundred to make it with me...and to my surprise, with a mischievous, cocky smirk, he agrees to it...)

 

But yeah, I confess I have sometimes looked at a random hot guy and wondered if he'd do it for an attractive fee...I've even sometimes thought about friends or people I know, lol...but I know I'd never actually have the nerve to try that for real. Again, fantasy is one thing, but there are just some things that just *can't* be reality. ;-)

[Guest greatness]

oh my

 

Rich please do not over do it~~~ I hope you have fun. Kisses and hugs~~

 

That's very true but funny as well. Currently I am paying someone to get my ass whooped. Maybe this will work for me...:D

[Guest jstlooknthx]

Really?

 

I'm kind of stunned by this thread. It's funny too that even on this site, which in a way felt like another level of 'coming out' for me, I'm still out of the loop. I just sort of figured many of us came to hiring from earlier experiences of offering money because it was just a gut response for us, like sucking dick.

I'm in my fifties now but I vividly remember my first experience picking up a student hitchhiker one summer day by the university in florida. He was shirtless and hot as hell. He smelled of the sun and he had a sweet mist of sweat on his smooth skin. He was sweet and friendly and I was so turned on and nervous I almost drove off the road. Still my lust gave me words. With a obviously sincere compliment here and there and some flirtatious banter he finally admitted he liked getting head. I believe he was straight-ish and as he hesitated I finally offered him the last 10 bucks I had in my pocket. I'll never forget the look we exchanged. That sly smile and spark in his eye. The adrenaline rush in my gut. We pulled off the road and we did a quickier right in my old vw bug. That's when it all started for me.

Thing is, unless it's a mutual turn on it doesn't work for me. Which means most pro escorts leave me cold. I have rarely hired the pros because of that. Waste of money without that spark. It has always been guys I've met at school. On the streets of Los Angeles (before the internet) or at the gym. No, not the crack addicts or homeless. Taking advantage of guys in desperate situations is not my style. I'm talking your everyday hot guy. There is a look in the eye that we both recognize. It turns me on like nothing else.

I think there are some like me that are honestly turned on by the hiring itself, though it requires that the 'hirer' be as turned on by getting the offer. It's more of a specific fetish I guess than the actually need to hire.

I was always able to get laid on my own. Still get hit on at my age today now and then. I'm just always surprised when some guys I've hired in the past have asked why would I need to hire? They didn't understand that the mutual agreement is what turned me on. The slight cockiness it requires for a guy to like the idea, it just turns me on like crazy.

AM I THE ONLY ONE?

[JackTwist]

Guilty As Charged, Sir!

 

Great question, Hoover. I'm so GUILTY of seeing Hotness here where I live everyday and wondering if they are a working boy. I work-out at Crunch Gym-West Hollywood and I swear almost every time I'm there I think I recognize a guy who advertises on Rentboy or who does porn. Sometimes I am right, but usually it's just a guy who looks too freaking hot to be real...and too sexy not be making money off his body! I've never been impulsive enough (yet) to approach a hot Beefcake and ask if he's interested in making extra cash, but I've darn sure thought about it.

[NYTomcat]

For me (who also reacts in this way) it comes from my experiences in strip clubs, where the guys are available and expect to be touched. More generally, when in the Village in Montreal, I really do go all flirty in many situations, especially with the hot waiters in places like La Piazzetta or Saloon. And they flirt back, both verbally and physically -- holding my hand briefly or putting a hand on my arm or shoulder.

 

I'm kind of stunned by this thread. It's funny too that even on this site, which in a way felt like another level of 'coming out' for me, I'm still out of the loop. I just sort of figured many of us came to hiring from earlier experiences of offering money because it was just a gut response for us, like sucking dick.

I'm in my fifties now but I vividly remember my first experience picking up a student hitchhiker one summer day by the university in florida. He was shirtless and hot as hell. He smelled of the sun and he had a sweet mist of sweat on his smooth skin. He was sweet and friendly and I was so turned on and nervous I almost drove off the road. Still my lust gave me words. With a obviously sincere compliment here and there and some flirtatious banter he finally admitted he liked getting head. I believe he was straight-ish and as he hesitated I finally offered him the last 10 bucks I had in my pocket. I'll never forget the look we exchanged. That sly smile and spark in his eye. The adrenaline rush in my gut. We pulled off the road and we did a quickier right in my old vw bug. That's when it all started for me.

Thing is, unless it's a mutual turn on it doesn't work for me. Which means most pro escorts leave me cold. I have rarely hired the pros because of that. Waste of money without that spark. It has always been guys I've met at school. On the streets of Los Angeles (before the internet) or at the gym. No, not the crack addicts or homeless. Taking advantage of guys in desperate situations is not my style. I'm talking your everyday hot guy. There is a look in the eye that we both recognize. It turns me on like nothing else.

I think there are some like me that are honestly turned on by the hiring itself, though it requires that the 'hirer' be as turned on by getting the offer. It's more of a specific fetish I guess than the actually need to hire.

I was always able to get laid on my own. Still get hit on at my age today now and then. I'm just always surprised when some guys I've hired in the past have asked why would I need to hire? They didn't understand that the mutual agreement is what turned me on. The slight cockiness it requires for a guy to like the idea, it just turns me on like crazy.

AM I THE ONLY ONE?

Hell no. Are you kidding. One of my main concerns when hiring is that the escort be as actually turned on by the idea of being hired as I am by them. Its one of the reasons, among many, I've so limited the escorts that I hire. I absolutely need people who I feel respond to me personally. If its an act, then it Better be a really good one. The fact im willing to pay for them to be there just adds to the charge that. I need to feel to make the evening go well. Yeah I agree it'd my fetish. I can't just enjoy the I paid for it exchange. Perhaps im burying my head in the sand. And ignoring the forum's chorus of remember if it were not for the money he wouldn't be there at all. I know that very well. But its the look of yeah ill do this for the money and hey... enjoy it... I like my job. Thats the escort that fits me everytime.

 

It'd when and if they start to act like they dont Really want to talk to you or are distant. Well no amount of money is gonna make that work. Thats when I back away From a hire.

If I'm just a job. Another daily chore on the to do list. Its never gonna work.

[Guest socal30]

I have not hired too many escorts -yet. But this attitude of anyone has a price seems very familiar to me as I am from the corporate world!

[skynyc]

Missing the days of the beepers

 

When I first started hiring, it was pretty easy to tell who was "available" because only two kinds of folks were wearing beepers...rentboys and drug dealers. And for the most part it was easy to distinguish between the two. This was in NY and LA in the late 80s early 90s. I worked out at the LA Fitness in WeHo, which was across from from the Ramada. My aerobics instructor was Casey Jordan, and every porn star was there in the early afternoon. <sigh> Good times.