Making noise when you're fucking around

[Rick Munroe]

I can't help moaning when I'm turned on & the guy I'm with is making me feel good, or when I'm turned on because I'm making him feel good. (It's the same for Derek...but in his case, it's more of a grunt.) I'm never aware of it until it's pointed out to me (and then I have to try not to be self-conscious of it), and most guys seem to find it sexy.

 

Now, when I'm with someone who's silent, it's sometimes hard to know if everything I'm doing is good. Of course, a hard-on speaks for itself. If I'm sucking a guy & change techniques, I can tell what he likes when his dick gets harder, and that's fucking hot. But sometimes, I have no idea...when the guy neither speaks ("Yeah!") nor makes noises. Is this something that has to be taught/learned or should it come naturally?

 

What do you prefer? A silent partner or one who communicates what he wants & how he feels? Is it important or not? And what are you...a noisy fuck or a quiet cummer?

[CT Dick]

Sound is another dimension added to sex.

 

I can't stand a silent partner; in fact, I've often stopped to ask if he is enjoying it. If I'm working, at least he can show some appreciation.x(

 

Dick

[Guest DCeBOY]

me...

 

i'm completely silent. folks can barely hear me breathe.

what i hate is when i'm doing my duty & the guy starts yapping like he's in a b-grade porn, asking "do you like that ass?"

like i'm gonna say no!

[Rick Munroe]

RE: me...

 

>i'm completely silent. folks can barely hear me breathe.

 

You must really clean up with the necrophiliac clientele.

[mmk]

RE: me...

 

It depends on the mood that hass been set- If it is just a playful sexual romp or a down and dirty fuckfest, then moans and dirty talk are great. However if it is someone I genuinely care about and someone I am dating, then if I am with that person, to me it is actually more erotic if there is no noise and just complete silence.

[Guest DCeBOY]

actually....

 

i had one guy i think probably was into necrophilia.

he used to try to get me to lay there & "pretend to be asleep." well, i move when i sleep, so i did & he didn't like that. he wanted me to lay there without moving & to try to breathe as shallowly as possible.

he was creepy.

[Guest Chazzz69]

And what are you...a noisy fuck or a quiet cummer?

 

 

List me as noisy fuck.

 

However, did learn to zip off a quick one in my room as a teen with out making a sound.

[DaninWA]

I start out very playful - teasing, kidding around, laughing. The more turned on I get, however, the quieter I get. I become virtually silent and almost paralyzed with pleasure. Scared one guy. He started shaking me and asking if I was alright.

 

Dan

[chrismac]

The louder, the better.

 

Let the walls shake, baby! }>

[Guest RushNY]

Both myself and the BF make LOTS of noise when having sex moans,groans,screams,shouting,the whole 9 yards my BF loves to talk dirty while having his ass pounded and curses in Spanish a lot which turns me the HELL on and makes me go at it twice as hard :9 :9 .

Its probably a good thing my house is on its own i dunno what the neighbors would think if they heard us !

[Guest JustANametoPlay]

I'm kind of a quiet one although I like when my partner is a bit verbal. I also don't yell when I come.

 

So Sue me!

[Guest Hole_4_Hire]

>What do you prefer? A silent partner or one who

>communicates what he wants & how he feels? Is it important

>or not? And what are you...a noisy fuck or a quiet cummer?

 

I've had several embarassing experiences with "screamers" that just didn't know how to communicate without waking the dead. This irritates the hell out of me.

 

I much prefer someone that communicates with body language or satisfying "grunts" or "moans" that remain within the confines of the immediate room.

 

I spent my youngers years as a quiet cummer. But, I now make a concious effort to make sure my partners know I appreciate their prowess and expertise.

[Will]

As you know, Rick, I like a moaner. And a groaner. And a screamer and a shouter. What I mostly care about is that the person I'm with feel free to be loud or quiet; and what I mostly hope for, but of course can't control at all, is that the other guy be turned on.

