So my friend thinks his cock is too big...

[BewareofNick]

I have become friends recently with a very attractive young man. He's ostensibly straight, but seems drawn to me and I am certainly not complaining. He's recently confided in me that he has an issue with his penis and it bothers him to the point that he thinks about it all the time.

 

He is very well endowed. He is also uncut. He has a discolored patch of skin on his cockhead. He has been to the doctor several times. The doctor has pronounced him clear of all disease and skin conditions. The discolored area is not rough, it is not any different from the rest of the glans, it is simply a different color.

 

He tells me that his cock becomes easily irritated when it rubs the inside of his pants or boxers. I asked him if he has tried to position it differently and he says there's only so much he can do with it because of its size. (Would that we all had the problem) I asked him if he had considered wearing a jock to which he said no. When I showed him what one was, he said hell no. So, i suggested that he start wearing some sort of briefs that would keep his junk together and prevent it from swinging freely.

 

Any advice? Am I on track here?

[doitb4ugo]

maybe

 

I think you are on the right track. I do not have a large one but when I work out at the gym, i cannot wear my usual boxer briefs because my stuff seems to go all over the place. I am old enough that a jock would be a good solution, especially nw that there are many comfy ones with smooth soft material to hold you together. You might suggest the shorter types of Underarmour types of compression shorts....

 

I won't make any off color jokes about your very hot situation. I know you are really trying to help this guy. He's lucky to have someone he can be this open with.

 

Just a thought.

[Diverdan]

Some problem !!!

 

I am assuming that this is a serious question and not one that is asked "tongue in cheek" so to speak. I am sure that many of us might like to have an extra large cock, and I have known guys with 9 and 10, but a lot depends on if it is a "shower" or a "grower" to have the problem he describes. How big is it when soft? or hard?

 

Seriously, he should check out the Jockey line of "pouch briefs". He can look them up on the Jockey web site and order on line. Munsingwear had the patent on them but was bought out by Jockey, I think primarily to get rid of a competitor. The pouch is just that, and it gives a very nice gentle support, but holds your equipment in place, and depending on the shorts or pants you are wearing, can also provide a "hint" of whats there.

 

These briefs are much more comfortable than a jock, but sometimes hard to find in the regular department stores.

 

Good luck with your friend. I am sure that anyone will get over the "color" issue once they see the full monty!

[josephga]

I only like boxer briefs. I have about 30 prs. i tried a jock once and didn't like it at all. iv always thought my balls were to big. iv met guys that said DAMN i bet your proud of those i know i would be. But not really. I only find certain styles of underwear comfortable. I think maybe a brief or a boxer brief might tighten up his goods

[whipped guy]

I certainly don't have that problem, but absolutely can't stand things moving around... so the tighter the better. Personally I prefer a low-rise tight brief. Of the current Jockey styles I would assume a pouch variety (low-rise, regular, boxer, and midway briefs available) would be the best for "larger" guys as their classic "Y style fly" does not seem to sufficiently hold larger packages in place from what I am told... though I have not had a significant problem Still, I was fortunate to stock up on a discontinued style with no fly that holds things in place best of all... I usually save those for "special" occasions.

 

My God... what we tend to divulge here is really bizarre at times!

[BewareofNick]

I am assuming that this is a serious question and not one that is asked "tongue in cheek" so to speak. I am sure that many of us might like to have an extra large cock, and I have known guys with 9 and 10, but a lot depends on if it is a "shower" or a "grower" to have the problem he describes. How big is it when soft? or hard?

 

Seriously, he should check out the Jockey line of "pouch briefs". He can look them up on the Jockey web site and order on line. Munsingwear had the patent on them but was bought out by Jockey, I think primarily to get rid of a competitor. The pouch is just that, and it gives a very nice gentle support, but holds your equipment in place, and depending on the shorts or pants you are wearing, can also provide a "hint" of whats there.

 

These briefs are much more comfortable than a jock, but sometimes hard to find in the regular department stores.

 

Good luck with your friend. I am sure that anyone will get over the "color" issue once they see the full monty!

 

Its a serious question. I have not seen his cock, but the way he describes it, I believe he's a shower. I've seen fleeting indications of it. We stopped by Kohl's and looked at underwear. He is trying out some boxer briefs and is supposed to let me know how they work.

