Need info on timelines....

[Guest LatinoRican]

Hey, guys! I will be moving to Orlando in January/Feb and will be looking into hiring at least until I get my act together and figure out where the bars/clubs are located. My question is: If I hire an escort for 2 hours and invite him out to dinner...when do the two hours begin to count? When we go to dinner or when we get back to my apartment? Please let me know as I am... sort of... new to this type of activity. Thanx!

[+ deej]

It depends.

 

It depends on the guy. It depends on the day. It depends on the place. It depends on a million things, and no answer fits all -- or even every "date" with the same guy. Talk to him about it.

 

Generally, though, you are paying for time. How you use that time is pretty much dependent on whatever you've discussed in advance with the escort. If you have not discussed it in advance, then you can have no expectations whatsoever.

 

Talk to him.

[+ purplekow]

I have never had an escort turn down a meal but I always make it clear at the time of the invitation that the meal is off the clock, except if he has been hired for an overnight, then dinner and breakfast, usually if I can get up, are included by me.

[Guest LatinoRican]

Thank you both for your replies! I will certainly keep your advice in mind when I head off for Florida in a month or two.

[beetwo]

some escorts also have an evening rate. doesn't hurt to ask them I usually tell a guy in my first contact what I want, "dinner, then two hours of play at my place" and then have them give me a rate for their time. If the rate is reasonable, have fun. If you think it is too much, thank them, move on, and find someone else.

[Guest LatinoRican]

OK... I will look into that, too. Thank you for your input!

[+ newatthis]

...If I hire an escort for 2 hours and invite him out to dinner...when do the two hours begin to count? When we go to dinner or when we get back to my apartment?...

I wouldn't be surprised if an escort who has never met you expected dinner to be on the clock. After all, he has no idea whether spending time with you over dinner is going to be a pleasure or a chore. Once he knows you and discovers that it's the former, he is much more likely to respond positively to the suggestion "would you like to have dinner with me afterwards, my treat, but off the clock?" (I'm a firm believer in dinner following, not preceding, sex.)

[Guest greatness]

Good luck

 

I hope everything goes well.

 

OK... I will look into that, too. Thank you for your input!

[Guest JayJohnsic62ic62]

...he is much more likely to respond positively to the suggestion "would you like to have dinner with me afterwards, my treat, but off the clock?" (I'm a firm believer in dinner following, not preceding, sex.)

 

I questioned my own response in a similar situation.

 

Following a prearranged 2-hour session, the escort asked what my plans were and whether I'd had dinner yet. I was visiting his city, so I welcomed his company and restaurant recommendations.

 

Now, I had already compensated him for his time before we discussed dinner. He suggested dinner, so I assumed we were "off the clock" but I didn't ask. When the check arrived, he offered to split it, but I told him he was my guest.

 

I had a very enjoyable time at dinner with this fine gentleman and did not realize until AFTER he left that we'd spent nearly 4 hours together. In fact, I enjoyed our conversation as much as the preceding time.

 

In hindsight, I wondered whether I should have handled it differently. That is, did he feel short-changed? He certainly gave no indication to that effect and I think it would have been awkward to ask at that point (even if I had thought about it).

 

Ultimately, I concluded he offered, so it was fair to assume it was a mutual dinner between two acquaintances.

[+ newatthis]

Seems like a no-brainer to me. After all

...I had already compensated him for his time before we discussed dinner.

[Guest LatinoRican]

Dinner after sex, huh? Well, from what I've read in many reviews (and seen in movies) this does not seem to be the norm. These guys must have their escorts stay over night. But it makes perfect sense, after all, I do not think that many people would be able to have great sex shortly after a big meal. Thank you.

[+ newatthis]

Dinner after sex, huh? Well, from what I've read in many reviews (and seen in movies) this does not seem to be the norm. These guys must have their escorts stay over night. But it makes perfect sense, after all, I do not think that many people would be able to have great sex shortly after a big meal. Thank you.

First you work up an appetite, then you have dinner. (Of course, some posters here work up a different appetite by sitting across the table and playing footsie with a hot guy first ).

[Lookin]

. . . after all, I do not think that many people would be able to have great sex shortly after a big meal . . .

 

It's been said here before,

Though it may bear repeating:

Some guys find it a chore

To have sex after eating.

 

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