 

You can tell when a silent guy is turned on. And you can tell when a noisy guy is just being noisy, like some abstracted actor in a porn film. That, to me, is a bigger turn off than total silence.

[+ Charlie]

Although I'm pretty quiet myself, except when I cum, I like a guy who moans and grunts and whispers dirty stuff in my ear.

[Rick Munroe]

RE: me...

 

>However if it is someone I

>genuinely care about and someone I am dating, then if I am

>with that person, to me it is actually more erotic if there

>is no noise and just complete silence.

 

That's very curious...is it because you feel more inhibited & can't let loose with that person? Why aren't you the same regardless of who your sex partner is?

[Rick Munroe]

>you can

>tell when a noisy guy is just being noisy, like some

>abstracted actor in a porn film. That, to me, is a bigger

>turn off than total silence.

 

Absolutely agree. Anything fake or forced is a total turn-off to me, too.

[Rick Munroe]

>However, did learn to zip off a quick one in my room as a

>teen with out making a sound.

 

<LOL> Me, too...my parents' bedroom was right next to mine & I had to be very quiet because I had a very nosey mother ("Why's that bed creaking?!"). As a result, when I met Derek (I was 17 & he was a mature older man of 19), he thought my jackoff technique was hysterical...very slow & mechanical...and he had to teach me the proper way to do it. He taught me everything I know, actually. If he hadn't been such a demanding top, I never would have learned how not to gag when someone's roughly fucking my throat.

[mmk]

RE: me...

 

It is not that I cannot be myself it is just that, for me anyway, the emotions behind the actions are different if it is with someone I care about then if it is with someone who is either a fuck buddy or a casual pickup. I guess that I have always separated to two scenarios, even though the same actions are involved.

 

(By the way Rick, I hope that you and Derek have and incredible time in SF. Got back a week ago and I cannot wait to go back. So many wonderful restaurents and nighclubs and sights in that city. It is impossible to see everything in one trip)

[Guest jwraustin]

Well......I am one of those very noisy tops, who gets very verbal and loud when I get into deep, hard fuck mode. Trust me, its not rehearsed at all. Its all spontaneous. My clients have told me that my eyes sorta glaze over, and I make a noise, sorta like a growl. That is usually when I totally let go, and get into the sweat and the hard fucking. You can always tell when I am really into it, as when I am finished I am totally drenched in sweat, and exhausted. I get few, of any complaints about being a loud fuck.

 

Tho, I can always fuck quietly - it just takes a lot of concentration for me. C O N C E N T R A T E!!!

[tedbear]

I think I'm fairly quiet, but I've had guys comment on the sounds I make. It always surprises me. (Tell me if I'm noisy, Rick, if you remember the details. It's been a while!)

 

I once had a guy, more of a hustler than an escort, with an ENORMOUS dick who screamed at the top of his lungs when he came. It came off phony as hell, but his boyfriend said he was always like that. Frankly, it was embarrassing as I live in a highrise, and even though the walls are partition block, drywall and plaster, I'm sure my neighbors heard that! I don't care if they hear groaning and moaning (but I doubt they can), but if they hear loud screaming, I don't want to explain it to a doorman (or the police).

 

I absolutely HATE guys whose verbal emoting comes off a phony. If it's genuine, it's as sexy as hell.}>

[Rick Munroe]

RE: me...

 

>(By the way Rick, I hope that you and Derek have an

>incredible time in SF. Got back a week ago and I cannot wait

>to go back. So many wonderful restaurents and nighclubs and

>sights in that city. It is impossible to see everything in

>one trip)

 

Thanks...I agree; I can see it becoming our new home away from home. We're gonna keep going back regularly, I think/hope. And I've gotten a list of great restaurants from one of our favorite clients (we like to eat almost as much as we like to drop our pants) (well, usually the two are related). I love the cable cars, too (I want to get blown on one of those).