[Lookin]

Sounds like good advice from the other posters.

 

With regard to your friend's concern about what seems like a very minor blemish, it sounds like he needs supportive folks like you around to reassure him and let him know that his true friends will find him attractive just the way he is.

 

Please let us know if we can help.

 

 

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[Guest greatness]

oh my

 

Maybe he has some kind of eczema or something like that... Anyways, I hope he feels better soon.

[rvwnsd]

I used to wear the Jockey Pouch midway briefs when I wanted a boxer brief. They were wonderful. Although I'm not as endowed as your friend, I am tall with extra-long legs. Regular boxer briefs rode up and turned into briefs with a lot of extra material. These were long enough. I believe they have a boxer brief that is shorter than the midway. The Jockey Factory Stores usually carry them and sometimes have them on sale.

[Boomer]

what about a codpiece?

[NoahDriver]

I am not close to that big haha, but I do love these underwear, lots of room for BIG boys

 

http://www.skiviez.com/Catalog/Mens-Underwear/Products/2047417/Skiviez-Cotton-Stretch-Pouch-Brief.underwear

[josephga]

I have these in a number of colors and they fit very well

http://www.hisroom.com/C-in2-4023-Core-Low-No-Show-Army-Trunk.shtml

[Diverdan]

Horizontal Fly

 

I forgot to mention that one of the things I love about the Jockey Pouch Briefs is that they have a horizontal fly for ease of access, in contrast to the typical jockey overlapping fly or those briefs with no fly at all... so you only have to unzip and pull it out.. no need to undo your belt or unbuckle your pants... and if you need a quicky, the horizontal fly allows for easy access to cock and balls... As far as I know, they are the only briefs or boxer briefss with a horizontal fly! so enjoy !!

[Guest Merlin]

Back to the subject of the thread. Is is possible your uncut friend is keeping his forskin peeled back? Or, for some uncut guys, the forskin does not completely cover the head, It is clear that the head of the uncut dick is very sensitive when flaccid. Too sensitive to wear closthes touching it. If his skin covers the head, it seems very unlikely that the underwear would irritate it. If part of the head is uncovered by the foresking, that might explain a difference in color between the covered part and the uncovered part. One would expect the uncovered part to have thicker skin, as does the head of a circumcized head, and therefore a different color. If so, this explanation should put his mind at ease. If he raises the subject again or if you fee comfortable raising it, I suggest you ask him if the skin completely covers the head and if not, whether the colored part is the incovered part.

You should consider the possibility that he suspects you are gay and is trying to sound you out by seeing if you are interested in his big dick. If he raises the subject again,you might ask him if he would feel comfortable showing it to you. Who knows where it will lead.

[+ sniper]

Under Armour Boxer Jock - the shortest ones are like briefs but have more give in the front.

[Guest Merlin]

Thinking about it some more, what he must mean is that when he gets a hard on, the head pushes part of its way through the foreskin, exposing the sensitive head to contact with the underwear. I suggest he try silk underwear for men which one sees advertised sometimes. Perhaps he could put a little lubricant on the head when dressing.

[BewareofNick]

Back to the subject of the thread. Is is possible your uncut friend is keeping his forskin peeled back? Or, for some uncut guys, the forskin does not completely cover the head, It is clear that the head of the uncut dick is very sensitive when flaccid. Too sensitive to wear closthes touching it. If his skin covers the head, it seems very unlikely that the underwear would irritate it. If part of the head is uncovered by the foresking, that might explain a difference in color between the covered part and the uncovered part. One would expect the uncovered part to have thicker skin, as does the head of a circumcized head, and therefore a different color. If so, this explanation should put his mind at ease. If he raises the subject again or if you fee comfortable raising it, I suggest you ask him if the skin completely covers the head and if not, whether the colored part is the incovered part.

You should consider the possibility that he suspects you are gay and is trying to sound you out by seeing if you are interested in his big dick. If he raises the subject again,you might ask him if he would feel comfortable showing it to you. Who knows where it will lead.

 

Very good advice, thank you. I hadn't thought to ask if the foreskin covers the whole head or not. It would certainly explain both issues.

 

We actually talked about it today. I asked him how the boxer briefs worked out and he said it was amazing. We're supposed to go out and see Iron Man (he hasn't seen it) so I may ask him about exactly what you describe above.