What makes a good kiss for your?

[Guest roninx]

I recently hookedup with 2 separate older men (mid 40's--at separate times, of course.)

 

One guy's kissing technique consisted of sticking his tongue in and out like a snake (he also had smoke breath, yuck).

 

The other guy just stuck his tongue out and left it out. Everytime I tried to kiss him he would just stick it out. (what is with that?) (this guy also used is teeth sometimes when he gave me a BJ)

 

I mean I don't think I'm the world's best kisser but come on. They were older and I would have thought had more experience. It wasn't like it was their first experience. One had had past boyfriends.

 

I personally really enjoy kissing and was slightly turned off. I didn't know what to say. Should I have said something? I didn't want to hurt his feelings? How could I have handled this delicately?

 

Personally, I like slightly wet, slow, very sensual kisses. What makes a good kiss for U?

[liubit]

RE: What makes a good kiss for you?

 

Lots of lip, LOTS of tongue that sensously plays, teases, explores and caresses. Plenty of variety, too: it must go from a soft touch to a passionate urging, back and forth. When somebody is a good kisser, I am putty in his hands (and tongue). What gets me right up in heaven is someone licking my lips round and round, with the soft touch of a velvety warm tongue that suddenly becomes a dart and caresses the inside of my mouth with hot yearning . A good kiss is a true poem....I am getting hot already... :9 :* :9 :* :9 :*

[+ deej]

What makes a good kiss?

 

Joey Ciccone.

 

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[Rick Munroe]

First of all, there's one aspect that's never discussed and that is the few seconds leading up to the kiss... As you are approaching the other guy's face, keep your mouth closed! It looks so silly to move toward someone with your lips puckered and your tongue poking out (imagine Don Knotts in that movie where he became a fish). Try doing it in a mirror...you'll never do it again.

 

Best kiss: a warm, wet, soft mouth...lips not too firm but not too limp...a delicate mix of aggression and gentle passion...a battle of tongues where the victor is constantly changing. I also like when the mouths don't stay centered on each other and are allowed to wander to the neck, the chin, the ears, the eyelids, and back to the lips again. Yum...kissing is what definitely starts me moaning. :9

 

The one thing I hate is when my tongue is being pulled too hard & it feels like it's going to be ripped out of my mouth. That's just a little too much kiss-aggression.

[Guest Brady YoungE]

Oh my God Rick I think we met the same person! Nothing (and I mean NOTHING) turns me off worse than someone who is a bad kisser. The guy was so bad it practically ruined my entire day. All he would do was stick his tounge straight out and head for my mouth as if it was a penis entering a vagina. That's it. In and out, in and out, in and out ... you get the idea. I really wanted to say something but couldn't bring myself to verbalize my contempt. So ...what is the best way for us to mention negative traits in our sexual partners? Is there a way? I'd really like to know if people have had experiences in this area.

[+ deej]

>So ...what is the

>best way for us to mention negative traits in our sexual

>partners? Is there a way? I'd really like to know if people

>have had experiences in this area.

 

For starters, it's not a "negative trait". Don't approach it that way.

 

You can just seductively growl "try this instead" and demonstrate.

 

One of my favorite escorts ever was enthusiastic about kissing, but went at it with youthful impetuous zeal. He was in a hurry to get to the main event. Once I slowed him down and showed him how to enjoy the trip, we had some times that ... well ... my toes still curl thinking about it.

[Guest Brady YoungE]

Very good advice.

 

You are right, it's not a negative trait, it's just a difference of styles.

[Rick Munroe]

>All he would do was stick his tounge straight out and

>head for my mouth as if it was a penis entering a vagina.

>That's it. In and out, in and out, in and out

 

That sounds hot to me. But if you really didn't like it, you definitely should have told him. I always say that communication with your partner is #1. Take responsibility for your pleasure (sorry; I didn't mean to make that sound like a beer commercial).

[Guest jwraustin]

I have one client (whom I have seen for a couple of years), and as much as I have tried, he just doesnt get the technique of kissing down. He kisses like a pez dispenses - tongue out, toung in..and just the hang of it. But, he does make up for it in other ways, tho.

 

You either have it, or you dont.

 

Jon

[Guest Charon]

>That sounds hot to me.

 

Everything sounds hot to you

[Flower]

>That sounds hot to me. But if you really didn't like it,

>you definitely should have told him. I always say that

>communication with your partner is #1. Take responsibility

>for your pleasure (sorry; I didn't mean to make that sound

>like a beer commercial).

 

I agree -- whether you are escort or client -- just say something, but be nice, and demonstration is effective. Like, "let me show you what I like."

 

Either as a client or as a guy kissing another, I enjoy knowing the other is enjoying it too and would gladly go out of my way to make it happen--that's part of the fun for me and I assume for many escorts and clients also. I had an escort help me with my kissing technique long ago and I have helped others since--even escorts. So pay it forward :-)

 

Flower :*

[+ Axiom2001]

Where is Joey based??? I know he plans to be in SF in June of this year.

[+ Axiom2001]

>Where is Joey based??? I know he plans to be in SF in June

>of this year.

 

 

I noted your other hit and surfed Joey's reviews; I found my answer.

I should have checked before replying with a quote, your response.

[jack]

Love to suck the guy's tongue while I play with his butt.:9

[+ Axiom2001]

>Love to suck the guy's tongue while I play with his butt.:9

 

 

Love to have him suck me; then I ask: I want your mouth!:9 :9 That's when our mouths get the workout that I like. I don't like a man who barely opens his mouth.

[+ Axiom2001]

As one who likes kissing from the beginning to end, I prefer someone who knows how to open his mouth and entertwine with his partner--from light to aggressive to deep. It is really hot for me.

 

I like to go gradual then proceed until the right note has been hit!

Long ago I and a man in SF would see each other almost once or twice a month. He could kissssssssss; he also loved to go down on me while I rimmed him. It was HOTTTTTTTTTT! We would do our thing simultaneously!

 

This question afforded me (in part) to revisit this experience; I also think that we would kiss after visiting these parts of each other.

It was so explosive........:9 :9 :9