Need your advice/opinions, please

[Blade9]

Okay guys, here it is...I've specifically posted this in the Deli as opposed to the "Ask an Escort" forum because I want responses from clients as well as the escorts.

 

I'm not much into role play or fantasy with an escort but there is one scene I've always wanted to try.

 

I've never in all my years been picked up in a bar. Never. Never at a party. Never on the street. Never happened. I'm told I don't appear to be the most approachable person in a room. I travel a great deal for business. I would like to hire an escort (with no face photos in his ad) for a multi-hour session to meet me at a designated place and time, probably the hotel bar, I'll tell him exactly what I'll be wearing, etc. I want him to chat me up, take his time and ultimately pick me up and fuck the crazy out of me at my hotel. In my room, not the bar. He can make up whatever scenario he wants about who he is, a traveling business man, just got out of the service, on the run from the law, whatever, but ultimately he wants to get off and I'm the guy he's going to do it with/to/on/in.

 

I've been hiring escorts for some time. I realize I can just start to call the ads and see what happens, but before I do, I want some feedback from the real pros, hence my post here.

 

So, is this too extreme, creepy? I'm concerned, given the latest Craigslist murder, stalker bullshit that the response from the men will be negative. And frankly, I can't say that I blame them. What do you guys think?

 

B

[+ purplekow]

It doesnt sound too kinky. You can have such an experience with a well reviewed escort and have less concern. You might also have a code word to insure that you have the right guy and he does too. I had a nice rendezvous at a hotel in which I left the door slightly ajar and made sure all the lights were off and the window light cut off. When the escorts arrived I told them to close the door and that was the last light until we were done. They never saw me and I never saw them until it was time to go get a bite to eat.

[alanalt]

I don't think cold-calling escorts is the way to go for this...

 

I'll admit that I find the scenario to be an interesting/erotic one, but making it happen the way you describe seems to be begging for disappointment both from a personal safety perspective but mainly because there are darn few escorts out there who I haven't met/seen their face that I think would have the acting calibre and trust level around here that I would trust to pull this off. There are a few guys around here that might fit the bill there but without knowing your locale, there's no way to really recommend someone...

 

One approach you might pursue is to take this up with an escort that you've already formed a relationship with (and trust) and see if he can recommend someone to you. That way you can keep the anonymity/spontaneity you're looking for while giving both you and the escort a measure of confidence that the other party will live up to their end of the deal...

 

Alan

 

PS - purplekow's suggestion about a 'code phrase' is a good one just in case you happen to pick the same night that fate/karma's decided to make you its bitch...

[MsGuy]

PS - purplekow's suggestion about a 'code phrase' is a good one just in case you happen to pick the same night that fate/karma's decided to make you its bitch...

 

On the other hand, it might be nice to be left in doubt at least until it's time to pass over the envelope with the cash. The truest fulfillment of the fantasy would be in having to call the escort the next day and make amends for standing him up.

[Guest OCBeachbody]

Okay although mostly I have tons of massage experience, I have to admit I have hired out an escort or two. Luckily some of my massage guys do double as escorts and were happy to refer me to someone I may like (I thought it would be ackward to turn to my masseur buddies into an escort). Like you I do travel on business and it is nice to have some to engage in some good quality free time.

 

As many suggests, go with an established escort, there are plenty of sites that have excellent reviews. Also if you find one you like, try to establish a rapport with them. Write them an e-mail and give a call. Explain to them that hey it is your first time and you have reservations. Most great escorts are extremely personable and can explain how things go and what to do. You can even arrange the method of payment and the scenario you want... so you can have your fantasy. Yet take some caution, not because of the escort.... but cause local law enforcement has been cracking down.

 

As for as being the unapproachable guy..... well I've been told I am way to serious and I seem to be observant. That I give a vibe that says "WHAT?!"....lol.... but as soon as you get to talk to me.... people says "my goodness your not scary at all"

[alanalt]

On the other hand, it might be nice to be left in doubt at least until it's time to pass over the envelope with the cash. The truest fulfillment of the fantasy would be in having to call the escort the next day and make amends for standing him up.

 

That's the 'Hollywood screenplay' ending. The 'Karma's Bitch' ending is they find traces of your DNA in with the pig food on a farm somewhere...

[Romann]

Oh so delicious!

[Romann]

Hahahaha!

 

Now wouldn't that be something if the client is picked up by someone else while the escort is left dumb founded at where he is only to find out someone else is banging his booty AND collecting the bounty!

 

I'll admit that I find the scenario to be an interesting/erotic one, but making it happen the way you describe seems to be begging for disappointment both from a personal safety perspective but mainly because there are darn few escorts out there who I haven't met/seen their face that I think would have the acting calibre and trust level around here that I would trust to pull this off. There are a few guys around here that might fit the bill there but without knowing your locale, there's no way to really recommend someone...

 

One approach you might pursue is to take this up with an escort that you've already formed a relationship with (and trust) and see if he can recommend someone to you. That way you can keep the anonymity/spontaneity you're looking for while giving both you and the escort a measure of confidence that the other party will live up to their end of the deal...

 

Alan

 

PS - purplekow's suggestion about a 'code phrase' is a good one just in case you happen to pick the same night that fate/karma's decided to make you its bitch...

[Lookin]

On the other hand, it might be nice to be left in doubt at least until it's time to pass over the envelope with the cash. The truest fulfillment of the fantasy would be in having to call the escort the next day and make amends for standing him up.

And having the guy who just rode you silly say, "I don't want your money. I told you I'm here for your ass. And we're not done yet."

 

On a possibly more realistic note, this fantasy doesn't seem so hard to put together if it's done with a well-reviewed escort so as to eliminate the risk.

 

Not sure why, but Mike Grey's name comes to mind.

[Txpaytoplay]

Thats Freakin Hilarious!

 

Now wouldn't that be something if the client is picked up by someone else while the escort is left dumb founded at where he is only to find out someone else is banging his booty AND collecting the bounty!

 

That's one of the funniest things I have read in a long time!

[MsGuy]

And having the guy who just rode you silly say, "I don't want your money. I told you I'm here for your ass. And we're not done yet."

 

Perfect!

 

This is really the first fantasy in a very long time that tripped my trigger. Kudo's to Blade9 for this wonderful post.

 

From the other posts here I suspect that more than a few escorts around the country are going to be getting calls in the next few weeks asking for this scenario. Who knows, it might even become a staple of the profession. Generations hence punters may still be requesting a "Blade9 Special."

[Blade9]

Mike Grey always comes to mind...unfortunately, I've met him more than once so that blows the fantasy. Thanks guys, I appreciate your comments. LA will be my stomping grounds for the next few weeks/months. I was thinking Scott Adler. I don't believe he has any face photos in his ad, so that could work well. We've never met. Tried to once, but couldn't make the schedules jive. I can think of worse things than having him pick me up in a hotel bar.

[Troyster]

Now wouldn't that be something if the client is picked up by someone else while the escort is left dumb founded at where he is only to find out someone else is banging his booty AND collecting the bounty!

 

 

 

For both parties sake the password or something more than telling the guy what you will have on seems necessary.

 

Worse yet might be the working guy goes to the wrong individual; picks him up; gets up to his room; pounds the guy till the end of time and looks for the envelop ..... and the guy says "What f^%$ envelop .... I am not paying you you picked me up in the bar!" Ouch.

 

.... and in the meantime the unsuspecting client is left dejected yet again in the bar.

[Blade9]

Yes, that would suck and not in a good way.

 

Thanks for the post,

 

B