Do I deserve this?

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

BG,

 

"But some posters delight in posting harsh remarks that are clearly designed to illicit responses. TT is one of these people, but by far not the only one. He has proven that he can post remarks that are intelligent and/or amusing, without resorting to insult. Yet he often likes to get down in the gutter and sling insults".

 

I think this bears repeating... There are a handful of posters who seem bent on shocking, excoriating, demeaning or just plain insulting others under the guise of truth telling or frank and blunt exchange. But as all of us adults know, frank exchange does not require these tactics. It is interesting when they are 'called' on their behavior to watch their howls of being unfairly persecuted or 'censored'.

 

(To TT's faint credit he doesn't whine when 'called' , not that that mitigates his behavior. It just seems an indication that he doesn't deny his game which was apparent from day one from his chosen handle.)

[BuckyXTC]

Boston Guy,

 

As usual, your reason and insight, coupled with your elegance in stating the case at hand so well, makes me wish we had more folks like you here.

 

In recent days, I've been dealing with a real life situation involving a rather hideous betrayal by a person I counted a close friend for over twenty years. Then I make my way through the mire and the muck of threads like this one, with much of what you've characterized as "childishness" and I realize that what we have here is "not the real world", but that for some it may have sadly become so.

 

I've been reading an old book published in the early 1960's entitled "Your Inner Child of the Past" by Hugh Missildine, MD. The author's thesis is that the unresolved issues of our childhood never leave us until we attempt to deal with them. Instead, they often plague our daily lives and prevent us from finding the happiness we all seek. This book provided some of the inspiration for others like Alice Miller and John Bradshaw to further develop therapeutic approaches to addressing mental health issues, particularly in the realm of general personality disturbance and addiction problems that have been highly useful in aiding many folks who want to find a way out of those quagmires. This inner child work is amazingly powerful, and in light of some of the goings on here, helps me better understand some of the forces at play with the perennial posts of persons who seem mainly intent on insulting and wounding others.

 

I find myself wondering about some of the folks you mentioned in your post. I agree that the rating system is essentially non-productive. And I also realize that a message center of this sort is a pretty poor substitute for genuine friendships which can provide real validation of our selves. For all of the bells and whistles provided us by the world of the internet, even the antiquated telephone is a vastly superior vehicle for human interaction. When all is said and done, typed messages complete with emoticons just don't really cut it. The very fact that there is a new rise in books being written about "Internet Addiction" gives a pretty good indication that far too many folks don't have much of a life. I'm now reassessing how fruitful my own level of participation in online forums like this one really is for me as a person seeking to be a productive, useful, happy human being.

 

So thank you for your words and wise thoughts. You've given me some important things to think about.

 

BuckyXTC

[Guest TruthTeller]

>In reverse order, get a backbone: have confidence in

>yourself and in your own worth. Do not allow stupid

>comments posted in this Message Center or elsewhere to alter

>or demean the fundamental faith you have in yourself as a

>good person. When others attack, especially in venues as

>silly as this one can be, be a rock. You are who you are

>and nothing that is said here will alter that.

 

I think this point is entirely true, but compels the opposite conclusion from the one you proceed to draw. Those who get upset by things that are said here, or who feel deep "offense," or who are genuinely affected, have simply corrupted the value of anonymous Internet venues, and are expecting far more from such venues than they can provide or are intended to provide.

 

It is endlessly astounding, to me at least, that people take seriously anything that is said here, and even more astounding that anyone would allow what someone says here to affect the way they feel in real life or let it impact the way they think about themselves.

The potency and seriousness of the reactions one can provoke here is seemingly without limits, and I find this fact both amazing and amusing, which is sufficient motivation to intensify the efforts.

