Contacting Escorts

[mmk]

How many times should one try to contact an escort before they should not bother anymore when they do not get a response?

 

I am going to be in San Francisco in a few weeks and I did plan on meeting up with some escorts out there. I narrowed the list down to four escorts. All four escorts are very well reviewed here. As it so happens, all of these escorts are located in both SF and other cities. I have emailed all of them to see if they would be in the SF area at that time. I did here back from 3 of the 4 and already have an apppointment with one of them.

 

Well, the other one that I would really want to hook up with is the one that I have not heard back from. I did email this escort late Sunday night to ask him if he would be in the SF area when I would be there and that I would like to see if he was available for an appointment and have not heard back from him.

 

This escort also has a pager number and I was considering paging him to see if he would be available. If he is not going to be in SF when I will be there, then I do not think that emailing a response saying "yes I will be there" or "no I will not" is to big a task.

 

I do not want to seem bitchy but if he is not available then I would like to make an appointment with another one.

 

Any words of wisdom would be welcomed and appreciated. Thanks alot!

[Guest]

Here's my opinion. If you're going to Bozeman, Montana, or some other town with one or few good escorts to choose from, then you're kind of stuck if you have to deal with an escort with a bit of an attitude. In a city like San Francisco, you could probably hire a great escort every day for a month and not see the same one twice.

When someone writes an e-mail to an escort expressing interest, well there's obviously a high probability the writer will be a client! The escort is selling himself, and someone is literally knocking at his door, for Christ's sake. Sending a brief (or lenghty) e-mail requires minimal effort, involves no marketing cost whatsoever, and simply shows simple good manners. All the guy has to say is "Yes, I'll be in town," "Sorry, I'll be out of town," or "I'm not sure, would you mind geting back to me": one of three simple possibilities.

Occasionally, an escort may truly be unable to access his e-mail for more than a few days. I suppose this would be true if he were going on an extended camping trip, or if he were a contestant on "Survivor." I doubt too many people north of the tropic of Cancer have been on extended camping trips recently. Even if he's on vacation, internet access is usually available even in 3rd world countries (quite cheaply, actually), unless one is climbing Mount Everest or something.

In most cases, though, I think that if an escort doesn't answer an e-mail you sent him (assuming you didn't pick an e-mail title designed to make him believe the e-mail was spam), you can assume one of two things. The simplest is that he may no longer be escorting. After all, most escorts aren't in it for that long a period. This possibility is more likely if there haven't been any reviews on the escort in over 6 months.

The other possibility is that the escort only wants to deal with people he thinks are going to hire him immediately. And then, probably only if it's convenient for him. Quite frankly, I think that even if the escort has retired, he owes the writer the courtesy of a simple e-mail "While I appreciate your interest, I'm retired from escorting at this time." In the second case scenario, however, the escort who doesn't answer his e-mail simply because he'll have to write down the appointment and/or reconfirm the appointment is being just plain rude, arrogant, and lazy.

I'm going on a trip in the not-too-distant future myself, and I wrote to a few escorts. One said "I'm out of town, would you mind contacting me next week," and guess what, I will. Some never answered, and guess what, I just moved on to one of the many other escorts in that town. Another answered politely, and I'm definitely hiring him.

I'm not sure who the escort is who didn't answer your e-mails, but I'll take a guess at Braeden Casey. I live in town, and had a hard time contacting him. He would literally take over a day to answer his pages, if he felt like it. Setting up an appointment was like pulling teeth. I finally did make an appointment with him, and yes he is hot, but he has an arrogant attitude, and, guess what. There are many, many great escorts in SF who will treat clients with respect.

I'm sorry this is such a long post, but to summarize, I think that, allowing for certain extenuating circumstances, escorts who don't answer their e-mails don't deserve my business and won't get it. But do title your e-mail "Escort booking request," not "Hello, it's Fred."

[Guest Thunderbuns]

>How many times should one try to contact an escort before

>they should not bother anymore when they do not get a

>response?

 

>I do not want to seem bitchy but if he is not available then

>I would like to make an appointment with another one.

 

>Any words of wisdom would be welcomed and appreciated.

 

And for this you need to seek advice????????

 

How do you ever get through a day, what with all the decisions to be made?

 

Thunderbuns

[Trixie]

I have to agree with the above post. As a denizen of the SF Bay Area, I can assure you that there are PLENTY of good escorts who'll happily answer your e-mails and be willing to hash out an appointment. Even if your requests are a tad unusual (as are mine) there's no good reason why they should ignore you.

