+ 7829V Posted April 26 Posted April 26 https://rentmasseur.com/ApexMassage He's used all these names... Grant (most commonly referenced) Taylor Brent Grant CMT CertifiedTouch XLHands KidZeus (older profile reference) ApexMassage (current profile name) Escort / older alias Jack Lyons AI Summary of ALL threads on this guy in here... https://www.companyofmen.org/search/?q=CertifiedTouch&quick=1 The quick 411 on Grant / ApexMassage Short version: great hands, strong legit massage, but inconsistent personality and mixed reliability. He seems to be one of those guys where if the chemistry is right, people rave… and if not, people leave annoyed. Basic profile 47, muscular, good-looking “guy next door” type 16+ years experience Certified masseur Strong reputation for deep pressure / strong hands Verified photos Travels to San Diego regularly (your window: May 8–12) People consistently describe him as: handsome / matches photos strong therapeutic massage quiet, reserved, sometimes shy sometimes sensual/interactive depending on vibe not always easy to read What reviews say The good A lot of repeat clients say: “excellent strong massage” “one of the strongest hands” “great massage” “sweet guy” “highly recommend” “awesome massage” Several people said they booked him 10+ times and had no issue contacting him. One reviewer said he’s a legit LMT and “it shows.” Some reported sessions became more interactive/sensual naturally, while others said it stayed professional. So from a pure bodywork standpoint: he seems genuinely skilled. The bad Main complaints: 1. Mood swings / inconsistency This is the biggest red flag. Examples: one visit: nude, interactive, great next visit: fully clothed, strictly legit, cold energy One reviewer literally said: “I’ll leave it for others to find out which personality will show up next.” That’s not ideal when you’re paying premium rates. 2. Slow replies / ghosting Some say: responds fast always on top of texting Others say: never replies ignores texts disappears after initial contact So booking him can be hit-or-miss. 3. Selective / discriminatory vibes This came up A LOT. Repeated mentions of: “height-weight proportionate” “small to medium guys only” “not hairy” alleged refusal of Asian clients Some users reported he directly said he wouldn’t take Asians; others (including Asian clients) said he did see them. So it’s inconsistent, but enough people mentioned it that I’d treat it as a real concern. That part is honestly the biggest character red flag. 4. Sometimes too legit / not sensual Some expected sensual and got: basically a high-end spa massage only. One person described it as: “Burke Williams without the spa” Meaning: good massage, but don’t assume extras. My honest recommendation Should you hire him? YES — if: you mainly want a strong, quality massage you like masculine, quiet, reserved guys you’re okay with some unpredictability you don’t mind paying more for looks + strong hands NO — if: you want guaranteed sensual energy you hate flaky communication you’re sensitive to attitude/vibe issues you want warm, easygoing, super consistent service My blunt verdict I’d rate him: 7/10 — cautiously Massage skill: 8.5/10 Reliability: 5.5/10 Personality consistency: 5/10 Overall gamble factor: medium-high He feels like a “could be amazing, could be awkward” booking. Personally? I’d only book him if: communication beforehand feels good and expectations are very clear If texting already feels weird, I’d move on—there are too many good options in San Diego to gamble on bad energy. dingteal and BigDMike 1 1
sportymilguy Posted Tuesday at 07:39 PM Posted Tuesday at 07:39 PM Dang, he is my type of guy lol, but if the interest isn't mutual...no sense in barking up the wrong tree. How has he filtered potential clients? I've rarely been asked to submit a photo, but don't mind doing so.
+ 7829V Posted Tuesday at 08:37 PM Author Posted Tuesday at 08:37 PM 57 minutes ago, sportymilguy said: Dang, he is my type of guy lol, but if the interest isn't mutual...no sense in barking up the wrong tree. How has he filtered potential clients? I've rarely been asked to submit a photo, but don't mind doing so. So, this is what the AI said based on all the info available about this guy. From the reviews, he seems to “filter” clients pretty heavily—sometimes openly, sometimes just by going quiet. Reported filters 1. Body type / weight This came up the most. People saw disclaimers like: “height-weight proportionate” “small to medium-sized guys only” “for in shape men only” “not hairy” One person said he even asked their weight first, supposedly because “my table can only accommodate so much weight,” then asked for a photo after hearing the number. The reviewer felt it was really about appearance, not the massage table. Another said: “Please be height-weight proportionate and not hairy” So yes—he appears to screen for physique. 2. Ethnicity (especially Asian clients) This is the most controversial part. Multiple posters claimed he: would not take Asian clients said directly “I don’t do Asian” hung up after hearing they were Asian Others said: “I’m Asian and he took me” “I’m 3/4 Chinese and had a good experience” So it wasn’t universal, but enough people repeated it that it became a major theme in his reputation. 3. Hairiness / age Several mentions of: “not hairy” avoiding “hairy old men” Again, this ties back to appearance-based screening. 4. Chemistry / attraction A lot of people felt he preferred clients he was personally attracted to, not just paying customers. Comments like: “he only wanted clients he’d be attracted to” better experiences happened for conventionally attractive/in-shape guys some said if he liked you, the session became much more sensual and interactive If he wasn’t into the client, the session could turn very “strictly legit.” 5. Communication filtering Sometimes instead of saying no, he’d: stop replying ignore texts cancel become vague Basically soft rejection instead of direct rejection. My blunt read He seems less like: “professional massage therapist for everyone” and more like: “I choose who I want on my table.” That works for some clients, but it definitely rubbed others the wrong way. Honestly, if someone has to wonder “am I his type?” before booking, that usually kills the relaxing part of the massage before it even starts. sportymilguy 1
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