What to do when your favorite escort retires

[ariadne1880]

Just a couple of months ago my favorite NYC escort -- Totaltpjohn -- retired from the business. No warning. Just gone. He was the 2nd guy I hired in NYC and after meeting him, almost no one could match up.

 

He had a beautiful body and his hazel eyes were unbelievably dreamy. His boyishly handsome face was a stunner. As for performance, well, it didn't get any better.

 

He was escorting because he had lost his day job and it was something he could do. As he said "I got lucky. I had a face and body to fall back on. I know other guys who are practically on the street because they can't do this."

 

So, of course, he could leave at any point but still I found it kind of sad. What is one to do?

 

Happy New Year!

 

Mark

[seaboy4hire]

That sucks! Sorry to hear about your favorite retiring but sometimes people have to move on. You could if you still have a phone number or email address let him know that if he is up for some extra cash see if he'd still see you. Might be a long shot but worth the try.

 

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Greg

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[JT Brooklyn]

ariadne. Sorry to hear you found a Fav and lost a Fav.

 

But be Thankful you're not in Kansas. NYC is one of the Best place's to find a New Fav!

 

At least you now know, what type of guy does it for you! Happy Hunting!

[+ Charlie]

Greg is right. After my favorite retired, I contacted him again to say I was coming to town, and he responded that he was still available for old times sake. It can't hurt to try.

[ariadne1880]

Ah, yes, and after two years of hiring I've still not found anyone who is quite his "type." Lots of great guys out there but there is no accounting for chemistry. There was some indefinable quality about "John." The whole way the package came together along with a sexy voice and all and those eyes ... boy, those eyes. He had this choirboy/cherub kind of look that was so sweet and, yet, you could tell there was that element of "toughness" or "steel" in his personality. It's a killer combo.

 

I always thought he was someone it would be great to be friends with (and I've become friends with a couple of guys I've hired over the years) but you could sense -- without asking -- that that wasn't possible with "John." He had an elusive quality in that respect which is probably what made him even more attractive.

 

We talked quite a bit and it was obvious we had similar backgrounds (schools, ethnicity, social circles, etc.) and that would have made it even more awkward if we had become friends. No one -- except his roommate -- knew he was escorting and so ...

 

I remember him telling me once that he ran into someone who had hired him on the street and he just kept on walking and didn't say a word to the guy. I got the hint.

 

So, alas, "John" is no more. I hope he's found a wonderful job and is able to make a living again in NYC. With guys like this, as a client, all one really wishes for you is that they can make it without having to do this for the rest of their lives. I sincerely hope he's happy.

 

Mark

[ariadne1880]

Yes, I've e-mailed him. Haven't heard back. Me suspects he's the type of guy to put this completely behind him and have no contact.

 

This is the 3rd time this has happened in the past couple of months. There were two guys in Indy -- "Musclesmark" and "Musclebill4u" -- both of whom "retired" with no warning. One disabled his e-mail and doesn't return phone calls. The other just doesn't respond at all.

 

I'm not sure how escorts feel about this but I think it would be nice if -- after you retire -- you at least acknowledge the e-mail and say "thanks but I'm retired" now. The "no response" is really kind of unfortunate.

 

Happy New Year!

 

Mark

[JT Brooklyn]

ariadne..Exactly! The Best Deserve The Best after they have left "The Wonerful World of Working Guys"!

 

Putting the past "Totally" in the past, usually means cutting all ties to it! Then again that can go for alot in Life in general! ;-)

[Guest carter07]

Had the same experience last year with a great guy here in Illinois. I could see him only twice a year, and the last time was really great and he was so affectionate and we exchanged e-mails and he said to stay in touch, but when I tried to contact him again, both e-mail and cell were gone. Yes, I wish him well. He was Honduran and had family in the area, so perhaps his situation changed. But, ah, the fond memories ...

[stevekorgman]

Both of the escorts you mention live in the central Indiana area. I am familiar with MusclesMark - he decided to pursue a different line of work (day job) in another city, so the escorting income was no longer needed. Alas, I was surprised by his sudden departure and he has not responded to my emails as well. He was outstanding - sorry to see him go, but also respect his wishes to simply retire. As far as "Bill" - he disappeared from the escort sites as well, but has recently reappeared on Manhunt.net in the Indiana section using a similar name. He's buzzed his hair, and those abs are still are gorgeous as ever. Not sure what his escort status is. Both are quality men. I guess we just have to keep searching for their replacements.

[rentingdad]

I'm responding to this post from a different angle. About 6 months ago I took a very popular escort and former gaiety dancer "off the market" with an exclusive full time paid arrangement. He's not seeing any clients besides me -- so far it's working great.

 

However, he continues to get dozens of phone calls and hundreds of emails from guys he's seen in the past or who want to hire him for the first time - after he tells them he's retired they continue to pester him time after time.

 

He took the opposite tact than the guys you've described - answered the emails and calls at first and explained he was retired - but is now to the point where he's ready to disable his email and get rid of his "business" phone.

 

Perhaps it's easier to just disappear.

[ariadne1880]

I suppose there is no easy answer. But I was a good client and all I've asked for is for the former escort to say "sorry, I'm retired now." When he does that, I would have no problem. But in the interim, I don't actually know what has happened. And I think that's rude. In my business, I would never do that with a client and since I'm in management consulting it's not that far off ....

 

By the way, "totaltpjohn" sent me a short e-mail today telling me that he is indeed retired and wishing me well. There was no opening for any follow-up so, for me, I wished him well and told him if he ever wants to get in touch he has my number. I think that's the way to do it.

 

Mark