Should you want any help, feel free to contact me directly, and I'll do my best to hook you up with a winner.

[mmk]

Not so much advice Thunderbuns, but just some insight. I get through every day life fine but booking and contacting escorts is not a part of my daily routine.

[Guest Fin Fang Foom]

Three emails then "hasta la vista bay-BE".

 

However, I emailed Blake Harper FOUR TIMES (at his website email and his AOL screen name) and never received a reply. I guess he's too busy dumping his boyfriend, and out finding a replacement pornstar squeeze, to properly attend to his escort career.

 

And while I'm on Miss Harper, I have to share a quote date 4/4/02 from his website Journal:

 

(He's speaking of The Black Party)

"Watching Colton's facial reaction as he shot beer out of his ass onto the crowd below was a moment I would tell our grandchildren about. If we ever had grandchildren. It was a proud moment for me to be able to help the man I love realize a fantasy that he has always wanted to explore."

 

Where to begin....

 

Listen, I'm all for people realizing their fantasies and having fun and all that good stuff. However, (and you knew there'd be a "however", didn't you), I just wonder how long a relationship can last when one of your "proud moments" involves watching your lover assume a squatting position and then blow beer out of his ass onto a crowd of drugged-out Black Party zombies.

 

Pessimistically yours,

 

FFF

[+ Charlie]

It's always possible that the original email never got through; this happened to me recently when I tried to contact Rex Brant through the contact link on his website. When I didn't hear from him after a few days, I tried emailing directly, and got an immediate response. A second attempt, with a very clear subject (like "escort appointment") is always worth a try. Finally, you can try try phoning, since you may get him live; if he doesn't phone back when you leave a voice message, then I'd write him off.

[Guest jizzdepapi]

a buddy: pre-ejaculation?

 

Thanks, Fin. ROFLMAO!

 

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[guyinsf]

Yes, I wonder if that was a fantasy of everyone in the crowd below. Were they forewarned. I wouldn't be particularly interested in having someone shit beer all over me.

 

This reminds me of a story a friend told me in the mid 1990's. There was some weekly event at the Stud bar (I cannot recall that night's "name") wherein people acted out crucifixion and other blood scenes, some of which resulted in blood being splurted on the audience near the stage. Once someone knows what the scene is, it's obviously a consensual scene, but I couldn't help wondering how many people wandered into the Stud any given week only to have their health put at risk for some floor show.

[Guest Fin Fang Foom]

>There was some weekly event at the Stud bar (I

>cannot recall that night's "name") wherein people acted out

>crucifixion and other blood scenes, some of which resulted

>in blood being splurted on the audience near the stage.

 

 

And we're astonished that they don't want us to adopt children.

 

Sardonically yours,

 

FFF

[+ Axiom2001]

>How many times should one try to contact an escort before

>they should not bother anymore when they do not get a

>response?

>

>I am going to be in San Francisco in a few weeks and I did

>plan on meeting up with some escorts out there. I narrowed

>the list down to four escorts. All four escorts are very

>well reviewed here. As it so happens, all of these escorts

>are located in both SF and other cities. I have emailed all

>of them to see if they would be in the SF area at that time.

> I did here back from 3 of the 4 and already have an

>apppointment with one of them.

>

>Well, the other one that I would really want to hook up with

>is the one that I have not heard back from. I did email

>this escort late Sunday night to ask him if he would be in

>the SF area when I would be there and that I would like to

>see if he was available for an appointment and have not

>heard back from him.

>

>This escort also has a pager number and I was considering

>paging him to see if he would be available. If he is not

>going to be in SF when I will be there, then I do not think

>that emailing a response saying "yes I will be there" or "no

>I will not" is to big a task.

>

>I do not want to seem bitchy but if he is not available then

>I would like to make an appointment with another one.

>

>Any words of wisdom would be welcomed and appreciated.

>Thanks alot!

 

 

As you know--patience is a virtue. One SF escort whom I have seen four times and plan to see again is in Brazil; if he is the one--I don't know what arrangements he's made, for he plans to be there for the next two months--longer if necessary. Just thought I'd write this for you.

 

Secondly--someone mentioned that SF has many fine escorts; I've emailed three within the past two weeks, only to have had to cancel because of various and sundry valid reasons. All three emailed me in a timely manner--three or four days later.

 

Hope you enjoy the City by the Bay. I don't like the other tags that are associated with this fine lady of the day as well as the night!!

:-)

[Guest Ant415]

RE: a buddy: pre-ejaculation?

 

What brand of beer was it? That would make a lot of difference to those reading.