When a provider reaches out

[TJMS]

I generally thank them for their time and mention how I enjoyed myself. Most often, I receive a response which leads to another engagement. I have only had one experience, which although not bad, I would not want to re-engage with that particular provider because they didn't deliver the complete experience I was looking for. 

[Mk27]

Dear penthouse. I never thought this would happen to me.     The guy I paid. Is sooooo into me he wants more.    Now what do I do ?

[+ DrownedBoy]

On 10/13/2025 at 8:42 AM, Peter Eater said:

It just means the rent is due.

Yup. The "influencer" provider I had a bad session with needed more money and contacted me a year later to make "amends." After he walked out halfway through the session, where he spent the first half on Instagram and calling friends.

As much as I wanted to say "Like hell," I politely pretended I was someone else.

[+ claym]

55 minutes ago, DrownedBoy said:

Yup. The "influencer" provider I had a bad session with needed more money and contacted me a year later to make "amends." After he walked out halfway through the session, where he spent the first half on Instagram and calling friends.

As much as I wanted to say "Like hell," I politely pretended I was someone else.

He who laughs last laughs best.

[harlow]

I use the Burner app until I'm comfortable giving my actual number.  It's really helpful because there's one provider in Atlanta that would bug the absolute shit out of me to meet again.  I met him a few times and had a decent time with him but the constant bugging me repeatedly to meet again got on my nerves.  I ended up just blocking him.

Like others have said I'm totally cool with a "I'm coming to your area" texts or even the occasional holiday wish or notifying me of a new number.  To me that is totally fine and acceptable.  But don't text me every 2 weeks asking me to set up an appointment.