 

If someone permits what I say (or what anyone else here says) to affect them in some genuine way, then it's their fault for -- as you say -- relinquishing their backbone. I admit to finding such hysterical responses and inappropriate seriousness regarding things that are said here to be amusing. I also think it's amusing to ridicule the petty and insignificant things that, for some reason, people bestow with such reverence and importance, and the more seriously they take these things (and themselves), the more amusing I find it to ridicule them. In engaging in this form of mockery, perhaps the absurdity of their taking such things seriously is demonstrated. Either way, I admit to finding it incredibly entertaining.

 

Although often used as such, Internet venues -- particularly venues, such as this one, which are characterized by anonymous participation -- are NOT adequate substitutes for real life interaction. With rare exception, the people one interacts with in such forums have very fleeting involvement in your life and are highly unlikely to play a significant role in it. For that reason, their ability to impact your life -- and your willingness to allow them to do so -- ought to be very, very limited.

 

Nonetheless, anonymous Internet interaction is not devoid of value. It can offer insights and provide learning opportunities (or entertainment opportunities) which are otherwise unavailable. The anonymity which the Internet uniquely offers allows the unrestrained expression (and therefore observation) of a wide array of views, desires, drives, impulses, and reactions which people in normal circumstances feel forced to repress.

 

Because of how restrained many people are, a person can be exposed to things on the Internet which they would never hear in the absence of the shield of anonymity. That provides a very unique environment for learning about others. In all spheres of life, many people tend to hide those things about themselves which make them unique or which distinguish them or make them interesting. They restrain thoughts and impulses which would render them different or stigmatized. They repress behaviors which are "extreme," and hide desires which are unusual. What results from such constraints and repression is a homogenized, mundane, unnotable, amorphous Nothing.

 

Anonymous Internet interaction facilitates, more than virtually anything else, an environment in which these types of people are able to be more interesting than that - an environment in which they can say things they want to say but don't. The worst corruption of this environment - the biggest waste of it - is to seek to encourage such people to replicate their boring, mediocre, repressed, "civilized" (meaning constrained) behaviors and discussions which are pervasive everywhere else.

 

Those who want to impose such restraints, by converting this into a "community" with all of the same behavioral norms and mores as everywhere else, ARE seeking to use the Internet as replacements for real-life interactions (which is why they take things here so personally and seriously), rather than using it as a forum for observing and interacting with things that they don't and can't interact with elsewhere. This, more than anything, explains the extremely varying perspectives as to what this place (and many others like it) are for.

 

Part of what is interesting, and oftentimes unbearably amusing, is to create situations that people don't usually find themselves in - or to say things to them that they don't usually hear - in order to see how they react, what they do, what they think.

 

Those who see the Internet forums which they frequent as some real-life equivalent of their neighborhood (i.e., those who, in my view, corrupt its purpose) are likely to be oh-so-offen6ded and upset and disturbed by such interaction. Those who see the Internet as a place to become exposed to things and people which are otherwise inaccessible (the primary value of the Internet, in my view) are likely to enjoy such interaction and find it valuable.

 

That dichotomy in reaction - offense v. amusement, deep concern v. indifference - is very much evident here, and is almost exclusively based on the view one has as to what the purpose of this place is, and what the purpose is generally of anonymous Internet venues.

 

Nothing that happens here, or is said here, ought to affect anyone's life (other than to provide insight or amusement), but - obviously - it does. As you point out, it's because their self-perception is dependent upon the assessments of others. I think it's their obligation to develop a backbone (which, incidentally, being mocked can facilitate). It is not the obligation of those who have backbones to limit their behavior so as to accommodate the inexcusable fragility of others.

[Guest jeffOH]

TT

 

>form of mockery, perhaps the absurdity of their taking such

>things seriously is demonstrated. Either way, I admit to

>finding it incredibly entertaining.

 

Thanks for the enlightenment TT. You are obviously hold yourself in such high regard to be the one to mock us so we may learn something about ourselves. Thanks, but I don't need help such as yours. What

amuses me is your justification for your behavior. You really come off

as being full of condescension and contempt. I'm not going to be a part of your "amusement", because I DON'T take anything you say seriously. If you find amusement in this, I guess you'll find it just as amusing when the tables are turned. We've seen how you respond. You aren't the only one who can play that game.

