Uh Oh...

[2hard2tame]

Well, a well known user of this board should know that when setting up an appointment with an escort, that if he cannot make it to give a call, if not a LEAST an email.

 

It wouldn't be so bad, had said escort wasn't turning down several others for the allotted time.

 

Now, I don't know if this was some silly test, or what the purpose was, but one has to draw the line and messing with a man's income.

At the very least, you should have called or emailed to cancel.

 

I will not name names, as that is something I refuse to do, but you know who you are.

 

Why even say something? Because if an escort ever doesnt show up, he gets a bad review and people talking bad about him. So why cannot an escort note when a client shafts him?(in the totally bad way) *wink

 

 

KK, my rant is done.

[2hard2tame]

*chirp chirp

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

You've got a good point... Let's hope that 'he' knows who 'he' is and hopefully you two can figure things out provately.

 

Oh god. I'm using 'air quotes' now. *somberly shakes head*

 

 

 

BN

[Guest O solo mio]

Did you attempt to call or email him to see if he's all right?

[2hard2tame]

But of course:)

[Guest n2colour]

Under the circumstances, I'd be very surprised if you hadn't (but I guess one should never assume).

[+ Lucky]

"It seems to me that you've said what needed to be said, no more or less."

 

Well,I wonder about that. For what reason was a completely private nmatter posted here? Why not just email these thoughts to the client? Why bring the rest of us in, especially if he is going to tease us with the hint of who the person was but not tell us?

 

Again, why post this at all? I think he either said a lot less than needed to be said, or a lot more.

[Guest n2colour]

On second thought, you're right. Time to use that handy-dandy editing feature, I guess.

 

Your friend,

Caspar Milquetoast

[2hard2tame]

>"It seems to me that you've said what needed to be said, no

>more or less."

>

>Well,I wonder about that. For what reason was a completely

>private nmatter posted here? Why not just email these thoughts

>to the client? Why bring the rest of us in, especially if he

>is going to tease us with the hint of who the person was but

>not tell us?

>

>Again, why post this at all? I think he either said a lot less

>than needed to be said, or a lot more.

 

 

 

Why even say something? Because if an escort ever doesnt show up, he gets a bad review and people talking bad about him. So why cannot an escort note when a client shafts him?(in the totally bad way) *wink

[augustman]

I find it a fair subject to bring up in a forum. How else is the escort to bring up the subject if not here? It is as valid as client discussing why he cancelled an appt at the last minute and expecting the escort to reschedule. That was a recent post.

[+ Lucky]

I didn't say it wasn't fair to bring up. But if he is going to, I said he didn't say enough. So if you aren't going to say enough, why say anything?

Back to square one...

[2hard2tame]

>I didn't say it wasn't fair to bring up. But if he is going

>to, I said he didn't say enough. So if you aren't going to say

>enough, why say anything?

>Back to square one...

 

 

The first time you missed it, I was pretty cool. But this whole "you not reading and jumping to conclusions" is kinda sad.

 

 

I did it to vent.

 

[2hard2tame]

Heres the email I received this morning, presumably after he saw this.

 

 

 

 

 

Hi-

 

Apologies for backing down. I really don't have the slightest problem with what you said and how you said it. But it wasn't worth an argument to me at the moment, and, although I rarely posted even in my previous incarnation here, I've been reading these boards for years and know how touchy the clients here get at the least hint of what they fear may be some kind of exposure. (Not that I believe for a moment that THAT was on your mind - as you said.)

 

If I ever get back out to DC, I would definitely like to take a detour to Baltimore and make up for it in some way (gee - I wonder how I could manage that ;-) And buy you dinner, too. Or dessert. Or maybe breakfast ;-)

 

Take care!

[skibum]

Hey Hard-

 

You should be pissed that this guy was a no show. There's a site for DC area escorts you should be aware of called "Don't Fuck with Us". If you're still not happy with his "apology", this is a place you can id him for other escorts:

 

http://www.blacklistednow.blogspot.com/

[2hard2tame]

>Hey Hard-

>

>You should be pissed that this guy was a no show. There's a

>site for DC area escorts you should be aware of called "Don't

>Fuck with Us". If you're still not happy with his "apology",

>this is a place you can id him for other escorts:

>

>http://www.blacklistednow.blogspot.com/

>

>

 

 

I know, its a wonderful resource. he is now added. Funny thing is, that he uses the same sig in his yahoo email's as he does on here.

 

 

PS his name,, phone number and email have been added.

 

The worst thing about this whole deal is that I put off a long time client of mine, because I had already made arrangements with this gentleman. I am a firm believer if you say you will be somewhere, hell better freeze or else ill be there.

 

Anywho, let this be fair warning and thus the thread dies.

[+ Tygerscent]

RE: Trouble in DC???

 

Hmmmm... this sounds oddly familiar. I was out in the DC area and had two bad experiences there. One where the Client had asked me to set up and pay for the hotel with promise of reimbursement.

Although he was enthusiastic for weeks about meeting, he never showed up or called and I was not able to get thru to him via email or phone the day of dispite repeated tries, until some nearly three hours beyond our appointment. I was stuck with the hotel bill.

The other Client was from Virginia. He hired me for an overnight after nearly a month's planning. In spite several discussions/emails/visits to my website for rates and pix he becomes forgetful. After rather passionate overnight session, (along with comments to me of how much he enjoyed out time together), and in the midst of having to catch a train to NYC, (he offered to drive me to the train station in DC), he says he is unaware of my rates, is not prepared to pay me, owns no bank card to use at an ATM and there is no bank in DC he can go to. He offered to drive back to Virginia to get his check book or go to the bank there and then drive back to DC to pay me. I would have, however, missed my train to NYC. His request for my home addie was not an option given several uncomfortable stalking incidences over the past two years.

Neither of these guys seem to be available for comments or even say "Hi"~

There IS a Client who hires me in DC though, and he is a Great Guy, !!! Is there a Good Client listing place? I would like to give him a good review! Give other Clients some good reviews as well!