Serious Bodywork + Serious Fun in the Same Provider?

[Chien Andalou]

This has likely been addressed before, so someone with better search skills than me (or who has memorized every thread) can share receipts and show me up. Anyway:

I have experienced some really deep, therapeutic bodywork in my day. I’m talking physical therapy, deep muscle work, etc.  I have also had some experiences where I was like, “Wow! That was fantastic. Was there a massage?” as I gargled in the bathroom afterwards. I can think of only a few instances where they happened with the same person at the same time. 

Do any of you have massage therapists you can recommend who excel in both genuine therapeutic bodywork and uninhibited fun? Feel free to DM me. 

[+ 7829V]

2 minutes ago, Chien Andalou said:

This has likely been addressed before, so someone with better search skills than me (or who has memorized every thread) can share receipts and show me up. Anyway:

I have experienced some really deep, therapeutic bodywork in my day. I’m talking physical therapy, deep muscle work, etc.  I have also had some experiences where I was like, “Wow! That was fantastic. Was there a massage?” as I gargled in the bathroom afterwards. I can think of only a few instances where they happened with the same person at the same time. 

Do any of you have massage therapists you can recommend who excel in both genuine therapeutic bodywork and uninhibited fun? Feel free to DM me. 

What area?

[Chien Andalou]

I’m in the SF Bay Area. I thought enough providers and clients travel we might want to know about all areas. My tastes also run to “conventionally attractive.”

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

3 hours ago, Chien Andalou said:

I’m in the SF Bay Area. I thought enough providers and clients travel we might want to know about all areas. My tastes also run to “conventionally attractive.”

I know a man who fits that description perfectly:

Fantastic deep tissue massage that works out every not, combined with mind-blowing sex with his hung package.

He's "conventionally attractive", tall, white, blue eyes, silver hair, late 50s/early 60s, straight teeth, no tattoos. 😍

However, he has told me he won't travel to San Francisco again.

I would mention his name, but we can't discuss masseurs that provided sex as part of a session, per the Company of Men rules (it would compromise the masseur's livelihood).

Edited July 26 by Vegas_Millennial

[+ KensingtonHomo]

There are some in NYC for sure if you ever head this way. 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

My top guys are in NYC, Dallas, and Ft Lauderdale.  All are discussed here, with their home cities mentioned in the subject line to make it easy to search when traveling.

[panpanda]

I used to go see Pan in SF when I traveled a lot to the Bay Area. Not sure if he's still around

[Simon Suraci]

You might try searching the Spas and Masseurs section using keyword SF and/or San Francisco. I’ve heard many good providers are located in SF. Your search would turn up many results for you to read through and help you develop a shortlist. Do some research and then share your shortlist with links to the masseur ads and ask for members’ input on the options.

A separate thread with a title specifying the area you are looking in SF would get the right people to view it. Asking the whole country and beyond to give you personalized recommendations to your local area is probably not going to yield the targeted info you seek.

As to your more general topic of masseurs who offer equally skilled therapy, extras and sexual favors, many providers across the country would fit the bill. To your point, it is difficult to find masseurs that provide the whole shebang with equal skill - at any price point.

You may want to clarify what your expectations are regarding pricing. So many clients here want or expect a high level of sex work services with a skilled therapeutic massage, but for massage pricing. Quite a few providers fit the bill, but they tend to charge equitable rates in line with going sex work rates for their services. You will hear stories on here bragging about how clients got sex work services for massage prices, but this isn’t the norm.

Expect to pay equitable rates for sex work, especially for a quality provider delivering a high level of skill on both fronts, precisely because they are so valuable, desirable, and good at what they do.

If you expand this topic to cover outside your local area, I bet you would get some more responses from clients discussing their favorites in their local areas and frequent travel destinations.

[Chien Andalou]

20 hours ago, panpanda said:

I used to go see Pan in SF when I traveled a lot to the Bay Area. Not sure if he's still around

I used to see Pan as well. He hasn’t updated his pics since about 1893, so I don’t know what he looks like anymore. He was sure beautiful though. I recall his massage being decidedly okay but not on a par with what I was discussing. 

[Chien Andalou]

On 7/26/2025 at 4:48 PM, Simon Suraci said:

You might try searching the Spas and Masseurs section using keyword SF and/or San Francisco. I’ve heard many good providers are located in SF. Your search would turn up many results for you to read through and help you develop a shortlist. Do some research and then share your shortlist with links to the masseur ads and ask for members’ input on the options.

A separate thread with a title specifying the area you are looking in SF would get the right people to view it. Asking the whole country and beyond to give you personalized recommendations to your local area is probably not going to yield the targeted info you seek.

As to your more general topic of masseurs who offer equally skilled therapy, extras and sexual favors, many providers across the country would fit the bill. To your point, it is difficult to find masseurs that provide the whole shebang with equal skill - at any price point.

You may want to clarify what your expectations are regarding pricing. So many clients here want or expect a high level of sex work services with a skilled therapeutic massage, but for massage pricing. Quite a few providers fit the bill, but they tend to charge equitable rates in line with going sex work rates for their services. You will hear stories on here bragging about how clients got sex work services for massage prices, but this isn’t the norm.

Expect to pay equitable rates for sex work, especially for a quality provider delivering a high level of skill on both fronts, precisely because they are so valuable, desirable, and good at what they do.

If you expand this topic to cover outside your local area, I bet you would get some more responses from clients discussing their favorites in their local areas and frequent travel destinations.

Thank you, Simon, for your characteristically thoughtful response. I always enjoy your input. Your treatise on ass eating (with illustrations no less!) was a masterwork. I plan to incorporate some of your pointers into my own rim work.

i agree with you about looking for escorts who also provide bodywork. This is a twofer, which should be compensated accordingly.
 

It does bring up one of my pet peeves, which is “strictly-therapeutic” masseurs who think they should be paid as much as erotic ones. I’m sorry, but there is a “nudity premium.” If you’re wearing sweats and a hoodie and they’re staying on, and nobody’s dick gets tugged, you shouldn’t expect the same compensation. Full stop. And clients are guilty for agreeing to pay it. I don’t care how good the massage is, if you’re asking $200 an hour or more there needs to be something more.