 

Jeff4hire@aol.com

[Guest Konga]

Only room for one Bickerstaff

 

So this guy's invitation for another poster to go slit his own throat was really a Swiftian gag which we should all learn from? Well I never...

[phage]

As a rather dispassionate third party here, can I point out that TT is basically correct. How can anyone get upset over something said on an internet message board? A grown man with even a reasonably well developed ego and self confidence should be able to laugh off anything written here. (That is not an open invitation to flame me.) Enjoy the banter. Enjoy the shocking things you would never hear in the real world. And keep it all in perspective.

 

The only thing I think TT may not be thinking about is that Jeff, Rick Munroe, Zach DC and the other escorts who post here are not nearly as anonymous as the rest of us. Yes, they are probably using escort names, but they still have identities with real faces and real incomes associated with them. That means that comments directed at them take on a much more real and personal nature.

 

How would any of us truly anonymous posters feel if there were a section containing our picture, location, phone number, and sexual habits? No matter what the stage name…we would tend to take things more personally.

[Guest Fin Fang Foom]

RE: Stop This Thead Already

 

>FFF, you're SO fucking ignorant and you apparently think

>everyone else is also. You Totally gave yourself away when I

>sent you a message to your inbox addressing you by the name

>"JASON"(please note:

>I used 1st name ONLY)and there are quite a few Jasons

>reviewed on this site. You wrote back saying that you were

>NOT Jason Coxx!! Who said you were? You that's who. YOU

>confirmed what I already knew.

 

If stupidity were a crime, you'd be serving a life term in solitary confinement.

 

This may come as a shock to you, but there have been others BEFORE you who have wondered if JC and I were the same person, so when you bothered me with your email, the logical leap for me was to assume you were referring to Jason Coxx since OTHERS had asked about that.

 

I can see why you've chosen prostitution as a career and not detective work.

 

Wearily yours,

 

FFF

[Bilbo]

RE: Stop This Thead Already

 

Not sure why I'm feeling so arguamentative tonight or I'd duck this entirely and so easily. But, FFF, noone needs to look at any emails or inbox notes. You yourself not more than 2 - 3 weeks ago on a post on the open threads carefully explained your actions, and, to me, they sounded like the actions of a .. oh, now I'm so upset I can't remember the word .. an unwelcome person who follows another physically as well as electronically. Because of your explanation, I can nearly sympathisize with you, but IMHO you really do need to come clean with the person you're following. Only then can you successfully put an end to this uncomfortable part of your life.

 

Thank you, Madame Zelda! - There, I said it for you.

[Guest CraigSF39]

RE: Stop This Thead Already

 

> You yourself not more

>than 2 - 3 weeks ago on a post on the open threads carefully

>explained your actions, and, to me, they sounded like the

>actions of a .. oh, now I'm so upset I can't remember the

>word .. an unwelcome person who follows another physically

>as well as electronically.

 

I believe "stalker" is the word you're looking for.

[Guest CTMUSH]

RE: Stop This Thead Already

 

I said I would not post here again, but I smell a rat ……

I think FFF has put his cards on the table and deserves a response. What about it Hooboy?

As you all may or may not know (check the reviews on this site), I see Jason Coxx regularly. I also happen to know FFF. And, I can assure you they are not the same person.

Hooboy, I am on vacation from 11/3 through 11/19. But, when I return, I would be happy to come from my home in Connecticut and meet you in NYC face to face with Jason. We can then call FFF, with Jason in front of you. Ask FFF whatever, so you are satisfied they are not one in the same person.

But this offer comes at a cost. I expect a public apology on this board from you and the big mouth in Ohio.

My email is CTMUSH@EXCITE.com.

[Guest Joey Ciccone]

RE: Talkin' sense

 

>...they still have identities with real faces and real incomes associated with them. That means that comments directed at them take on a much more real and personal nature.

