Looking for something specific

[Reggyreg56]

I am looking for an escort that is ok with "side" activity or who would actually prefer it. Anyone have any recommendations?

[SecretProvider]

Helpful hint - BE SPECIFIC. What side activity?  Asking for something vague/ambiguous is not going to help you.  It is as helpful as pissing in the wind. 

[Connosieurhands]

Why would that be weird? For most providers, “side” activity would precede penetration anyway. Just be specific about what you’re looking to do. 

[+ Gar1eth]

1 hour ago, Reggyreg56 said:

I am looking for an escort that is ok with "side" activity or who would actually prefer it. Anyone have any recommendations?

If you're describing a situation where rhe escort doesn't have to top or bottom, I'm betting most would be fine with it as unless the side activities you are interested in are extremely strenuous, not having to top or bottom would be a lot less wear and tear on them. 

[DMonDude]

Yeah this shouldn't be an issue for most escorts. Just say hey i'm interested in side/oral play, and i'd maybe say to also confirm they are ok with giving as much as receiving. I remember i once hit a string of escorts who all listed oral and rimming as their intos but were actually only ok with receiving (RM really should make giving and receiving for some of those activities be separate tags). So you should specifically make sure they're ok reciprocating the side activities.

[nomad]

6 minutes ago, DMonDude said:

I remember i once hit a string of escorts who all listed oral and rimming as their intos but were actually only ok with receiving (RM really should make giving and receiving for some of those activities be separate tags).

💯 Couldn't agree more.

Edited 4 hours ago by nomad

[Jeeper84]

I can say from personal experience that they're virtually all predisposed to side activity.  I can count on one hand the number of providers with whom I've bottomed (my preferred orientation) while the rest of them were more than happy to oblige (and very well) all the other stuff outside of intercourse.  Just tell the individual what you want upfront and you can specify you're not looking to fuck -- they're cool with that.

[Reggyreg56]

1 hour ago, DMonDude said:

Yeah this shouldn't be an issue for most escorts. Just say hey i'm interested in side/oral play, and i'd maybe say to also confirm they are ok with giving as much as receiving. I remember i once hit a string of escorts who all listed oral and rimming as their intos but were actually only ok with receiving (RM really should make giving and receiving for some of those activities be separate tags). So you should specifically make sure they're ok reciprocating the side activities.

That makes a lot of sense. Thank you.

[Reggyreg56]

32 minutes ago, Jeeper84 said:

I can say from personal experience that they're virtually all predisposed to side activity.  I can count on one hand the number of providers with whom I've bottomed (my preferred orientation) while the rest of them were more than happy to oblige (and very well) all the other stuff outside of intercourse.  Just tell the individual what you want upfront and you can specify you're not looking to fuck -- they're cool with that.

Thanks so much! 

[Reggyreg56]

33 minutes ago, Jeeper84 said:

I can say from personal experience that they're virtually all predisposed to side activity.  I can count on one hand the number of providers with whom I've bottomed (my preferred orientation) while the rest of them were more than happy to oblige (and very well) all the other stuff outside of intercourse.  Just tell the individual what you want upfront and you can specify you're not looking to fuck -- they're cool with that.

Thank you!