You CAN learn from porn!

[WoolCave]

I was born in 1983. As I was coming of age, there was a real gap in gay mentorship because of the AIDS Epidemic and I was left to figure a lot of stuff out about sex on my own. I overcomplicated and missed out on a lot in my youth. I often turned to porn to try and learn things but it never worked for me….  Until last night. 
 

I’m stuck in a hotel in Brazil because of a missed flight. A man messaged me on Grindr with a fantasy. He’s a married man that’s a dom top, but he has this fantasy of being “an oral sub slut.”  He sends me a message (attached) and I instantly lose my boner because I think it’s all bullshit and he just wants to jerk off and chat.  
 

I was wrong.  15 minutes later in walks a beautiful tall, muscly German Brazilian daddy with his cock in a cage. I get excited because this is actually a porn scenario that I regularly enjoy jerking off to and figure maybe I got this.

oooooo I got it.

I dominated the fuck out of his mouth and I really enjoyed it. I followed all the rules he had set.  During a break from skullfucking, I convinced the front desk clerk to come in and use his mouth too.  I’ll never forget the look on his face when the door opened and he panicked.  I held his neck, told him to look at me and whispered what was about to happen to him. That he was such a good sub slut that I’m giving him another cock to swallow. His fear turned to wide eyed lust and gratitude.  
 

I won’t go into great detail, but the gist is that I never would have known what to do with this man if I hadn’t watched the scenario play out dozens of times in porn and really understood what this dude wanted from me and for himself. I’d have deprived myself of the pleasure of using another man solely for my gratification without feeling selfish. Afterwards he raved about how well it played out and it was better than imagined and having another stranger use his throat was more than he dreamed of.
 

I can’t  think of another time that porn actually taught me how to carry out some other sexual scenario, everything I learned I’ve gotten from another partner.  In fact, porn has often done the opposite and given me a false sense of what sex and fetishes look like.

Thoughts? 

 

Edited 4 hours ago by WoolCave