How would any of us truly anonymous posters feel if there were a section containing our picture, location, phone number, and sexual habits? No matter what the stage name…we would tend to take things more personally.<

 

excellent observations

[Guest jeffOH]

RE: Stop This Thead Already

 

>I said I would not post here again, but I smell a rat ……

>I think FFF has put his cards on the table and deserves a

>response. What about it Hooboy?

>As you all may or may not know (check the reviews on this

>site), I see Jason Coxx regularly. I also happen to know

>FFF. And, I can assure you they are not the same person.

>Hooboy, I am on vacation from 11/3 through 11/19. But, when

>I return, I would be happy to come from my home in

>Connecticut and meet you in NYC face to face with Jason. We

>can then call FFF, with Jason in front of you. Ask FFF

>whatever, so you are satisfied they are not one in the same

>person.

>But this offer comes at a cost. I expect a public apology

>on this board from you and the big mouth in Ohio.

>My email is CTMUSH@EXCITE.com.

 

Forget it mushmouth. No apology forthcoming. FFF has attacked me enough and not once uttered an apology. At this point it really doesn't matter who FFF is. He's annoying as fuck and I'll annoy him right back ANY way I can. So, meet face to face with Hooboy, FFF can

go to hell for all I care, whether he's Jason Coxx or not, he's still

a hate-ridden individual. Could you be yet another name Jason/FFF is posting under mushmouth? Funny you coming to his defense out of nowhere(5 posts?), but that's just a coincidence, isn't it?

 

Oh, why not have Jason Coxx and FFF together at the same time? Why the

phone call, huh? It's even more odd that you would "know" both of them.

 

Jeff4hire@aol.com

[Guest jeffOH]

RE: Stop This Thead Already

 

>I said I would not post here again, but I smell a rat ……

>I think FFF has put his cards on the table and deserves a

>response. What about it Hooboy?

>As you all may or may not know (check the reviews on this

>site), I see Jason Coxx regularly. I also happen to know

>FFF. And, I can assure you they are not the same person.

>Hooboy, I am on vacation from 11/3 through 11/19. But, when

>I return, I would be happy to come from my home in

>Connecticut and meet you in NYC face to face with Jason. We

>can then call FFF, with Jason in front of you. Ask FFF

>whatever, so you are satisfied they are not one in the same

>person.

>But this offer comes at a cost. I expect a public apology

>on this board from you and the big mouth in Ohio.

>My email is CTMUSH@EXCITE.com.

 

Quote from CTMUSH review of Jason Coxx:

 

"I just had another date with Jason and normally wouldn't do a review, because I reviewed him last year, but the review just posted for him is so preposterous I felt I had to respond. Read this review and the others and you will very quickly realize this person is a jerk. Jason is the only escort I have seen more than twice and the only one I have ever taken on vacation."

 

Uh mushy, you say you reviewed Jason last year, exactly when was that

and where's the review. Also, you say you've submitted 3 reviews, but

a search turns up only one. Did you post under another name perhaps?

 

A search under your name turns up quite a few references to Mr. Coxx.

Are you his PR person or are you getting a kickback? Just checking your credibility mushy, nothing personal. If anybody else is interested, just do a search using search feature in the message center...rather interesting. Also, FFF seems to bring up Jason Coxx's name quite often in the same threads. Jason and FFF sound so much alike at time it gives me the "heebie geebies". How's that for detective work FFF...stay tuned boys and girls.

 

Jeff4hire@aol.com

[Guest jeffOH]

RE: Stop This Thead Already

 

How's that for detective work

>FFF...stay tuned boys and girls.

>

>Jeff4hire@aol.com

 

Here's another little "co-inki-dink" kids.

 

Another one besides "heebie geebies" is:

 

"timeshare at the gym". On Jason's website (which is oddly down right now), he said on his BIO page that he has what amounts to a "timeshare at the gym". FFF uses that exact same phrase in his lengthy reply post. Great minds think alike you say...me thinks NOT!

