"Straight" Escorts?

[Guest TexasTaurus]

Is there really such a thing? This is a fantasy of mine and I know that, by definition, such an escort would be strictly a top but that would be OK with me. I have met several here in Dallas that claim to be straight but doubt that they are.

 

Does anyone else have this fantasy? Does anyone know any escorts here in Texas that are truly "straight" or should I just give up and get over it?

[Guest DCescortBOY]

he wouldn't necessarily be a top by DEFINITION.

by definition, if he's having sex with guys at all, he's not STRICTLY SPEAKING straight.

but, i know of a lot of straight guys who love it when their women play with their asses.

tops are no closer to straight than bottoms.

[+ deej]

It's not a fantasy for me, but it's certainly available. I've seen ads for "str8" escorts willing to "get serviced".

 

The whole question of "gay 4 pay" is one that ignites pretty strong emotions on both sides. If a guy is willing to suck cock (or get fucked) for money, is he really str8? Maybe. Or maybe the money is his "permission" to try the other side.

 

I've been chatting with porn stars recently and feelings run the gamut. Some really resent the gay4pay crowd, others enjoy fucking their brains out while their girlfriends watch in some sort of twisted "take that" game.

 

Personally, I don't belive a completely str8 guy will have sex with men for money or even when drunk. There's some bi-ness in there if he'll do it at all but he won't admit it. Others will disagree with me, I'm sure.

 

As with everything about humans, your mileage may vary.

[Guest WetDream]

"tops are no closer to straight than bottoms"

 

Bravo, DC! This is one of the truest things you've said on this board.

[Guest]

Actually, if someone can not only get it hard but keep it hard for a guy (with a condom on), it would be hard to imagine he's straight. So I would say that any escort who tops is NOT gay, by definition (or he has a wildly cooperative dick--mine's pretty darned obedient, but I don't think I could keep it up for a woman, especially with a condom). In general, escorts who advertize as straight tend to not be good lays, in my book. If they admit to it their ad, especially, don't expect any warmth, nor should you expect him to be either a good top, bottom, or sucker. He might get hard if you suck on him (maybe while he watches straight porn). I've never intentionally hired a straight escort, but I've had the unpleasant experience of hiring a guy only to discover he needs to watch straight porn during the session (or worse, refuse to do just about anything during the session).

One can hire escorts who are masculine without being straight. Perhaps that would appeal to you? I'd be curious to hear from anyone who's hired an escort who advertizes as "straight," and had a good time.

[Guest JON1265]

Well if you're ever in New York..go the Gaiety and have all the str8 men you want fuck you over...oopps....I mean fuck you.....

 

Jon

[Guest ChicagoCorey]

>I'd be curious

>to hear from anyone who's

>hired an escort who advertizes

>as "straight," and had a

>good time.

 

I was hired to work with another guy and was apprehensive to work with him because he advertised as "straight" -- we had a good time though, we're compatible, and put on a good show. However, because there was an extra guy there (a threesome rather than a couple), that may have made it "less personal" and therefore something that made him more comfortable.

 

>Actually, if someone can not only

>get it hard but keep

>it hard for a guy

>(with a condom on), it

>would be hard to imagine

>he's straight.

 

I understand what you're saying here, but it just gets into the worthlessness of labels. I can have sex -- good sex -- good stay hard sex with women. So I could call myself bisexual. But I don't because I feel more gay, I feel more strongly towards men. I can imagine another guy feeling the same way -- he prefers men but can do it with women. So he doesn't see anything wrong with calling himself "straight"

 

It's sounds so passe to say "labels are meaningless" but you know what, labels are meaningless.

 

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[Guest ChicagoCorey]

I'm a tool.

 

When I said the following above:

 

>I can imagine

>another guy feeling the same

>way -- he prefers men

>but can do it with

>women. So he doesn't

>see anything wrong with calling

>himself "straight"

>

 

I, of course, meant that he "prefers WOMEN but can do it with MEN." Apparently my gender lines are all fucked up this weekend. Damned labels.

 

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[ted]

Viagra works wonders these days as most of the guys at the Gaiety will attest-if they're honest

[seeker630]

Fun to think about! is everyone/anyone who performs a homosexual act 'gay'? I tend to think that 'gay' is a matter of being *attracted to*(turned on by) same-sex partners.

[Guest CZ]

I've had sex with straight guys all my life (that's a pretty long time) and they're the only guys I ever hire these days. I realize that the sort of scene I like (totally non-reciprocal, with them watching video & me working on them) puts me in a distinct minority around here, but remember, out in the world at large there are plenty of others who share my tastes.

 

In my experience, truly straight guys very rarely advertise in gay magazines & newspapers. In fact, they rarely advertise at all, and I don't think the internet has changed things much in this regard. In the good old days (in New York & other big cities) male madams used to supply clients like me with a steady stream of incredibly hot and otherwise unattainable guys. (If you look at vintage beefcake pix from the 50s & 60s you can get a fair idea of the kind of numbers I'm talking about.)

 

All that more or less ended (along with so much else) with the advent of AIDS. That's why, when places like Rounds & Cowboys finally closed, no bars took their place: the traditional talent pool (top-quality blue collar guys from Jersey, Brooklyn, Long Island, & the US hinterlands) had virtually dried up by then, & the younger generation of studs recoiled in horror at the thought of so risky a way of making money. (Today, New York's only hustler bar, Stella's, shows barely a trace of oldtime trade, and makes do with naturally switch-hitting Latinos and drugged-out desperados.)

