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[Godiva]

The boys and I were dining this weekend and a very intersting topic came up at the dinner table. One of the boys is nursing a broken heart. He and his Boyfriend broke up last week. He is devastated. His boyfriend is drop dead Gorgeous and won't have a problem finding someone soon. Well one of my friends at the table said he was interested in the old boyfriend and in fact they have been talkin. This did not happen during the relationship!!!

 

Well when he made that announcement at the table you could hear the claws come out.....errrrrrrEHrrrrrrrrr.. The widow said he was pissed and made an announcement that his boyfriend was off limits to his friends. That this was something understood in the Gay community and if we wanted to remain friends with him we would have to abide by those rules. Well we all would have split but we just sat down and ordered.

 

I know women are pretty catty about that stuff but I did not think we adopted the same set of dating rules. My "Good Friend" said he felt the same way. I however disgreed. We fought had amazing makeup sex and now we agree to disagree..

 

What do you guys think??

 

G

[Guest jizzdepapi]

and the ugly ones are dogs!

 

>I know women are pretty catty about that stuff...

 

very insightful.

 

jizz

[+ deej]

>What do you guys think??

 

I think there will be as many answers as there are posters here.

 

:o

 

As far as I'm concerned, if friend A wants friend B's ex, well the boy is on the market.

 

If he's an ex now, chances are good he'll be an ex again soon. Why should anyone get their panties in a bunch over it?

 

We're not lesbians here. We're just talking about sex, not china patterns.

 

And if they end up soul-mates and life-mates, GREAT! Invite me to the wedding!

 

I won't hold my breath, of course.

[Guest Merlin]

You said that your friend was nursing a broken heart, so we assume that he very much wants to get back together with the ex. Now he sees that his attempt will be harder because another "friend" is in competition with him. It seems to me that trying to hook up with a friends recent ex, knowing that the friend is heart broken about the break, is very much the same with trying to lure away a friend's boyfriend. Your friend naturally objects and resents the interference and has good reason to feel betrayed. Whether there is a rule or not is not going to change that.

[Guest man2man4u40]

>...One of the boys is nursing a broken heart. He and his Boyfriend >broke up last week. He is devastated. His boyfriend is drop dead

>Gorgeous and won't have a problem finding someone soon. Well

>one of my friends at the table said he was interested in the

>old boyfriend and in fact they have been talkin. This did

>not happen during the relationship!!!

 

I don't have a problem with a friend dating an ex but your friend's timing couldn't have been worse. Hearing how the guy was feeling after breaking up, your friend should have kept quiet at the table. The fact that the one guy is devastated, his reponse doesn't surprise me. It may have even been an overreaction. If your friend had waited a bit to talk to the guy about seeing his ex, maybe the claws wouldn't have come out.

 

And yes, there are a good number of "catty" gay men out there!

[Guest Ivanhoe]

>His boyfriend is drop dead Gorgeous and won't have a problem finding someone soon.

 

 

Well, tell your friend his OFF LIMITS...now give me his damn number. :+ :7

[Godiva]

oops...Let me add the break-up was mutual in fact long over due and they most definately will not be getting back together..

 

But tell me ..Is there some unwritten rule that I missed?? or is it some fable.

 

G

[BgMstr4u]

"We're not lesbians here. We're just talking about sex, not china patterns."

 

Actually, lesbians almost never discuss china patterns. Small pickup trucks and lumberjack shirt patterns, yes, but china? never......

[Guest jizzdepapi]

catty straight men?

 

Note rule #12. It addresses your friends' situation:

 

The Man Code

 

1. Thou shall not rent the movie "Chocolat"

 

2. Under no circumstances may two men share an umbrella.

 

3. Any man who brings a camera to a bachelor party may be legally killed and eaten by his fellow partygoers.

 

4. When you are queried by a buddy's wife, girlfriend, mother, father, priest, shrink, dentist, accountant, or dog walker, you need not and should not provide any useful information whatsoever as to his whereabouts. You are permitted to deny his very existence.