 

Investigatingly yours,

 

Jeff4hire@aol.com

[Guest Jason Coxx]

RE: JASON COXX EXPLAINS IT ALL

 

I have stayed out of this stupid argument long enough!

 

First - I would like to state that I am NOT Fin Fang Foom. I know who he is but he and I are not the same person. FFF has been a friend of mine for many years and I stay with him when I am in NYC. A lot of this confusion may have started because at times we sound alike. This is because FFF has assisted me when I needed help writing a response to a negative review that I have received. I am not the best writer and I needed some help. 

 

Second - Hooboy you claim to be investigating if FFF and I are the same person. If you need help finding out who FFF is, why don't you just do a search in the top frame of your website for "Fin Fang Foom". You will see three reviews that FFF posted. Call each of these three escorts and ask them if I have ever hired them. The answer will be NO. They know exactly who FFF is. It is up to them if they want to tell you who FFF is, but they will for sure be able to tell you that FFF is 100% for sure not me.

 

Third - I would like to talk about Rick Monroe and FFF. This all started because I would not tell Rick Monroe who FFF was. This past summer I met Rick and his boyfriend Derek. At this meeting he asked me if I knew who FFF was and I told him yes but I could not tell him because I promised FFF that I would keep his identity a secret. At this time Rick told me that FFF was bugging him and asked me to tell him to stop. I relayed the info to FFF and I thought that was the end of it. Later that summer I met Rick and Derek on Fire Island and they again asked me if I could tell him who FFF is. I could not tell him and that was the last I heard from Rick. (Rick - This summer at FI if you had looked right behind you on the bench you would have seen FFF)

 

Fourth - I would like to address the rumors that JeffOH has been spreading about me for the past couple of weeks and what Hooboy has inappropriately hinted at. People have been hinting to the fact that I am a Drug Addict. I have used drugs, including crystal, in the past. Two years ago I went to rehab to clean up my life and have since been in NA and AA. Fin Fang Foom has been a big help in my sobriety. While I have not been perfect all the time, I am working one day at a time to clean up my life. I go each week to therapy and for drug screenings and attend a few meetings each week. I am very upset with Rick Monroe for telling Hooboy about our private conversation and NO I never asked Rick to buy drugs! I thought that when I spoke with him about my past life I was doing so in confidence, I guess I was wrong. (By the way Rick and Derek you are not such saints yourselves and to JeffOH you may have stopped drinking 13 years ago but you do not sound sober)

 

I am very upset that I had to be drawn into this but I was not going to break my promise to FFF and tell Rick or Hooboy who he is. You can all call me a liar and say that Fin Fang Foom and I are the same person but this is just not true.

 

Jason Coxx

jason@jasoncoxx.com

917-242-8307

[+ Lucky]

RE: JASON COXX EXPLAINS IT ALL

 

Hmmm, that was well-written!

[Guest jeffOH]

RE: JASON COXX EXPLAINS IT ALL

 

>Hmmm, that was well-written!

 

Of course it was well-written, FFF must have "helped" on this post also. My, how helpful FFF is.

 

Sounds like FFF long rambling explanation of a couple weeks ago.

I love hearing the excuses. But, then again I was always a big fiction fan.}>

 

I hope you are truly off the crystal. I know what addiction is about.

Whether you think I "sound sober" or not is irrelevant. I know I am and that's all that matters.

 

Jeff4hire@aol.com:-)

[Guest JT]

Questions...

 

>Third - I would like to talk about Rick Monroe and FFF. This

>all started because I would not tell Rick Monroe who FFF

>was. This past summer I met Rick and his boyfriend Derek. At

>this meeting he asked me if I knew who FFF was and I told

>him yes but I could not tell him because I promised FFF that

>I would keep his identity a secret. At this time Rick told

>me that FFF was bugging him and asked me to tell him to

>stop. I relayed the info to FFF and I thought that was the

>end of it. Later that summer I met Rick and Derek on Fire

>Island and they again asked me if I could tell him who FFF

>is. I could not tell him and that was the last I heard from

>Rick. (Rick - This summer at FI if you had looked right

>behind you on the bench you would have seen FFF)

 

With all due respect Jason, I have some questions and I'm wondering whether you would mind sharing your thoughts on them with us.

