An Escort for a Weekend

[rocky]

Hey guys, Rocky's back..I know who cares. Look, need some

advice. I've hired escorts before for nights and weekends,

usually someone I've been with for awhile. Well when I was

in Florida I met this great guy and out of the blue

I said what about flying to upstate NY for a weekend, well

he is doing that. I'm asking escorts and others since

I'm very nervous (we spent two one-two hour sessions

together) what should I do to make this a smooth time?

He's about 25 years younger, very cuddly, but we haven't

spent the time together to know each other's peculiar

activities whether sleeping, morning, etc. He's very

cool just saying, I'm here for you..I'm going what should

I do next? I've said alot of things here, lookingfor

help, I can't parade him around town, I'm not out,

sleeping all weekend isnt' great, what did I get myself

into? Thanks Rocky.

[Scorpio]

Have you ever flown someone to visit you in upstate New York before? If so, then I can’t imagine that this would be any different than your other weekend experiences. If not, then maybe you’re just panicking about having someone on your home turf where you’re not out.

 

I’ve hired guys for 3 and 4 day weekends that I’ve never met before based solely on their reviews here and never encountered any problems. You at least have spent several hours with him, so it should go well. Especially since you were excited enough about him to make the offer in the first place. Perhaps you’re just having second thoughts about what may have been a spontaneous but unintended invitation. If so, perhaps you should consider rescheduling. But if you’re just uneasy about having him on your home turf, do what I do get a hotel room somewhere nearby and treat it like a mini vacation. Try not to over analyze it too much and relax. Ask him whatever questions you would normally ask your weekend hires and take it from there.

 

Now, if you care to share this guys name privately that would be great. I’m in Florida and would be interested in meeting someone as nice as this guy seems to be. Then may be I wouldn’t have to fly guys in for the weekend.

[rocky]

Scorpio, I'm glad to share his name privately if you'd

provide me with information on how to do so, he's from

Tampa. I'm not worried about having someone in my

house but usually for longer term visits I've been

somewhere nice such as Florida, NYC, etc. Upstate NY

isn't much of a place to show off plus I have to be

discreet, can't just parade the young man around town

saying, look friends who I have. I do plan on spending

one night out of town. The other issue is I'm 52 and

he's mid twenties, I know I can't keep up with him..

Rocky

[Lookin]

How about spending the first day with you as the host deciding what to do, and the next day with him pretending to be the host and calling the shots. Upstate New York is a beautiful place, and he might get you off the beaten path. Or some such.

 

Would love to hear how it turns out.

[rocky]

Thanks to all of you. I was hoping for more responses but

I guess I just look at the quality of those who did respond.

I'm a nervous one here. I've connected with escorts for

a while but overnights have been with only those who I have

a comfort levelwith. So I now bring someone here, who is

sweet and cuddly but no one I've spent overnight before and

now have him here for a long period of time. That's me a worry

person..thanks, Rocky

[Juan Vancouver]

Dear Rocky,

 

In your post you say that you don't know what to do next, that you are worried about not keeping up with him... I have the impression that you are afraid of not being entertaining enough for him.

 

Worry not. If you chose carefully, he is a professional. He will entertain YOU.

 

He is there to adapt and merge into your own rythm, he is there to find out with you what the best options are. He is there to make this process easy, enjoyable, pleasurable. You are already paying a lot of cash to on top of that have to sweat and worry about it.

 

Relax.

 

Communicate.

 

Enjoy.

 

Have a great time, man!

[rocky]

Thanks Juan. Not sure why I'm so nervous maybe because

I'm entertaining at home. He's never given anything

but reassurance about this weekend. But again, what

can I do to make it a success???

[JT Brooklyn]

Rocky, You have met each other...It's not a "Fantasy Hookup", where you're taking a chance on a Fun Time with a PHOTO!!! Sometimes Fantasie's should be left at just that... a Fantasy!....

 

But this isn't your Situation, Be Yourself, you'll have a Great Time! :P

[+ deej]

>what can I do to make it a success???

 

Relax and enjoy it, and each other.

 

The best way to spoil a good time is to fret over it. :-(

[Rick Munroe]

>I can't parade him around town, I'm not out,

>sleeping all weekend isnt' great

 

Hey, don't knock sleeping all weekend. I get some of my best work done that way. }(