cum 4 me

[phage]

>If the escort is giving you his all, he's hard, attentive, and

>successfully fulfilling whatever role you want him to play,

>and making you feel like, for the moment, you're his lover,

>isn't that really what it's all about?

 

Amen brother! As long as he’s hard…attentive enough to keep me hard…anything else is just a bonus. Oh yeah, making me feel like a lover is cool, but sometimes I really get off on those guys that are just sex machines. Nothing like a finely tuned machine…

[Traveller]

>Oh yeah, making me

>feel like a lover is cool, but sometimes I really get off on

>those guys that are just sex machines. Nothing like a

>finely tuned machine…

 

I've got a BF. Just give me those finely tuned sex machines; provided, of course, that they're extra specially, super dupery, gosh darn golly gee romantic too.

 

Later.

 

PS. And whenever I've requested up front, they've always cum.

[Guest cp8036]

<...I think that if you are worrying or concerned while having sex about who cums and who doesn't, then you aren't losing yourself in the moment and you are inhibiting yourself. That said, when I'm a bottom, I sure do love to make my top cum...but only because I want him to feel good through my technique or body...not because I'd feel that I failed or that he wasn't into me if he didn't. I also love to cum as a top for the same reason: the pleasure it gives the bottom to see/feel/taste it...>

 

Good points Rick. In non-escort life the issue of cumming is not a big deal. In relationships the sex is a totally different level (at least for myself). There is more emotion and tenderness. I probably didn't articulate things well, but if my boyfriend doesn't cum one night, or the following, I don't think about it. We have more times together and are able to know when something is wrong. A soft cock one night, or wanting to forgo a good fuck is normal for a couple over time.

 

Sometimes we seem to be quick to scorn the critical when an escort does not deliver. We are reminded they are humans, and not spigots, and so on. So, we must be understanding when someone has an "off day". To further Lucky's point, how should such issues be compensated for? For exceptional service a tip is fine, but for something that was objectively missing from the date??? (this all assumes that I, or any client, is normal, respectful, clean, etc...)

 

 

 

I think I was reasonable in what I expected. I tactfully explained what I like to do, and queried if he was ok with it all. He said "yes". I paid a fair amount in this case, and hoped for something that created the illusion to the point possible. I didn't stand over him, tapping my foot looking for an orgasm. To avoid that stress during the meeting, I advised beforehand.

 

If this person was a regular lover, then I would not expect, nor care if he came every time we had sex, as I have a lot more in our love and relationship to take in. Since this escort is not a regular sexual release for me, I cannot average the sex we have over an extended period. I had hoped for the optimum sexual response. He was hired as a professional with clearly stated wishes. Shooting a load at the end of a good fuck seems to be a common denominator in most cases of sex. The illusion should then do that.

 

I accept that cumming is not in itself a sign of good sex. However, for me it was something I liked. What is important for some, doesn't matter for others. I still think the escort, by not cumming, offered less than the full product. There was no reason such as drugs/substances that would cause this. He is very healthwise.