 

According to what you wrote above, Rick approached you twice in the past summer to find out who FFF is. During the first encounter, he asked you to tell FFF to stop "bugging" (described as "physical- and cyber-stalking' by others) him. Did you at the time feel that Rick was genuinely concerned about FFF's behaviour toward him? If you did, were you surprised that Rick asked you again about FFF's identity later on that summer after you have asked your "friend" FFF to stop bothering Rick? Could Rick be still genuinely concerned about being "bugged" (or "stalked") at the time (i.e. FFF had not stopped)?

 

 

JT

(P.S. BTW, your last post was very well-written)

[Guest jeffOH]

RE: JASON COXX EXPLAINS IT ALL

 

"Second - Hooboy you claim to be investigating if FFF and I are the same person. If you need help finding out who FFF is, why don't you just do a search in the top frame of your website for "Fin Fang Foom". You will see three reviews that FFF posted. Call each of these three escorts and ask them if I have ever hired them. The answer will be NO. They know exactly who FFF is. It is up to them if they want to tell you who FFF is, but they will for sure be able to tell you that FFF is 100% for sure not me."

 

Well, I did a search which produced 3, count 'em 3 reviews, but FFF says on one review he's submitted 4 and on another 5 or more. What's up with that FANG. Besides, it would be quite easy to pick some escorts at random and submit reviews that are rather vague. I don't know who most of the guys are that have reviewed me. Like these escorts are going to remember anyway. Means nothing.

 

Jeff4hire@aol.com

[Guest jeffOH]

RE: Stop This Thead Already

 

>This may come as a shock to you, but there have been others

>BEFORE you who have wondered if JC and I were the same

>person, so when you bothered me with your email, the logical

>leap for me was to assume you were referring to Jason Coxx

>since OTHERS had asked about that.

>

>I can see why you've chosen prostitution as a career and not

>detective work.

>

>Wearily yours,

>

>FFF

 

Always there with the pat explanation, aren't you Fang?

 

Doubtingly yours,

 

Jeff4hire@aol.com}>

[Guest Jason Coxx]

RE: Questions...

 

>Did you at the time feel that Rick was genuinely concerned

>about FFF's behaviour toward him? If you did, were you

>surprised that Rick asked you again about FFF's identity

>later on that summer after you have asked your "friend"

>FFF to stop bothering Rick? Could Rick be still

>genuinely concerned about being "bugged" (or "stalked") at

>the time (i.e. FFF had not stopped)?

 

This past summer the only thing that I thought Rick Monroe was genuinely concerned about was finding out who FFF is. Once I made it clear to him that I was not going to tell him I never heard from Rick again. When Rick talked to me, he never focused on what FFF was saying or doing to him, just that he really wanted to know who FFF was.

 

Whether or not Rick is still genuinely concerned about being "Bugged" by FFF, it does not excuse the fact that Rick has privately spread rummers about me to people on this message board including Hooboy who then went on to post them. Everything I spoke to Rick about including my past drug use I told him not to repeat and expected him to keep it a secret. I thought that Rick Monroe was a great guy when I met him this past summer but I guess I was wrong.

 

Jason Coxx

jason@jasoncoxx.com

917-242-8307

[Guest JT]

RE: Questions...

 

>>Did you at the time feel that Rick was genuinely concerned

>>about FFF's behaviour toward him? If you did, were you

>>surprised that Rick asked you again about FFF's identity

>>later on that summer after you have asked your "friend"

>>FFF to stop bothering Rick? Could Rick be still

>>genuinely concerned about being "bugged" (or "stalked") at

>>the time (i.e. FFF had not stopped)?

 

>This past summer the only thing that I thought Rick Monroe

>was genuinely concerned about was finding out who FFF is.