 

Then we have the Gaiety. While I certainly can (and do) find attractive str8 playmates there, it's a much more expensive hobby than I can indulge in regularly, so I can't help but be wistful for the old days.

 

As for labels & definitions as discussed above, I'd say any straight guy who's willing to have sex with another guy is clearly involved in a homosexual act, but I don't agree at all that he thus betrays any more propensity to be 'gay' or 'bi' than one who wouldn't for all the money in the world. I have a very simple way of figuring out someone's innate sexuality: just tell me what he wacks off to and I tell you what he 'is'.

 

One final comment. I thought it was well known that Viagra will help a guy to get (and maintain) a hard on, but only if he's sexually excited in the first place. Well known or not, that's a fact--so it really couldn't be of much use to someone who needs to be 'gay for pay' in the absence of his usual and preferred erotic stimulation.

[Guest DCescortBOY]

stop the presses!!!!!!

i agree with deej

[Guest jizzdepapi]

well, there's always the case of straight men who close their eyes. that MAY keep them on the straight and narrow, i think.

 

jizz

[Guest jizzdepapi]

HAH!! Whose Hand Is That, Anyway?

 

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[guyinsf]

I think lots of gay guys enjoy straight and/or bi born. I've watched my share and not only don't identify as bi or straight, but I've never had sex with a woman and don't want to. I simply sometimes like to watch straight porn.

 

>I have a very simple way of figuring out someone's innate

>sexuality: just tell me what he wacks off to and I tell

>you what he 'is'.

>

 

I don't think one needs to be (psychologically) sexually excited for Viagra to work. What is required is some sort of sexual *stimulation*. In other words, just popping a Viagra does not cause an erection. But if you start groping or sucking on a man's dick after he has taken Viagra, the Viagra enhances that man's erectile potential. At least that's my understanding of it.

 

>One final comment. I thought it was well known that Viagra

>will help a guy to get (and maintain) a hard on, but only if

>he's sexually excited in the first place. Well known or not,

>that's a fact--so it really couldn't be of much use

>to someone who needs to be 'gay for pay' in the absence of his

>usual and preferred erotic stimulation.

[Rod Hagen]

>I've had sex with straight guys

>all my life

 

Roll on the floor laughing my ass off.

 

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[Guest CZ]

>I think lots of gay guys

>enjoy straight and/or bi born.

> I've watched my share

>and not only don't identify

>as bi or straight, but

>I've never had sex with

>a woman and don't want

>to. I simply sometimes

>like to watch straight porn.

>

 

But why do you like to watch it? To see the gals? (Apparently not.) Anyway, when I mentioned wanting to know what someone wacked off to, I didn't necessarily mean what sort of porn they looked at, but what they would fantasize about in the absence of porn. I think most of us have our private stock of mental images and memories we can draw on for that purpose; so knowing what thoses images and memories are ought to tell you pretty conclusively whether a guy is 'straight' or 'gay.' When we fantasize, we never lie about our sexual desires--not even to ourselves.

 

>

>I don't think one needs to

>be (psychologically) sexually excited for

>Viagra to work. What

>is required is some sort

>of sexual *stimulation*

 

You're right about that. Viagra would enhance a purely physical response to physical stimulsation, so it probably IS useful to guys in gay-for-pay situations.

 

BTW, anybody here know why the Lean Dream is rolling around on the floor & laughing?

[Guest TexasTaurus]

I wish I had said it that well!

 

Yes, when I was younger and we didn't know about AIDS, we "serviced" a lot of "straight" dick. Truck drivers, soldiers, construction workers, oil field workers in West Texas (WOW), etc. But those days, while not completely over, are rapidly disappearing.

 

Today it is "PC" to say that everyone you "have sex with" must hold you, kiss you, reciprocate, etc. instead of "serving" their needs instead of the woman they don't have right then. And while I enjoy all those things with the right man, I also enjoy the other.

 

Not PC but, what the hell, it's my thing.

[Guest WetDream]

I think that there is a higher liklihood of picking up a "straight" guy on the street than there is in getting one through the ads or on the Internet. I recently had a thrilling experience with an ex-Marine I picked up hitching his way up to Alaska to work as a commercial fisherman. I know I wasn't the first guy he had climbed into the sack with, but it was a new experience for him to stand on the street and offer up his body. I nearly came when he asked, "Would you like me to suck your cock, sir?"

[Guest JON1265]

I met so many "str8t" guys off the internet it's not even funny.......labels aside...I always (to me anyway) thought that being gay or str8 was more about the "whole" package. Can you envision yourself in a relationship with a man? Giving yourself over emotionally and physically? If you can then I think you are gay, or bi if you can do that with both a man and a woman.

 

BUT I would NEVER pay a str8t escort for that....I can still get str8 guys off the internet, in an adult bookstore, or a men's room. That's where they all hang out.

 

Personally I find the vagina revolting, and can no more imagine myself with a wife/gf than I can setting myself on fire. I am 110% pure gay male..never had pussy...never will.

 

I believe it was Sandra Bernhard who said that the world is made of of 10% strt8s, 10% gays, and 80% who fall in the middle...which would be bi I guess....those figures work for me...IMHO of course.....

 

Jon

[Guest cp8036]

Two possible bumper stickers:

 

"Straight to Bed"

"Bi now, gay later"