Pnp

[Epigonos]

I NEVER hire an escort who announces on his web site or in his ads PNP (Party n Play). I simply REFUSE to have anything to do with tweaked out escorts. All of the guys I know on this site who hire on a regular basis and who frequently hire for extended periods are also turned off by PNP escorts. Additionally all of the really successful escorts I know rely heavily on regulars for their income and they do NOT PNP. I wonder if my attitude regarding this matter is simply something to do with my age (69) or if younger posters here feel the same way. In the end I would be willing to bet a considerable amount of change that escorts who PNP find it difficult to build a repeat clientele and must rely on one and two hour appointments. Does this make any sense?

[+ Lucky]

Was there an incident of some kind which prompted this post, or did you just have some clutter in the back of the head that needed sweeping?

[Epigonos]

The LATTER definitely NOT the FORMER!

[+ nycman]

I'm not sure if I qualify as one of the "younger" posters any more or not, but what the hell...

 

I don't personally care if a dude is into PNP or not. I'm paying him to do a job, and

just like people who work for me elsewhere, if they show up impaired they get

the boot. What they do at home or on vacation, or even for other employers,

is none of my business. What they do while they're on the clock working for

me...is my business.

 

Having said that, I've never had an escort show up that I could tell was

under the influence of anything. I have had a few escorts tell me prior to

their arrival that they were partying and wanted to know if I was cool

with that. These were cold call, "now" appointments, and not an appointment

we had set up prior. I stated that I was very appreciative of their honesty but

politely declined the appointment and said "we'll try another time".

 

For the record, I was sincere and booked them another time and had a blast.

[Guest PWIT]

I also never hire(ed) anyone who advertised PNP. Prefer those that go even further and advertise as 'drug free'. Also don't hire smokers; can't stand the smell of smoke (cigarettes or weed).

[doitb4ugo]

I also never hire(ed) anyone who advertised PNP. Prefer those that go even further and advertise as 'drug free'. Also don't hire smokers; can't stand the smell of smoke (cigarettes or weed).

 

Who needs either when it's supposed to be all about "me". Certainly drug usage strikes me (being an old fart) as neither professional or desirable.

If a guy can hide the smoke smell I wouldn't care but usually smokers are not even cogniscent that they stink to non-smokers.

[uwsman2]

immediate rejection

 

If I see PNP in an advert, I just go ahead to the next. Would not think of hiring somebody who advertises PNP. I want somebody who's all there in the moment, not somebody with an artificial high.

[AdamSmith]

If I like the rest of the ad, I really don't give a shit about this. I just hire for an hour, and see what I get. The world is not going to end.

 

Point being, you never know what you might get! I hired one guy in NYC. He came to my hotel, we talked and made out for 1/2 hr, then he offered to scamper over to Brooklyn and get some weed and blow and meth. I demurred on the meth, but took (& funded) the first 2.

 

He stopped the clock, ran off, came back 40min later with the stuff. We had a wonderful 3 hours more.

 

 

Whatever happens, happens.

[+ Lucky]

Tsk, tsk, Adam. The last poster we had here who admitted to his drug use was Traveler...the late Traveler.

[instudiocity]

What about...

 

I'm definitely not into smokers or PnP guys. I even had qualms about a regular escort who told me he was taking ADHD meds. I really enjoyed kissing but started thinking, "I wonder IF I'm getting a small dose of his meds?"

 

The guy himself was the only narcotic I needed.

[AdamSmith]

Tsk, tsk, Adam. The last poster we had here who admitted to his drug use was Traveler...the late Traveler.

 

So the problem lies in admitting it?

 

I see.

[NYTomcat]

So the problem lies in admitting it?

 

I see.

 

LOL yes cause God knows we hirers of men for sexual pleasures have our reputations to look after. Adam... please. admitting to a crime. come come now

[body2body]

I hired a guy whose profile I had admired. He arrived and looked thinner than the pics, and seemed nervous. He said the loss of weight was due to his "getting leaner for summer" and the nervousness was because this was our first meeeting. He never got erect, couldn't relax to receive, and eventually broke out in a cold sweat. He spent 10 minutes in the bathroom. When he came out I asked him to dress, and leave. I paid his fee.

 

If I contact someone new, who has not been reviewed here, I explain that I do not enjoy the company of someone who is tweaking, high or drunk. I have had one guy tell me that he was out with friends and that he was a little drunk, and I should try him another time. I did, and we had a very nice time. As with so many situations discussed here it is all a matter of communication. I have been sober for many years (28), and I have learned that just because I had trouble with drugs and alcohol, it is not a problem for most people, it is for them "recreational". However as a client I don't want to be involved with it.

 

To each his own.

[+ Lucky]

So the problem lies in admitting it?

 

I see.

 

 

I tease, of course. I doubt that you are alone in this.

[jimboivyo]

Why invite that kind of stupidity into your bedroom, whether he's hot or not? Do you really want to get yourself involved in his drug drama?

[AdamSmith]

I doubt that you are alone in this.

 

You think?

 

To NYTomcat's point -- after all the other stuff we admit doing on here, blowing a joint seems pretty weak tea.

 

A: "Did you hear what happened to old man Smith?"

 

B: "No, what about him?"

 

A: "Fell down three flights of stairs, broke his neck and died!"

 

B: "No!"

 

A: "Yeah! Cracked his dentures too."

 

[AdamSmith]

Why invite that kind of stupidity into your bedroom, whether he's hot or not?

 

I suspect my bedroom contains plenty of stupidity when I am in there all by myself. Risking a little more, of this particular kind, has on occasion seemed worth it.

 

Do you really want to get yourself involved in his drug drama?

 

I am not marrying him and having his babies, just seeing into fucking or getting fucked.

 

Obviously if he showed up and was way out beyond the orbit of Jupiter (Uranus? ), I would send him on his way. But so far, so good.

 

None of this is to say I seek out the PNP label. Only that, on several occasions, I did not let it deter me, fortunately did not get saddled with a tweaked-out freak, and had a good time.

 

Every day of life is about evaluating risk and reward. Eventually the gentleman in black will screw down the lid and rid me of that burden once and for all. I have scant interest in hurrying to a risk-free zone much before then.

[KMEM]

If he is orbiting beyond Uranus, that is reason enough to send him on his way. LOL.

 

Best regards,

KMEM