>Once I made it clear to him that I was not going to tell him

>I never heard from Rick again. When Rick talked to me, he

>never focused on what FFF was saying or doing to him, just

>that he really wanted to know who FFF was.

 

Hi Jason,

 

You did indicate in your previous post (as quoted below) that Rick asked you to tell FFF to stop "bugging" him and you made it clear that you did.

 

"At this time Rick told me that FFF was bugging him and asked me to tell him to stop. I relayed the info to FFF and I thought that was the end of it."

 

Yet Rick asked you again later last summer who FFF is. Perhaps Rick really wanted to find out who FFF is. But if a person has been stalking you in real life and cyber space, would you want to find out who the stalker is? The primary question remains whether or not FFF were stalking Rick at the time. Unfortunately, your reply does not seem to have helped us answer that question. One major omission (intentional or unintentional) --- your posts did not deny that FFF was "bugging" Rick.

 

Being a third party in this heated discussion, I've been trying to remain as objective as possible. Personally I find the issue of stalking a much more serious matter than whether or not someone is using multiple alias to post in the MC.

 

JT

(P.S. Of course, I can understand where your frustration is coming from if the suggestion that you and FFF are the same person is not true.)

[Guest pickwick]

>I think this point is entirely true, but compels the

>opposite conclusion from the one you proceed to draw. Those

>who get upset by things that are said here, or who feel deep

>"offense," or who are genuinely affected, have simply

>corrupted the value of anonymous Internet venues, and are

>expecting far more from such venues than they can provide or

>are intended to provide.

 

 

TT,

 

Since I have been told by one or two of the flakier denizens of this message board that I am you, I would like to take this opportunity to congratulate myself on an excellent post, excerpted in part above. This post shows my superior reasonabing ability, perspicacity and command of the English language. I hope to see many more such posts from me in the future.

 

P.

[Guest Jason Coxx]

RE: Questions...

 

>The primary question remains whether or not FFF were stalking Rick

>at the time. Unfortunately, your reply does not seem to have

>helped us answer that question. One major omission

>(intentional or unintentional) --- your posts did not deny

>that FFF was "bugging" Rick.

 

I do not deny the fact that FFF may have been stalking Rick but you will have to ask Rick and FFF that question because I do not know exactly what FFF said to Rick. The only thing that I was told by Rick was that FFF was bugging him and he wanted to know who it was so that he could confront him. I would not provide Rick that info and I haven't heard from him again since the summer.

 

Jason Coxx

jason@jasoncoxx.com

917-242-8307

[Guest Fin Fang Foom]

STALKING!!!!!!!!!!

 

>Could Rick be still

>genuinely concerned about being "bugged" (or "stalked") at

>the time (i.e. FFF had not stopped)?

 

Let me try once again for those who missed it.

 

The idea that I was/am "stalking" Rick is so ludicrous that it would be funny if some people didn't actually think it's true.

 

First off, let me address something I haven't addressed before. Many of you find Rick, sexually, to be the second coming. I do not. When I first met Rick he was a little thick around the middle, his dick wasn't very big and I found his cocksucking abilities to be average at best. (Just because someone says they're a "deep expert" doesn't mean they're any good at it.) What appealed to me about Rick was his sense of humor and I enjoyed talking to him and laughing. Also, I found Rick to be a pig (something he asked me to stop referring to him as on the message board because he was concerned about his "reputation"[!], and I did) which is always a plus in my book. :-) If I wanted to "stalk" someone it sure as hell wouldn't be Rick Munroe. (Give me a break.)

 

So, when I discovered he was a whore on this website I thought it would be a goof to mention him at times since I knew him. To correct any misimpression, I NEVER emailed him at that time. After a couple of months he finally sent me a message board email asking who I was and how I knew him. FINALLY, I was "speaking" to him directly and I thought I would string him along just a little longer and probably tell him the next time I saw him. I'm sure NONE OF YOU on AOL EVER did that to a friend you saw online but they didn't know your screen name! NO!! NEVER!!

