Communications

[AdamSmith]

Dang. Nothing to do then but wait it out or (better) move on. Although I know here in Boston, given somewhat limited choice, the latter is easier said than done.

[NYTomcat]

Now you see doit and Adam this is why we need to move you to Manhattan. We don't have a derth of escorts and all travelers come home to roost. So I promise. Come to the big apple and take a bite. You wont want to go home.

[Epigonos]

You know it is funny. I'm not really sure why when I first started hiring escorts I decided to make my first contact with the guy by email rather than by telephone. Possibly I was so insecure about the whole hiring thing that I didn't want to talk, right away, to the escort directly and email let me feel more distant and secure. It also allowed me to face age rejection by a simple lack of email response rather than verbal rejection over the telephone Now the whole process is an established pattern that has always worked for me and I see no valid reason to change it now.

 

Do I currently need that email distance to feel safe and secure -- NOT HARDLY. Would verbal age rejection upset me at this point in my life --NOT HARDLY. There are tons of other hunky, sexy, built fish in the pond just waiting to be reeled in -- damn I do enjoy this life style.

[Mark Gordon]

'What are you into?'

 

The only thing I would suggest is that it is invariably more useful for the client to give an idea of what they are looking for, than for the client to ask the escort what he is into. However, I can't see this being a good enough reason for your lack of response. Since making phone contact is not possible, you could try emailing again in a few days if you're very keen, otherwise move on to someone more professional.

[NYTomcat]

The only thing I would suggest is that it is invariably more useful for the client to give an idea of what they are looking for, than for the client to ask the escort what he is into. However, I can't see this being a good enough reason for your lack of response. Since making phone contact is not possible, you could try emailing again in a few days if you're very keen, otherwise move on to someone more professional.

 

I'm with mark doit. You did everything right. Unless your really hooked on him. Move on or check and see who is bringing their traveling road show to town.

[jimboivyo]

Plain and simple, if I take the time to write a descriptive, personal email to an escort, I want something back that's equally as informative. Nothing worse than a guy writing some flip, one-sentence reply.

[doitb4ugo]

Plain and simple, if I take the time to write a descriptive, personal email to an escort, I want something back that's equally as informative. Nothing worse than a guy writing some flip, one-sentence reply.

 

Agreed. This may be one area where communications is a clear sign of the quality of the escort experience....I imagine that the better escorts provide a superior level of communication. It's seems to be a reflection of their desire to please their clients.

[NYTomcat]

Agreed. This may be one area where communications is a clear sign of the quality of the escort experience....I imagine that the better escorts provide a superior level of communication. It's seems to be a reflection of their desire to please their clients.

 

By far I cannot dispute a word of this. Now some may be busy but still a brief response followed by something more substantial is expected.

[doitb4ugo]

Out of the Blue

 

I wanted to bring all you kind folks up to date...Stangely enough the escort in question e-mailed me today after 8 days....he apologized for not responding sooner and gave me some of the info I was looking for....

 

I certainly do fell better not having been dissed. Turns out he escorts part time. If he follows through with some pics etc...no harm, no foul.

 

 

 

Below is a recent attempt to communicate with a local escort advertising on M4RN. He e-mailed me when I sent the M4RN e-mail to him.

 

My response is below. Seems to have generated only 3 days of silence..Should I assume that the guy has no interest in "older" or "newbie" or is the guy guessing that I'm not immediate enought to be a sure bet? Is the communication flawed or have I just picked the wrong guy?

 

Hey ****,

I just wanted to get some info on your location in Boston. Are you in downtown Boston or fairly close by. I sometimes like to take a few hours off during my workday(in downtown). Are you close enough to make this possible.

Thanks for your offer to send more pics. From the pics I see, you are quite a good looking guy. Can you give me an idea of what you are into. I am fairly new at this and open minded about the experience. Being an older guy, I was interested in meeting with someone who has some maturity and able to relate comfortably to a "newbie".

 

Thanks for your time,

Rich