 

5. Unless he murdered someone in your immediate family, you must bail a friend out of jail within 12 hours.

 

6. You may exaggerate any anecdote told in a bar by 50 percent without recrimination; beyond that, anyone within earshot is allowed to call BULLSHIT. (Exception: When trying to pick up a girl, the allowable exaggeration rate rises to 400 percent)

 

7. If you've known a guy for more than 24 hours, his sister is off-limits forever.

 

8. The minimum amount of time you have to wait for another guy who's running late is 5 minutes. For a woman, you are required to wait 10 minutes for every point of hotness she scores on the classic 1-10 scale.

 

9. Bitching about the brand of free beer in a buddies refrigerator is forbidden. You may gripe if the temperature is unsuitable.

 

10. No man is ever required to buy a birthday present for another man. In fact, even remembering a friends birthday is strictly optional and slightly gay.

 

11. Agreeing to distract the ugly friend of a hot babe your buddy is trying to hook up with is your legal duty. Should you get carried away with your good deed and end up having Sex with the beast, your pal is forbidden to speak of it, even at your bachelor party.

 

12. Before dating a buddy's ex, you are required to ask his permission and he, in return is required to grant it.

 

13. Women who claim they "love to watch sports" must be treated as spies until they demonstrate knowledge of the game and the ability to pick a buffalo wing clean.

 

14. If a man's zipper is down, that's his problem --- you didn't see nothin'.

 

15. The universal compensation for buddies who help you move is beer.

 

16. A man must never own a cat or like his girlfriend's cat.

 

17. Your girlfriend must bond with your buddy's girlfriends within 30 minutes of meeting them. You are not required to make nice with her gal pal's significant dick-heads --- low-level sports bonding is all the law requires.

 

18. When stumbling upon other guys watching a sports event, you may always ask the score of the game in progress, but you may never ask who's playing.

 

19. When your girlfriend/wife expresses a desire to fix her whiney friend up with your pal, you may give her the go-ahead only if you'll be able to warn your buddy and give him time prepare excuses about joining the priesthood.

 

20. It is permissible to consume a fruity chick drink only when you're sunning on a tropical beach... and it's delivered by a topless supermodel... and it's free.

 

21. Unless you're in prison, never fight naked.

 

22. A man in the company of a hot, suggestively dressed woman must remain sober enough to fight.

 

23. If a buddy is outnumbered, out manned, or too drunk to fight, you must jump into the fight. Exception: If within the last 24 hours his actions have caused you to think, "What this guy needs is a good ass-whoopin", then you may sit back and enjoy.

 

24. Phrases that may NOT be uttered to another man while weight lifting:

 

"Yeah, baby, push it!" "C'mon, give me one more! Harder!" "Another set and we can hit the showers." Nice ass, are you a Sagittarius?"

 

25. Never hesitate to reach for the last beer or the last slice of pizza, but not both. That's just plain mean.

 

26. If you compliment a guy on his six-pack, you better be referring to his beer.

 

27. Never join your girlfriend/wife in dissing a buddy, except when she's withholding sex pending your response.

 

28. Never talk to a man in the bathroom unless you're on equal footing: either both urinating or both waiting in line. In all other situations, a nod is all the conversation you need.

 

29. If a buddy is already singing along to a song in the car, you may not join him...too gay.

 

30. Before allowing a drunken friend to cheat on his girl, you must attempt one intervention. If he is able to get on his feet, look you in the eye,and deliver a "F*CK OFF!" You are absolved of your of responsibility.

 

31. The morning after you and a babe who was formerly "just friends" have carnal, drunken monkey sex, the fact that you're feeling weird and guilty is no reason not to nail her again before the discussion about what a big mistake it was.

 

http://www.strangeland.com

[Guest jizzdepapi]

Nice ass! Are you a Saggitarius?

 

p.s.: I reserve the right to ignore rules #21 and #24.

 

jizz-de-sometimes-very-lucky-straight-men

[Godiva]

RE: Nice ass! Are you a Saggitarius?

 

Thanxs for the rules Jizz :-)

 

G

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

RE: Nice ass! Are you a Saggitarius?

 

Yes, I am.... and thanls.

 

;-)