 

At this point, no one was mad at me.

 

Yet.

 

Time went on and I didn't really say much about him. I then saw him out at Fire Island one weekend while Jason and I were out there. Jason ran over and chatted with him while I sat under that shelter thing they've built in the harbor. It was from THAT weekend that I did my posting about the escorts I saw that weekend. I mentioned I saw Michael Lucas, that blond guy who does massages and escorts (I can't remember his name, Trey or something), someone else, and Rick and Derek. Big fucking deal. Ooooooooooooooo, that's really STALKING isn't it?

 

As an aside, one thing that Jason didn't mention in his post: one day Jason was over at Rick's apartment and I called Jason on his cellphone (I had no idea he was at Rick's) and spoke to Jason after he and Rick had finished playing around. THAT'S how Rick knew Jason and I were friends. That was also the day that Jason told Rick about his drug issues and my hat is off to Jason that, although Rick had a nice supply of "party favors" in a drawer in his bedroom, Jason didn't suggest they "party".

 

Back to the story.........after the Fire Island weekend "thing", I thought it would be funny to actually send Rick ONE email from a name I created just for him on AOL. I told him in the email, something to the effect, that I had been sitting under that shelter thing while he and Derek were talking to Jason. It pissed him off, I never sent him another one, I deleted the name, and I stopped referring to him in my posts since he was annoyed. Oooooooooooooooo, that's really STALKING isn't it?

 

Some time later, Rick started "stalking" me (if you will) by sending me insulting message board emails demanding to know who I am. Since I wouldn't tell him, I guess he's decided to ratchet up the harassment by enlisting HooBoy in his mission. (And a pretty boring and petty mission at that.)

 

That's it boys and girls. THAT'S my history of "STALKING" Rick Munroe. Pretty creepy huh? Pretty scary huh? Very "Klute" huh? Ooooooooooooooooooooo

 

It was nothing more than a harmless goof that Rick got his panties in a twist over.

 

The bottom line is that Rick wants to know who I am because he can't figure it out on his own. I can understand that. However, because things turned nasty about me on this board, I feel it's the wise thing to keep that little secret to myself. I killed the whole "Rick thing" long ago, but like some killer in a slasher movie, it keeps coming back to life.

 

A final word about Jason Coxx.

 

Jason has been silent all this time because I told him to let me handle it and not get involved because the guys who were causing the stink didn't really matter in the larger picture, who gives a shit what a couple people say about you? Does the opinion of the aging, bald Jeff in Ohio really have any impact on anyone's life? No. Does it really matter that Rick Munroe has gotten all pissy about a harmless prank? No. However, it DOES matter that some people, with the tacit approval of HooBoy, begin to defame someone whose name we ACTUALLY KNOW - Jason Coxx. My name is a moniker. People don't know who I am. They do know Jason and the health of his business is predicated on his reputation and people, just to get at me, have now begun dumping on Jason. Because of THAT I agreed with Jason that it was time for him to address all of this head-on.

 

For those of you who thought I helped him write it, you're wrong. He sent it to me before he submitted it to see what I thought (since it involved me) and I said I thought it was great, send it. But there will of course be those who aren't satisfied with it and they'll treat this whole subject as though it were a rolled up rag and they're rambunctious puppies.

 

One final thing: at some point, I'll probably tell Rick in person who I am. When? I don't know. It will be one of those things where I'll know the timing is exactly right and blurt it out. I'm sure he will be surprised and more than likely apologetic. People can be really "tough" on this board because of the safety of the anonymity but if someone is face-to-face with a person, they tend to melt. Rick thinks he's tough. He's not. I still think he's funny and clever. However, because he's chosen to publicly reveal a confidence and trash Jason in the process to get to me, I think he's also untrustworthy, vindictive and self-centered.

 

Those of you who hire Rick might want to keep that in mind in the future.

 

There's only one thing worse than a cocksucking whore with a small mouth: a whore with a big mouth.

 

Simply yours,

 

FFF